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nalijah07 (f)
He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« on: March 13, 2008, 04:37 PM »

What does it mean when a guy gives you a key to his apartment? Do you still have to worry about him cheating, or are you pretty secure at this point?
Gamine (f)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #1 on: March 13, 2008, 04:43 PM »

He gave you the key. ,  ,

So u can keep cleaning and cooking for him.

Live-in Housegirl/lover/maid type-o-thingy
Busta (f)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #2 on: March 13, 2008, 04:44 PM »

Quote from: Gamine on March 13, 2008, 04:43 PM
He gave you the key. , ,

So u can keep cleaning and cooking for him.

Live-in Housegirl/lover/maid type-o-thingy
lol
buzzgonz (m)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #3 on: March 13, 2008, 04:47 PM »

Gamine - Omoge na wa 4 u oh . . .LOL! Grin
nalijah07 (f)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #4 on: March 13, 2008, 04:52 PM »

LOL -   Grin

But actually, I dont do those things. He is very self sufficient, thank you very much. This is not to say that I wouldn't do it if I had to. Maybe he wants me to start Huh
buzzgonz (m)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #5 on: March 13, 2008, 04:54 PM »

No wahala, but?  Grin
opuro (m)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #6 on: March 13, 2008, 04:56 PM »

did he give you key to all the hotel rooms around?
buzzgonz (m)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #7 on: March 13, 2008, 04:58 PM »

Question!!

iceblue (f)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #8 on: March 13, 2008, 05:04 PM »

what are you waiting for? oya tie that apron, fast fast, or he'll collect it back soon  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
opuro (m)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #9 on: March 13, 2008, 05:04 PM »

Quote from: buzzgonz on March 13, 2008, 04:58 PM
Question!!


hnmm Huh
kalmebad (f)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #10 on: March 13, 2008, 05:07 PM »

@poster

Do u also have the key to his heart? that is  more important
Well, we cant really understand some guys even when we think we kwn them too well
Thats why its been said that  the heart of a man is desperately wicked and no one can tell of it.

My dear, it could mean a way of commitment on his own side
It could  mean a ploy to lure u over completely
Just kwn that having d key to his apt is not a ticket to marriage

Shine your eyes at all time girl
and dont be over too relax, the worse could happen but i dont wish u dat, enjoy it while it last.
buzzgonz (m)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #11 on: March 13, 2008, 05:09 PM »

Thank you!~
Ms. Lurker (f)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #12 on: March 13, 2008, 05:13 PM »

Maybe it means, he trusts you.

To me, giving someone a key is a big deal. I'm saying, I trust you in my space whether I'm home or not.

So maybe he trusts you in his personal space OR he wants a maid like the others said.  Wink
tboy1 (m)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #13 on: March 13, 2008, 05:16 PM »

Quote from: nalijah07 on March 13, 2008, 04:37 PM
Do you still have to worry about him cheating
Men will always cheat

Quote from: nalijah07 on March 13, 2008, 04:37 PM
What does it mean when a guy gives you a key to his apartment? Do you still have to worry about him cheating, or are you pretty secure at this point?

You're not secure at all. He could always go and do his business in other girls home or he might even have another crib u dont kw bout. But if he's nt given u any reason to doubt him then maybe he's trying to show you he really trusts u and he probably like u 2 trust him also
PERVERT9
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #14 on: March 13, 2008, 05:19 PM »

he gave you the keys just to quicken your journey to his bedroom and to accelerate his journey in between your laps its another way of employing you as his cook,househelp,live in lover live in foka and lots more.
olulu (m)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #15 on: March 13, 2008, 05:20 PM »


@poster

make a copy of d key he will soon ask for it back

 Grin Grin Grin

it just shows he trusts u for now,
and has no immediate plans to cheat on u
play it cool, calm and matured


life is too short, for tins to stay d same
sista-jay (f)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #16 on: March 13, 2008, 05:22 PM »

It can only mean you are the ONE for him.
nalijah07 (f)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #17 on: March 13, 2008, 05:28 PM »

I appreciate all the comments, even the funny ones O. I'm glad I asked, because I never thought about the housegirl/maid theory. See how we can all learn from each other. This site is GREAT!!
Gamine (f)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #18 on: March 13, 2008, 05:35 PM »

Seriously,

Him giving you his key is just a screensaver.

He can still do anything he wants, dont you watch Cheaters?
adeboo (f)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #19 on: March 13, 2008, 05:39 PM »

He probably wants u to have easy access to his home.

