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randy (m)
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Whats going on!!!
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morenike09 (f)
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another one of your women and education post? do you find it hard to see women being educated? are you scared of an educated woman?  |
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D-reloaded (f)
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who is stopping you from marrying an illiterate?
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Nwaka77 (f)
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who is stopping you from marrying an illiterate?
Thank you my sister! |
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mamaput (f)
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please first give us your definition of submit
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Scopium (m)
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They think education gives them balls larger than that of the men
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TOYOSI20 (f)
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Huhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, . . . , , . . . . . . . , . . . . . . , . Submit WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  |
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acidrop (f)
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obviously because they are educated and can easily spot the always wrong husband
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Busta (f)
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obviously because they are educated and can easily spot the always wrong husband
True, but then again . . . some men except their wives to slave to them all the name of being the husband of the house. |
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Scopium (m)
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True, but then again . . . some men except their wives to slave to them all the name of being the husband of the house.
What exactly do you mean |
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JustGood (m)
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hmmmmmmmmmm
many women are unmarried, serially married, divorced etc because of this reason.
My wife is educated but she was brought up to have respect for me as the head of the house. I am not her boss but I am the head of the family and she respects that and she is submissive: I love my wife to bits and would never wish for anyone of those 'wise' women.
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Busta (f)
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hmmmmmmmmmm
many women are unmarried, serially married, divorced etc because of this reason.
My wife is educated but she was brought up to have respect for me as the head of the house. I am not her boss but I am the head of the family and she respects that and she is submissive: I love my wife to bits and would never wish for anyone of those 'wise' women. @Scopium, that is what I mean. Don't feel like u are the boss of your wife. Respect each other and your marriage will be blissful |
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May kelly (f)
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@ Topic, i don't think so, is Inferiority complex that makes some men think that their wife is not being submissive.
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nwando
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If I see another submission thread on nairaland I'll wound somebody  what is all this? |
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LadyT (f)
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Look stop this nonesense. Next time don't group people together. There are many different types of educated women 1) Those who are educated and are still very old fashion 2) Those who are educated and are very modern and who don't believe in African ways of life 3) Those who are educated and see themselves as more than a baby making machine, sex toy and cook! and who see themselves as the backbone of their family! Education is not a crime,  |
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Busta (f)
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@Lady T Tell them girl. The more reasons I left debo for u  |
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pahtahkee
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hmmmmmmmmmm
many women are unmarried, serially married, divorced etc because of this reason.
My wife is educated but she was brought up to have respect for me as the head of the house. I am not her boss but I am the head of the family and she respects that and she is submissive: I love my wife to bits and would never wish for anyone of those 'wise' women.
True talk. May God help the single ones like us. |
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The Sly
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Its not easy! |
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pahtahkee
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Its not easy! Yeah it is not easy. When I read some of the post of women here at times, I can not but shake my head at what our generation has turned into. This is one of the side effects of the westernized world we live in.  Unfortunately, it is even our African women that are carrying it on their head the more, than even the westerner. It is well I say. |
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morenike09 (f)
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@Lady T Tell them girl. The more reasons I left debo for u LOLiro ni ye. . he's still tied up inside your closed |
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acidrop (f)
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True, but then again . . . some men except their wives to slave to them all the name of being the husband of the house.
wife means wife, not house girl oooooo or slave. so let that been taken note of |
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4Him (m)
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This threads no longer serve any useful purpose . . . a woman who feels she shld be lord over her household because she has a D.phil should go ahead . . .
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morenike09 (f)
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This threads no longer serve any useful purpose . . . a woman who feels she shld be lord over her household because she has a D.phil should go ahead . . .
we dnt have to feel like the lord, we also dnt have to feel like the doormat either. . its a 50-50 control over the marriage. the husband respects the wife and the wife do likewise. . . however, if the man is broke and jobless, and refuse to get a job or be responsible, now that's another matter. . abi? |
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4Him (m)
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we dnt have to feel like the lord, we also dnt have to feel like the doormat either. . its a 50-50 control over the marriage. the husband respects the wife and the wife do likewise. . . however, if the man is broke and jobless, and refuse to get a job or be responsible, now that's another matter. . abi?
get married first before you start lecturing us on what it is. Flying an aircraft is not a 50-50 fight for the controls . . . |
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morenike09 (f)
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get married first before you start lecturing us on what it is.
Flying an aircraft is not a 50-50 fight for the controls . . .
sharrap jarewho told you am not married sef? you do the sameget married first |
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acidrop (f)
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This threads no longer serve any useful purpose . . . a woman who feels she shld be lord over her household because she has a D.phil should go ahead . . .
any man who feels his wife should be treated like an illiterate when she is not, is not just been fair |
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4Him (m)
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sharrap jarewho told you am not married sef? you do the sameget married first
typical nigerian woman . . . every issue is approached with an aggressive mindset. any man who feels his wife should be treated like an illiterate when she is not, is not just been fair
These men you talk about must be living in mars. |
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morenike09 (f)
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typical nigerian woman . . . every issue is approached with an aggressive mindset.
typical naija maneverything the women do is at fault |
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acidrop (f)
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This threads no longer serve any useful purpose . . . a woman who feels she shld be lord over her household because she has a D.phil should go ahead . . .
these women must be living in mars |
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pahtahkee
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these women must be living in mars
No they are resident here. May God help the beings who gets entrapped in their web. |
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JustGood (m)
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It's easy to see why many marriages don't work Unless a woman accepts that she has to be submissive as a support for her husband and the husband decides to love his wife unconditionally, it will be one problem after the other and one marriage after the other. After I got married, we had problems at the initial stage because we both had ideas which were not workable. But for the grace of God, we would have parted ways. We had our parents and other elders who counselled us and told us that it was normal for us to have such disagreements at the start. We both had to come to a realisation of the fact that we had seperate responsibilities in the household and my wife learn to be submissive. She's enjoying the fruits now |
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