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nwando
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This is from a sister who cares about her fellow sisters.
I don see things and hear tori for America
Beware of some Nigerian men coming home from the USA and Europe looking for wives.
All that glitters is not gold.
Many ladies have broken engagements from worthy suitors for "men abroad" only to arrive here and find out that Okeke is a pizza delivery man not a business man or that the rich neighborhood he lived in was a mouldy basement in someone's house.
This is a warning from a kind lady who loves her Nigerian brothers but will not spare the wayo ones using and abusing naive girls desperate to flee Nigeria at all costs.
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R-Dynamite (f)
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lmao. .  BO, thanks  |
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Gamine (f)
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Thank you o maram  We dey hear! lol, Chai, the things people will do oo. , . . |
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Blatant
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What exactly is wrong with Okeke being a pizza delivery boy or wanting to get married?
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tpia
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you guys are missing the point. Okeke may have lied about his occupation to the prospective bride. Could be delivery man, security guard or cab driver saying he's a doctor, lawyer or important business man abroad. Nothing wrong with any of these occupations, but why lie to someone you say you care about and want to marry. What about when she discovers the reality. The wife arrives joyfully overseas only to discover her dream prince is actually the opposite. Nothing wrong with that, except he shouldnt have deceived her in the first place. happens a lot. There's a story somewhere about someone whose girlfriend is thinking of sponsoring their entire wedding and engagement since the guy has no money. Some girls don't mind these kind of things, as long as the man is telling the truth.  |
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romeo (m)
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you guys are missing the point. Okeke may have lied about his occupation to the prospective bride. Could be delivery man, security guard or cab driver saying he's a doctor, lawyer or important business man abroad. Nothing wrong with any of these occupations, but why lie to someone you say you care about and want to marry. What about when she discovers the reality. The wife arrives joyfully overseas only to discover her dream prince is actually the opposite. Nothing wrong with that, except he shouldnt have deceived her in the first place. happens a lot. There's a story somewhere about someone whose girlfriend is thinking of sponsoring their entire wedding and engagement since the guy has no money. Some girls don't mind these kind of things, as long as the man is telling the truth. What exactly is your bizness with that? If a girl marries me because i am in Europe or because i have some money to throw around, then that is her Bizness. I don't know any guy that lies to the wife to be knowing that they will live together under the same roof. Some guys might lie to babes just for a fling, but not for marriage. Except if the poster was a victim of that or knew a victim of that. All those pizza boys and cleaners do not ride okada in Nigeria like their counterparts that work in offices, coupled with their big houses and their big mortgage debt that they pay through the nose. hahahaha  nonsense thread my sister Nwando |
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ifyalways (f)
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This is from a sister who cares about her fellow sisters.
I don see things and hear tori for America
Beware of some Nigerian men coming home from the USA and Europe looking for wives.
All that glitters is not gold.
Many ladies have broken engagements from worthy suitors for "men abroad" only to arrive here and find out that Okeke is a pizza delivery man not a business man or that the rich neighborhood he lived in was a mouldy basement in someone's house.
This is a warning from a kind lady who loves her Nigerian brothers but will not spare the wayo ones using and abusing naive girls desperate to flee Nigeria at all costs.
nice talk but Yet,If a girl decides to break her engagement with any home based suitor because of a dude from America,then its her cross to carry.whatever comes out of it,she has to endure,manage or/and even enjoy. There is really nothing wrong with being a delivery man or even a vendor.its better than being a Robber.as long as there is food on the table,bills are paid and TLC for the wifewhat else  my humble opinion sha. |
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R-Dynamite (f)
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Tpia, got that right. You guys are getting it twisted. I live in Europe and Romeo I'm sure you'll testify to what I have to say. These guys are big time drug dealers here in Europe but when they go back home they say they're working in a company or that their business is "shipping and clearing" . When the girl now finally gets married and finds out her hubby is a drug dealer, ummm. . . that's a story for another day entirely.
