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kinglarry (m)
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What is white wedding? is it really for the virgins or anyone that is smart enough not to be impreginated during courtship?. And are guys exempted?
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hot-angel (f)
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 This is a good question. lol, WHite weddings are for people who didn't get pregnant durring courtship. Finito.
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dominobaby (f)
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Lol, hw do u mean?i know white wedding to be d ceremony that takes place n da church n d bride dresses in a white gown.white is meant to signify that d lady is stil a virgin.
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hot-angel (f)
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it is meant to. But nowadays, nahh!
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dominobaby (f)
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Dese days, d ones wu r preg on d wedding day wear cream coloured gowns n no veil.
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Idekeson (m)
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Is there a rule on the color a woman should wear on wedding day? Is it enforced by any one?  |
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Hotstepper (f)
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the dress is normally white but hey people wear wuteva diz dayz
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bolex (m)
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sh**ty evry human being called 'THE BRIDE' wears a white gown before wedding But , oh well It would be a nice for me to marry a virgin Wateva God says sha Na Him go choose for me Let his will be done   I want a traditional wedding sha  feel me ? |
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nikitareal (f)
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dts very true ma dear, dt was den n this now |
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Queen1 (f)
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not only virgins where wedding gowns now a days
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larger_20 (m)
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days of white wedding is over, how can u tell that the girl is a virgin?
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balash (m)
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Hmmmm na true una talk jo well make we all for get am jare
na god go save
us for this
country 4 real
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kimba (m)
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@hot-angel WHite weddings are for people who didn't get pregnant durring courtship. Finito. @dominobaby Lol, hw do u mean?i know white wedding to be d ceremony that takes place n da church n d bride dresses in a white gown.white is meant to signify that d lady is stil a virgin. Dese days, d ones wu r preg on d wedding day wear cream coloured gowns n no veil. Please, are these statements of fact? so that the next time i see a white wedding, i would conclude, im curious please. |
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akara (m)
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LOL. If white weddings was for virgins only, why is there still so many bridal shops selling white gowns? Me thinks its for anyone who wants it, Its just an image thing.
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derinsola (f)
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WHITE WEDDINGS ARE NOT FOR VIRGINS ONLY IT DEPENDS ON YOUR TASTE NO ONE CAN TELL YOU WHAT YOU ARE TO WEAR ON YOUR WEDDING DAY [size=8pt][/size]  |
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richylaw (m)
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meant to signify the purity of the lady, but now thing has gone the other way round, it's more of a societal and ego thing.
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Beline (f)
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white wedding is not meant for the virgins alone, this is totally out of our culture we adopted it through Christianity, white wedding is the way the white conduct their marriage just like our traditional wedding but since we adopted their religion we equally adopted their marriage style.
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Beline (f)
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wedding generally is stressed in the Bible for virgins and I believe personally because ladies in those days were bethroded before the age of fifteen that was why virgins were still found everywhere, now will you expect a lady of twenty seven or thereabout to be a virgin? things has change and Church or white wedding as it is generally known is for the couple to ask God for His blessing not to signify any purity
If you are a virgin does that mean you are sinless?
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cletusia
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Abeg make we hear something for whoever dey wear white wed. brides these days see nothing wrong in selecting colours and some that wed in white have been so lucky to finish their wedding receptions before being rushed to the labour rooms.If anybody like,make en wear green,white and green, like our dear country ,
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diyobdw (f)
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white wedding this day mean wearing an english dress.Virginity is out of it. anyway why should the colour of your wedding gown matter anyway |
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nazzyon (m)
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I see nothing white in a wedding which the woman has been defiled several years before she even dreamt of getting married. Most especially the now 16 year old girls most of them had gone wild before age 16.
Honestly to get a virgin in girls is rare, I only think of it as a myth. And if you are don't be offended.
Pardon me.
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aidexlaw (m)
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Hebrews 13:4 Let marriage be held in honor (esteemed worthy, precious, of great price, and especially dear) in all things. And thus let the marriage bed be undefiled (kept undishonored); for God will judge and punish the unchaste [all guilty of sexual vice] and adulterous. (Amplified)
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diyobdw (f)
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SO?! what do we do about the reality in our faces  |
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aidexlaw (m)
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Let us fear God. His word can not be broken. We should seek His grace to overcome the "reality" we are facing. We should also remember that others have faced such challenges and did not compromise.
A genuine repentance and relationship with Jesus is the first step to overcoming.
Jude 1:24 Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy, (KJV)
(Read the whole chapter to get the full picture)
I pray you have a glorious married life.
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cennific (f)
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Let us fear God. His word can not be broken. We should seek His grace to overcome the "reality" we are facing. We should also remember that others have faced such challenges and did not compromise.
A genuine repentance and relationship with Jesus is the first step to overcoming.
Jude 1:24 Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy, (KJV)
(Read the whole chapter to get the full picture)
I pray you have a glorious married life.
What does all this have to do with the topic? The guy asked a simple question and there you go getting all preachy. Since you seem to be such a Bible expert, I'd like to know if the bible specifies a particular colour of dress for a wedding. Accepted, all brides were virgins then (or were they?) but was there really a dress code? |
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nossycheek (f)
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@nazzyon
We have virgins aged 16, some 33 and even 37. Just in case you are doubtful, they are still there, waiting for the groom.
What I mean is that there are still those that are still able to restrain themselves from being exploited by men in the name of
love
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spoilt (f)
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we have a culture that forces women to get pregnant to prove they are fertile before marriage. its unfair and stupid. how then can men do a turn around and expect virgins everywhere?  |
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nazzyon (m)
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THAT IS A FLIMSY EXCUSE FOR SEXUAL INTERCOURSE.
Are we not the same people who say those old aged stories are past and does not apply to us. Why should we go back to it then.
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nazzyon (m)
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@nazzyon
We have virgins aged 16, some 33 and even 37. Just in case you are doubtful, they are still there, waiting for the groom.
What I mean is that there are still those that are still able to restrain themselves from being exploited by men in the name of
love
I agree with what you said but I seldom go out and whenever I do I used to visit a friend whose brother owned a tutorial institute and what I see over there and along the way really convinced me that large percentage of people amongst the girl has been defiled because their request is glaring. What those girls do honestly if you see them you will be convinced. I know most people may think that I am painting them devilish. It has gotten to the extent that some where even making sexual advances @ me. Do not be offended if you felt insulted or something. |
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hannydarl (f)
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I noticed mostly guys believe that white weddings are for virgins and they condenm the fact that virgings hardly exsist but i beg make una tell me who disvirgined all the virgins?You guys take the virginity of other peoples sisters and other guys take the virginity of your sisters and the trend continues so boys stop dreaming about marrying one even our elderly men who are old enough to be grand pa's have joined the game of nailing young girls.
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