Maybe when u wanna visit and he isnt there or whatever.

What am saying is that it isnt a sure sign for anything - just take the key and even take permission before u go round sha.
zheroes (m)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #20 on: March 13, 2008, 06:50 PM »

@ poster,
i can only deduce something from your question:
1.HE INTENDS TO TAKE YOU SERIOUS. i gave the keys to my apartment to my girlfriend when it was clear i intend to settle down with her, do you know what it means, yes , you could prepare meals for him in absentia, do you know what it means to eat what a lady has prepared, you NEVER can tell, every is possible,
2.he would hardly consider the option of bringing another lady home because you can be there at any time, well for me, simply means you ve won his heart.
3.i can say to a resaonable extent he's got some level of trust for you.
funkybaby (f)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #21 on: March 13, 2008, 07:11 PM »

@poster

I share the same views with ZHEROS.

A guy giving you the keys to his apartment only shows that you are special, he's crazy over you and he really loves you.

Forget the house maid theory. You can be a maid in your boyfriends apartment without necessary having the keys.
funkybaby (f)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #22 on: March 13, 2008, 07:14 PM »

Ignore what someone said that he will turn you into his sex machine.

How many ladies actually lost their virginity to the man who gave them the spare keys to his apartment? Huh?
adeboo (f)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #23 on: March 13, 2008, 07:18 PM »

Quote from: funkybaby on March 13, 2008, 07:14 PM
Ignore what someone said that he will turn you into his sex machine.

How many ladies actually lost their virginity to the man who gave them the spare keys to his apartment? Huh?


True talk.
At least u know that he has some level of trust in u - and u can only be a house girl if u want to.
ifyalways (f)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #24 on: March 13, 2008, 07:20 PM »

Quote from: adeboo on March 13, 2008, 05:39 PM
He probably wants u to have easy access to his home.

Maybe when u want to visit and he isnt there or whatever.

What am saying is that it isnt a sure sign for anything - just take the key and even take permission before u go round sha.
word !
it means nuffin !
chychy (f)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #25 on: March 13, 2008, 07:21 PM »

[color=#000099]baby, i think u have his heart  like 70%
it aint a guarantee but it's a good sign
[/color]
Grin Shocked
zheroes (m)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #26 on: March 13, 2008, 07:40 PM »

i will like to add that its a great plus for you  if the guy is in his late twenties or early thirties, what i mean here is he shouldnt be a student , from my experience if he isnt responsible to himself it means nothing but good time for sex, if he works amd isnt depending on anyone for sustenance, my sister just put your heads down , your prayers are almost answered.
bennygee (m)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #27 on: March 13, 2008, 07:59 PM »

its an old trick of the love book.
its meant to make u beleive u can come and go as u please
all na lie.
do u know how many other ladies have that key?
key cutting is very cheap ooo.
na today???  Wink
we don do that one far tey
zheroes (m)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #28 on: March 13, 2008, 08:05 PM »

Quote from: bennygee on March 13, 2008, 07:59 PM
its an old trick of the love book.
its meant to make u beleive u can come and go as u please
all na lie.
do u know how many other ladies have that key?
key cutting is very cheap ooo.
na today??? Wink
we don do that one far tey

i guess its only a stupid  and irresponsible guy that will give 20 keys to 20 girls, afterall she never asked for it, he did it willingly.
funkybaby (f)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #29 on: March 13, 2008, 08:07 PM »

ZHEROES you are right again.

@poster
I have been through this situation and if your guy is in the same circumstances as zheroes has mentioned(over 30, independent), you might have a marriage proposal coming soon.

No RIGHT thinking man would give his keys to several ladies. Players dont act that way. He will spend more time settling fights than screwing which his is original intention.

An average guy can bed as many cheap ladies as possible without even showing the way to his crib to them how much more giving them spare keys.   
Busta (f)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #30 on: March 13, 2008, 08:16 PM »

Quote from: zheroes on March 13, 2008, 08:05 PM
i guess its only a stupid and irresponsible guy that will give 20 keys to 20 girls, afterall she never asked for it, he did it willingly.

beats me!


Quote
An average guy can bed as many cheap ladies as possible without even showing the way to his crib to them how much more giving them spare keys.
true talk
big father (m)
Re: He Gave Me A Key To His Apartment - What Does This Mean?
« #31 on: March 13, 2008, 08:18 PM »

@POSTER
Don't be fooled,cus i can decide to change my locks anytime ! Grin
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