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lioness (f)
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 good one Nferyn
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kimba (m)
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@nferyn Quote from: dominobaby on April 22, 2006, 09:14 PM
Abortion in evry sense is bad in that u have no right to take a life! That story of foetus/personhood doesnt justify d act of abortion. That foetus had life!
So did the ant you once stepped on.
So are you comparing a human being and an ant? do they stand on equal levels in your perspective? More than life, the breath of God, the foetus has a soul and a spirit. Abortion is plain and simple: Murder. |
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lioness (f)
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 well, when u put it like that, i guess u do make a point too
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nferyn (m)
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@nferyn
So are you comparing a human being and an ant? do they stand on equal levels in your perspective?
Not really, but if being alive is your criterium, they are equal for this purpose (not that I think that only being alive is relevant) More than life, the breath of God, the foetus has a soul and a spirit.
On what authority rests that claim? If you want to use the Old Testament, don't. The Orthodox Jews believe that babies only are human after birth (and thus have a soul) Abortion is plain and simple: Murder.
Everything is so plain and simple for you. Must be very comforting. |
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lioness (f)
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Life is plain confusing
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dakmanzero (m)
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NO MEN ALLOWED. we men have NO SAY WHATSOEVER on the subject of abortion. While the foetus is growing inside the woman it is a part of her body and she has the FINAL SAY as to whether to cut it off or not. It is HER BODY and we all, including other women, have NO RIGHT to tell her what she can or cannot do with it.
Even if she commits suicide- it is her decision. rant all you want about suicide=hell, its still a personal decision to make.
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baralatie (m)
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>:(Even if she commits suicide- it is her decision. rant all you want about suicide=hell, its still a personal decision to make.
IF WOMEN HAD CHOICES WHAT WOULD IT BE>DEATH.I don't think so.
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dakmanzero (m)
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well, whether she makes that decision or not is none of your or my business. If she chooses it, let her have it. Thebaby growing in her is her own, not yours. Not until the umbilical is cut, has it ceased to be a part of her. finish
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Ashiwaju (m)
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@drkmanzero
I disagree with you. Y'say men shouldt contribute? Its health matters remember and we all need to be educated. there is no such thing as mr/mrs know all and i must tell you that i have learned quite a lot.
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dakmanzero (m)
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contribute to be educated, yes. Contribute to ask questions, maybe.
But to tell the woman what to do- NO. We have NO business doing that.
The fact that we are structurally incapable of having, talk less of aborting a pregnancy disqualifies us from imposing an idea on the women. The decision on whether or not to abort should be hers and hers alone.
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Ashiwaju (m)
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contribute to be educated, yes. Contribute to ask questions, maybe.
But to tell the woman what to do- NO. We have NO business doing that.
The fact that we are structurally incapable of having, talk less of aborting a pregnancy disqualifies us from imposing an idea on the women. The decision on whether or not to abort should be hers and hers alone.
And don't you think "Ladies" Would be able to weigh the pro and cons through this kind of discussion? In the First place, the reason why most ladies abort is either bcus their biffy has refused to accept it or bcus they(ladies) need to abort if the relationship must continue and if she is my sister, i would still advice her you know and i wouldnt let her make that mistake that she or i would live to regret, if its worth aborting @ the early stage, why not if not and if its worth keeping, why not if not. Its like forcing a horse to the stream when you can't force it to drink from the stream. |
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dakmanzero (m)
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Its her decision to ask you for help.
If she does, then oblige. but otherwise we should just shut up.
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teena (f)
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Honestly, abortion is not the best, that reminds me:please CAN SOMEONE ADVISE ME, My younger sister is pregnant for a guy whom she claims promised 2 marry her. She ran out of the hse and kept it to herself till last month  , right now she is in her 8th month . She only called last month 2 inform me.  She told me the guy wanted abortion which she decline, then left for Lag with the hope that the guy will meet my family for marriage rights before her delivery  . [flash=200,200][/flash]The major problem now is that the guy does not hv money to cater for her, I and my brother just forced him last week to go and introduce himself to my Dad which he did. But right now, my dad is not aware that my sister is pregnant. My main problem now is where she will stay and have her baby as the guy in question does not hv a suitable apartment and my Dad will never welcome her in the hse? please AM CONFUSED
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michy (f)
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please its risky.let her not think of it.she might loose her life.just try and convince your parents but in a situatin where he does not accept,go to your relations
this is serious
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Ashiwaju (m)
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8 month abortion!
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Mystique (f)
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guys be honest wit urselves, if you get a lady Pregnant, and hav no intention of marrying her, You'D be glad if she went and got a D& C  |
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lioness (f)
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don't even think about an eight months abortion.
Let her have the baby. Its going to be tough beginning but she will scale through.
You, ur brother, her "husband" , ur dad, all have to be there for her at this time. Gather some cash for her to help out while the hussy gets something good doing to cater for his family.
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olodo (m)
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we can't say it is bad or good because you ain't wearing the tight shoes so you don't know where it hurt,but if it is possible,try to avoid it,if not,then may God hep us all
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