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romeo (m)
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Don't have anything agaist nobody! not mad about anything! but lets focus more on educating eachother rather painting the opposite black as if the other side is white!
who tell you say black is not a good paint?  |
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nwando
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The last time I said that I was accused of something |
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henry007 (m)
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its high time i paid a little visit 2 this thread, em what?? naah boring boring. prost wetin
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romeo (m)
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The last time I said that I was accused of something
Ndo ohh |
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nwando
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@Nwando:
Now its begining to be real obvious that you have some real issues with guys abroad. I've been following this thread and its like everytime someone say something negative about guys in UK, US, Europe, or anywhere else outside nigeria, you'll eirther claim to know a semilar case, witnessed something close, or know someone that it happend to! Haven't you heard of people that never saw eachother till some weeks or even days before they got married that live in peace?, don't you know anyone that went home and got married and are living in peace?, haven't you heard of guys that left their wife, children, and family back in africa and are stranded somewhere in abroad for green card or some kind of resident permit all in the name of taking care of his family? must every guy abroad be bad as far as you're concerned? na wa oh! I'm yet to figure If you show me any place I said all men do this ,I'll ask Seun to lock the thread. Every lady who has responded to this thread knows or has heard of a woman that has been deceived this way. It is common knowledge. I'm sure you know some yourself. Just like you and I have heard of dubious Nigerians that deceitfully married women for green card. I don't live in a vaccum I live in a real world. And no I don't have Issues with "men abroad" why should I ? The thread clearly focuses on Nigerian women being deceived by men abroad. If I didn't know concrete examples,I wouldn't start the topic. You and a few others have contrary opinions. Stick to it without the nastiness. Thanks! |
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Uche2nna (m)
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Nwando!!!! Always crusading for single girls  Those girls are not as naive as u make them out to be. If a girl breaks her engagement to a guy living in Nigeria , just to hop into the plane with an Americana that she has just known for a couple of weeks (or sometimes never even met) then she deserves all the shock she is going to get ; and then some!!!! That girl can't convince me that she was getting married because she has found love. She based her decision by picking the side her bread would be buttered most, or so she thought. |
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nwando
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Romeo we go way back on nairalandare you telling me you don't know a few stories that fit the topic? speak the truth and shame the devil |
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4 Play (m)
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@Romeo
Peugeot 406 and Mitsubishi bus? I would be very disappointed if my daughter married someone who drives a 406.
Its not about women being gold diggers,its not wanting to marry men who are not successful.Gold digging dey,but those girls had valid reasons to turn down your friend.
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nwando
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@ uche2nna,I said this earlier Why not ?
what's wrong with girls here ?
I met my hubby here ,I was sent here by my parents.
I've heard Nigerian men say girls in America are too "open eye"
don't respect them and all that crap.
That's just a mark of insecurity and low self esteem on the man's part.
Many of them run home because they can't tell those stupid lies to the ones here
and whatever they have will not impress her either.
If he has a car,she probably has one or 2
She may already have her own house
They spend the same dollars
so It takes out the thrill he gets from mesmerizing naive girls running after "men from overs"
It's pathetic how a man can send a message home to his folks that he's coming home for Christmas and his people should look for a wife,preferably a nurse ,fair in complexion with ample bossoms .
And when he lands,they would have arranged several girls for him to meet,each one wishing to be picked knowing there are other girls being sampled.
What type of stupidity is that?
Is living abroad now the only qualification for a suitable suitor?
Girls have married men they never saw.
How stupid can someone be to marry someone they never set eyes on just because he's in America or Europe? Now does this sound like I think these girls don't have a blame in this? They do The lying men have only taken advantage of their desperation. Any girl reading this from Naija may think twice before dumping a suitable suitor in Naija for you people I'm just a messenger  |
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henry007 (m)
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mmmph, u guys have daughters yet?
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4 Play (m)
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mmmph, u guys have daughters yet?
