Warning To Nigerian Girls

Quote from Ifyalways:
any girl that would leave her home based love for any away guy is solely responsible for whatever comes out of it jare.

Supported!

 

The point of this thread is. Actually I don't know.

hehehe sis see debate.all these ala bekke people sef.what have we not heard or seen sef? even right in nigeria,people lie and are being lied to daily.
a danfo driver in lagos goes back to benin and poses as an accountant,people believe
a mai guard/gateman in abuja goes back to lokoja and claim to be an Alhaji.mugus buy it
a houseboy in benin goes back to ikot ikpene and claims to be a chef in nicon noga.mboong all join 
an okada rider in lagos comes home to owerri and tells stories about his PLC company in lag and what happens,same old torigals believe.
an area boy in lagos goes back to ede and pose as omo balle in lag and still yet,some believe.
most recently here in Nairaland,a professional beggar in oshodi was said to be posing as an engineer for some girl in ibadan . . . . . .did she believe ? 
its simply insecurity and insincerity on the part of the liar/deciever
   lust after money,greed and being in a haste to marry on d part of the mugu/decieved.
i wont fell sorry for any victim oooooooh na me send am message?   my words for such people is shiooooooooooor ,take heart and endure/enjoy 

. . .lol 

Na longer-throat dey cause am. Greedy idiots!!! 

Precisely

I be think say by now we wo dey see beyond our nose.Watin be very true there.
Naija babes dey go for effects,first impression,watin u get etc.
Babe ready to enter Hummer when just stop for am along the road,than to following her old school mate when get pure water.
Bongo babes no won hear say you talk the truth.I beg make una forget jist,the crave for wealth/money will never end in Naija.All those babes when dey 4 Allen avenue,Terris in Surelere and other hotspots u mean say them no get boy friend.A beg leave matter for maranathan.

nothing wrong with burger flipping, cab driving, car washing or whatever people do to pay their bills. No condition is permanent.

All anyone is saying is here is don't lie to your fiance about what you do. Especially in such an obvious matter.

hmm Ikomi.

Abalam before u remember what to say. Kachi booooo.  Ike gi adighim. 

Infact tell your fiance that you are a cleaner even if you are a banker, her reaction will tell you what you want to hear from her. expecially if she is working in a good office that pay well.

Why not ?
what's wrong with girls here ?
I met my hubby here ,I was sent here by my parents.

I've heard Nigerian men say girls in America are too "open eye"
don't respect them and all that crap.
That's just a mark of insecurity and low self esteem on the man's part.
Many of them run home because they can't tell those stupid lies to the ones here
and whatever they have will not impress her either.

If he has a car,she probably has one or 2
She may already have her own house
They spend the same dollars
so It takes out the thrill he gets from mesmerizing naive girls running after "men from overs"

It's pathetic how a man can send a message home to his folks that he's coming home for Christmas and his people should look for a wife,preferably a nurse ,fair in complexion with ample bossoms .
And when he lands,they would have arranged several girls for him to meet,each one wishing to be picked knowing there are other girls being sampled.
What type of stupidity is that?
Is living abroad now the only qualification for a suitable suitor?

Girls have married men they never saw.
How stupid can someone be to marry someone they never set eyes on just because he's in America or Europe?

don't mind them
some end up learning the hard way.
A relative of mine took several trips and wasted money wooing several girls in Nigeria at different times
He should have completed his upstairs in the village if he didn't embark on these fruitless ventures.
Look at Nigerian girls all over colleges in America and someone is looking for girls from Nigeria that are supposedly better girls.
Is it these same girls that were turning tricks from Nsukka to OAU.
Sleeping with Alhajis and their professors for benefits?

Let them keep deceiving themselves

_{now I sound like hotfunmi}

i know someone who married a guy she'd never met until 2 weeks before the wedding day  at least he didn't lie about his source of income. but he's a wife basher. and yes, she's the greedy type.


i have been asked out by a couple of guys i met in naija who later janded (funny they all seemed to ask just as they were about to fly out). but i either tell them no, or break it up. i means to says, how was it supposed to work anyway?

'hello darling. wish i could give u a hug/hold you right now'

'oh baby, wish you were around so we can see a movie'

'honey, i'm so depressed, your smile would have brightened my day'

'sigh', 'sigh'

'yada' 'yada'


abegi!!

how much less, someone i've never met, or someone who practically drops out of the 'american' skies to declare love for me. na wa for dollar o!
that dollar go catch fire.

any sharp nkemji must know surely that a bird in hand is worth two in the bush (= stick to the man u can SEE and know him inside out, rather than some foreign bird who was prbably the pariah of his community)

_{whew!! did i make sense?}