BO, is sounding a warning because she cares. If a man told me he was a hotel manager in NY and I end up finding out he is actually the hotel cab driver, I'll be pissed! No two ways about it. It's not wrong for Okeke or Ngbafor to be a pizza man but he shouldn't lie about it. If a girl don't like the way you are and what you do then make she carry go. There are girls who love pizza a lot
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D-reloaded (f)
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osisi, gist us with real examples |
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naija_diva (f)
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that is so true. i know someone who is a cab driver here in america but he went back home to find a wife. he met this lady, and they've been talking for a while. he told her that he was a lawyer and drives a mercedes. but he didn't know that the lady was a gold digger. she married him thinking that when she comes here, she is going to be living "the life". but of course that marriage didn't work because she found out that he was lying and she took the remaining money and bought a ticket back to nigeria and left the child that they had together with the man. and i haven't seen her again. but i think she came back to live here because they always go to court to decide who is going to pay child support.
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tempestous
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@nwando
omo, thanks for the info, jare. what some people will do for the sake of desperation
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nwando
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Friends and nairalanders including my bro Romeo,there is nothing wrong with cab driving,nothing wrong with "throwing" pizza and the Washington times at unholy hours. I am talking about men who visit home at Christmas time and Easter after their people have organised them a lorry full of girls to choose from. They change the little pounds and dollars they have and mesmerize these naive girls with supposed wealth,tell them lies. Before you say "Okija",his people are knocking on the door,traditional marriage in absentia ,her friends wearing ashoebi are "jealousing" her. Few months later Mgbafor is in South Central LA. Many girls have had rude awakenings. I'm just warning my sisters in Naija to ask questions and be cautious. I've been in America over a decade and I've heard stories upon stories and seen girls curse the pilot and plane that brougt them to JFK airport. |
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Radiant (f)
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seen girls curse the pilot and plane that brougt them to JFK airport.
Rofl. . . |
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nwando
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osisi, gist us with real examples where shall I begin ? The stories are just too numerous. The pizza story is a true one,a friend I met here in the USA married an 'Americana' supposedly an Engineer and arrived unexpectedly to find out he was a college drop out delivering pizza,doing fraud (akpuruka) on the side and sleeping on a friends couch. They have since divorced. A girl in my college days in Naija married this 'Americana' with 2 necks who came to the teaching hospital specifically looking for a doctor wife. The girl arrived here and found out everything she was told was a big lie. They've been divorced since |
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Radiant (f)
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LOL. . . America the great country! |
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spoilt (f)
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Too many nigerian girls have been deceived. These men actually encourage these girls to dig on them. They max out their credit cards to go home and 'shine'. These guys come around using money to do people shut-up.  Na wa oh. I always tell my friends never to marry long distance. these guys never tell the truth about what they really do.  |
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tRoOE (f)
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@topic
duh who doesn't know that only mumu and desperate ladies will fall for that crap
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nwando
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@topic
duh who doesn't know that only mumu and desperate ladies will fall for that crap well dear if that's what you call it,I'm sad to report that the mumu and desperate ladies (most of them college educated) may have out numbered the non mumu and non desperate ones since these stories are all too common. |
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toshmann (m)
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A girl in my college days in Naija married this 'Americana' with 2 necks who came to the teaching hospital specifically looking for a doctor wife.
The girl arrived here and found out everything she was told was a big lie.
They've been divorced since
as they divorce finish, the babe been return to naija? make una stop this sexism wey una de practice for here o BabyO you are a serious sand-for-garri expert  anybabe wey come abroad must take wetin she see, after all the dude came abroad with great hopes too only to jam palava. warning to nigerian men: beware of nigerian based women who claim to be qualified nurses, some of them are nurse-eliza and can't even write some of the exams that are necessary to practice in the states.by the way, nne, i'm about to seal my marriage we still have some problems though, religious one(she's catholic and i'm not) but we are working on it. i'll be in new jersey next week to see her parents wish me luck |
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LadyT (f)
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WOW congrats Toshmann, No contraception for you then. Dont worry I like kids you can send me two if it gets too much  |
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tRoOE (f)
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well dear if that's what you call it,I'm sad to report that the mumu and desperate ladies (most of them college educated) may have out numbered the non mumu and non desperate ones since these stories are all too common.
Well do you believe them when majority of them are trying to jand abroad to have a better life since the economic in Nigeria is beyond terrible.