All these small boys,them no sabi say grown men full this place. |
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D-reloaded (f)
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how can they know when 98% of them don't act their age? 4Play, who dash you daughter sef?  |
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nwando
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biko reloaded,tell me have you heard stories of girls that married and arrived America to see that the man was not all he claimed to be
share if you can
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henry007 (m)
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a fada with the name foreplay? who r u kiddin
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4 Play (m)
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I adopted a daughter like Jolie and Pitt. . . .straight from Mongolia. @nwando Partners finding out each other isn't what they were cracked up to be is normal.What's the big deal? |
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prince_onx
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Nwando: You don't have to say "ALL MEN" for us to know you're bitter. Its written on every single word you said here eventhough you try to be politely-Rude if such word exist or attacking!
And just because every girl that responded to this post sound the same does not mean they've all seen it happen and even if they have? I quarante you that it will happen again! and again!! and again!!! untill thy kingdom come. Haven't you heard of a girl that married a guy she claimed she love, got here and claim she's not ready to have kids because of school, and two years latter divorce the guy and try to bring her boyfriend from naija! you surpose don hear that story since you dey hear all and know those it all happen to.
Then as for getting married for green card, haven't you heard of women that did the same? abi na only men dey marry for green card?
You said you meet your husband here, will you have rejected his hand in marriage if you love him and find out that he married someone for green card when he got here? or if he did all that and come to naija to pick you you'll say no! woman stop fooling yourself and wake up!
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Uche2nna (m)
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@ Nwando
As long as it is nothing illegal. If the man is delivering pizza or driving a cab and could pay your air fare to join him, then You should not complain. All u do is to shut up and think of ways to help him deliver the pizza and put the earnings to good use.
And stop whining on the guys. Have u not heard of guys who went and brought ladies from Naija, did odd jobs here and there to pay her tuiton through nursing school only for the ladies in question to turn around and divorce them.
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4 Play (m)
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Men exaggerating their income or status is the oldest story since Adam told Eve he was about to be made Senior Partner at Goldman Sachs.Please tell us something new. |
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romeo (m)
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@Romeo
Peugeot 406 and Mitsubishi bus? I would be very disappointed if my daughter married someone who drives a 406.
Its not about women being gold diggers,its not wanting to marry men who are not successful.Gold digging dey,but those girls had valid reasons to turn down your friend.
What car do you drive? 406 is a govt. car in Naija!! she could've been a proud owner of Range sport if she had married my friend. Romeo we go way back on nairalandare you telling me you don't know a few stories that fit the topic? speak the truth and shame the devil The point is that the girls are guilty  and that majority of the boys coming home for marriage are not to blame |
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4 Play (m)
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I dey think of 404 sef. 406 na correct car na,maybe na the dishwasher thing discourage am. |
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nwando
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Nwando: You don't have to say "ALL MEN" for us to know you're bitter. Its written on every single word you said here eventhough you try to be politely-Rude if such word exist or attacking!
Chineke nna me ke? bitter? why would I be bitter? As I've said in various threads I have absolutely no bad personal story with anyman I've never been dumped,cheated on,physically abused or deceived by anyman I only have loving stories to tell about the many suitors I had and all of them ended without any hard feeling. So my man,you don't describe me at all. Haven't you heard of a girl that married a guy she claimed she love, got here and claim she's not ready to have kids because of school, and two years latter divorce the guy and try to bring her boyfriend from naija! you surpose don hear that story since you dey hear all and know those it all happen to. have heard similar stories ,should I call you names for saying so? You said you meet your husband here, will you have rejected his hand in marriage if you love him and find out that he married someone for green card when he got here? or if he did all that and come to naija to pick you you'll say no! woman stop fooling yourself and wake up! That situation was not my experience so I don't answer to the "what if's" now prince leave me alone |
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tpia
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The point is that the girls are guilty and that majority of the boys coming home for marriage are not to blamehmmmm. The girls are definitely guilty of believing the lies most of the time. If the girl has done say two abortions or has a hidden child from a previous marriage ( which she conveniently forgets to tell the guy about), or has school cert while informing the fiance she's a university graduate, then i wonder how the man will feel if he discovers all these after marrying her and taking her abroad. I'm sure love will conquer all these minor obstacles. |
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romeo (m)
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I dey think of 404 sef. 406 na correct car na,maybe na the dishwasher thing discourage am. Abeg make you dey visit Naija ohh!! which kind 404 be that? people don't drive such in Nigeria nowadays Na the dish washer thing make am run 4 - 40, but she missed the big thing |
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4 Play (m)
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But Romeo,you go like make your daughter marry person wey be dishwasher? Talk true Me,I dey tell Naija girls say na porn I dey do.They don't seem impressed,I wonder why.  |
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prince_onx
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I'm glad you don't answer to what if! this whole thing is getting shape now!
OK, your parents send you here! lets say on a student visa or visiting visa. If you're a permanent resident or a citizen, please tell us how you got it and don't even say because you married your husband cux that will be part of marrying for green card if not una go marry and you go chill like that! thats one.
Two.
You claimed you've never been dumped! so all those suitor wey come your way na your dump all of them? you don't think one of them said "I no dig this chick" and did I hear you say
You've never been decieved or cheated on? Girlllllllllllllllllllllllll, just let the guys you dated testify to that.
By the way are you a full time house wife? the type that just sit at home, pick the phone and investigate everything nigerians do? cux you seem to have tomuch time for gossips! Lord have mercy!
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nwando
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I'm glad you don't answer to what if! this whole thing is getting shape now!
OK, your parents send you here! lets say on a student visa or visiting visa. If you're a permanent resident or a citizen, please tell us how you got it and don't even say because you married your husband cux that will be part of marrying for green card if not una go marry and you go chill like that! thats one.
I was already a citizen before getting married and NO I didn't do green card marriage. I came into America on a J visa and went from that to H1 B briefly then to green card. I know we're digressing but I'm just satisfying your curiosity. Two.
You claimed you've never been dumped! so all those suitor wey come your way na your dump all of them? you don't think one of them said "I no dig this chick" and did I hear you say Yes Never been dumpedWe all parted amicably or the relationship just fizzled out. You've never been decieved or cheated on? Girlllllllllllllllllllllllll, just let the guys you dated testify to that. To the best of my knowledge NO. Is that unusual? Is there something you want to say about all men?  By the way are you a full time house wife? the type that just sit at home, pick the phone and investigate everything nigerians do? cux you seem to have tomuch time for gossips! Lord have mercy! Now I am got a problem with that? Are you a full time house man what are you doing here? |
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prince_onx
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CASE don CLOSE! you don answer my question! NO WONDER, I said it. Its called wireless, people carry it to wherever they go like their house, office, even in their car! you might not know about it since it not made in naija or by naija guys |
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nwando
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CASE don CLOSE! you don answer my question! NO WONDER, I said it. Its called wireless, people carry it to wherever they go like their house, office, even in their car! you might not know about it since it not made in naija or by naija guys Woman Young man get off my case are you deceiving someone back home this one you're taking it personal? |
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prince_onx
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Nwando I'm glad you don finally laugh instead of making this thing sound like you're out for someone! And to answer your question, NO. I no dey decieve anyone atall not to talk of who I plan to spend my life with! too grown for that! and seriously Oh sister I no dey your case Oh! We don't even care/know if we exist so why the pin on each yash! |
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nwando
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nwando comes here strictly for fun.
I have no bitter bone in me.
bless you
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Radiant (f)
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@ Nwando
As long as it is nothing illegal. If the man is delivering pizza or driving a cab and could pay your air fare to join him, then You should not complain. All u do is to shut up and think of ways to help him deliver the pizza and put the earnings to good use.
Keep quiet osiso! Use pizza money for what? I'm sure that's what yu do with Lauryn your wife. How is she sef? |
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