Btw, it obvious they just got married to those men for papers, if they truly love their husbands, then they shouldn't have problem sticking behind him. Moreover he married and brought her abroad |
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D-reloaded (f)
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Lmao T toshmann is in for it. He'll end up with 15 children and mot Catholics don't believe in anything other than missionary. Lmao. Congrats tosh! |
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naija_diva (f)
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Well do you believe them when majority of them are trying to jand abroad to have a better life since the economic in Nigeria is beyond terrible.
Btw, it obvious they just got married to those men for papers, if they surly love their husbands, then they shouldn't have problem sticking behind him. Moreover he married and brought her abroad
whether or not its about love, i don't think that you have to lie just to impress someone. if u live a useless life, u live a useless life. if the woman doesn't appreciate you for who you are then you know she's not the one. and also the man shouldn't have to lie about the kind of life he lives because what if he meets someone who is truly genuine and is not after his money and she moves in with him just to find out that he's a strugling guy who can't afford crap. of course i would be pissed and pack my bags and leave. |
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nwando
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as they divorce finish, the babe been return to naija? make una stop this sexism wey una de practice for here o BabyO you are a serious sand-for-garri expert anybabe wey come abroad must take wetin she see, after all the dude came abroad with great hopes too only to jam palava. warning to nigerian men: beware of nigerian based women who claim to be qualified nurses, some of them are nurse-eliza and can't even write some of the exams that are necessary to practice in the states. by the way, nne, i'm about to seal my marriage we still have some problems though, religious one(she's catholic and i'm not) but we are working on it. i'll be in new jersey next week to see her parents
wish me luck Come and join me sing Halleluiaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Jehovah jireh has done me weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeellllll come and join me sing Halleluia ooooooooooo Jehovah nisi has done me weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeelllll come and see oo come and see come and see ooooooo come and see come and see what the Lord has done come and see what my God has done |
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echelon (m)
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@ nwando
Is it also true that most guys there come home to marry when they are ready for marriage, instead of getting mates there? I'm sure we have enough nigerian ladies there. I think you are making a case for these ladies, to stop the guys from looking homewards.
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tRoOE (f)
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whether or not its about love, i don't think that you have to lie just to impress someone. if u live a useless life, u live a useless life. if the woman doesn't appreciate you for who you are then you know she's not the one. and also the man shouldn't have to lie about the kind of life he lives because what if he meets someone who is truly genuine and is not after his money and she moves in with him just to find out that he's a strugling guy who can't afford crap. of course i would be pissed and pack my bags and leave.
First of all, most women back home enjoys to be deceived by men, they dislike hearing the truth. Whenever someone returns home from abroad, they automatically thinks he’s are rich without investigating how he became rich so fast or is source of money, Nigerian women back home want to get marry/date guys abroad because they are so materialistic and greedy. That is why they fall for those cheap lies
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nwando
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na so so wonders Jesus dey do na so so wonder Jesus dey do I say na so so wonders daddy dey do na so so wonders Jesus dey do eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee he has done it for me eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee he has done it for me ewooooooooooooooo he has done it fo moi na so so wonders Jesus dey do now all the single girls on nairaland can rest easy!
Toshmann is now entangledTosh I wish you well If you need help negotiating the bride price ,you know where to find me what shall I say unto the Lord all I want to say,thank you Lord |
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romeo (m)
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as they divorce finish, the babe been return to naija? make una stop this sexism wey una de practice for here o BabyO you are a serious sand-for-garri expert anybabe wey come abroad must take wetin she see, after all the dude came abroad with great hopes too only to jam palava. warning to nigerian men: beware of nigerian based women who claim to be qualified nurses, some of them are nurse-eliza and can't even write some of the exams that are necessary to practice in the states.by the way, nne, i'm about to seal my marriage we still have some problems though, religious one(she's catholic and i'm not) but we are working on it. i'll be in new jersey next week to see her parents wish me luck One big stout for you jare |
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nwando
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@ nwando
Is it also true that most guys there come home to marry when they are ready for marriage, instead of getting mates there? I'm sure we have enough nigerian ladies there. I think you are making a case for these ladies, to stop the guys from looking homewards.
my dear most of them go home looking for "virgin" wives they think girls abroad are too "open eye" or could be because the girls sabi them well well so many go home and deceive girls in naija with lies |
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