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randy (m)
Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« on: March 17, 2008, 06:47 PM »

please, be sincere in your opinions
Ms. Lurker (f)
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #1 on: March 17, 2008, 07:05 PM »

It goes for good girls too.
But I think it's due to loving someone not good for you.

oziomatv (m)
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #2 on: March 17, 2008, 07:40 PM »

      Because they choose blindly and beleive that all that glitters are gold.

       If you're a victim, next time choose someone that has something in common with you,  they never fail.
ibkaye (f)
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #3 on: March 17, 2008, 07:45 PM »

Quote from: oziomatv on March 17, 2008, 07:40 PM
Because they choose blindly and beleive that all that glitters are gold.

 If you're a victim, next time choose someone that has something in common with you, they never fails.
exactly.
Busta (f)
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #4 on: March 17, 2008, 07:46 PM »

goes both ways abeg.
oziomatv (m)
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #5 on: March 17, 2008, 07:48 PM »

Quote from: Busta on March 17, 2008, 07:46 PM
goes both ways abeg.

 Please explain how.
Busta (f)
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #6 on: March 17, 2008, 07:56 PM »

Quote from: oziomatv on March 17, 2008, 07:48 PM

 Please explain how.

What is there to explain?
Both good girls and good guys suffer in relationships. The sufferness is not limited to only guys
oziomatv (m)
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #7 on: March 17, 2008, 07:59 PM »

 My answer is the reason why they suffer.
cao alvin (m)
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #8 on: March 17, 2008, 08:01 PM »

its nature
Ms. Lurker (f)
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #9 on: March 17, 2008, 08:07 PM »

@ Oz,

They are in love with an ideal or image.
oziomatv (m)
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #10 on: March 17, 2008, 08:09 PM »

you're right lady.
Busta (f)
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #11 on: March 17, 2008, 08:09 PM »

Quote from: oziomatv on March 17, 2008, 07:59 PM
My answer is the reason why they suffer.

- wrong spouses
- fear of being lonely
- stupidity
- not being able to understand that "NO" means "NO"
Sisikill
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #12 on: March 17, 2008, 10:28 PM »

Good Question, let's break it down shall we. . .
In a relationship, A guy

Lords over their girlfriends/wife - Obey his Au.tho.Ri.ty or he'll accuse her of not submitting to him as the Bible instructs.
Can have all the sex they want with or without their girlfriends - Body no be wood now
Is waited on hand and foot by their slaveserrI mean their lovely girlfriends (because the sad women have been brainwashed into thinking husband is scarce)
Believes compromise is only a word in the dictionary.
Never takes responsibility for his failingswhy should he? After all the women there to be blamed for everything
Goes and comes as they placeThey who must not be questioned.

You ARE right oh, look how much these men suffer. Eeeya, I think this calls for a party to celebrate men. They soooooo deserve it. I'll buy the cake.
The Sly
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #13 on: March 17, 2008, 10:41 PM »

Bcos good guys are very foolish and also they r not smart!
4Him (m)
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #14 on: March 17, 2008, 10:45 PM »

Because good guys think showing weakness is a way of keeping the girl.
The secret to the success of a bad boy is the air of "i could care less" he exudes . . . some call it confidence.
lawyer (m)
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #15 on: March 18, 2008, 03:17 AM »

Ahhhhhh! Good topic. i used to be a good guy in a relationship and i suffered terribly from it. Now am a born again convert of the bad guys club and relationships are so good and beautiful to me that i sometimes knock my head and ask myself "what took me so long to become this bad and enjoy the fruits of a one-sided relationship?" Grin

The I don't care Syndrome is the key to a girl's heart especially when you break up with her with no remorse.

Being a good guy is simply been a mumu. End of story!
stillwater (f)
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #16 on: March 18, 2008, 04:56 AM »

Quote from: ®~^Sly^~® on March 17, 2008, 10:41 PM
Bcos good guys are very foolish and also they r not smart!

Meaning you are a bad guy?

Quote from: 4Him on March 17, 2008, 10:45 PM
Because good guys think showing weakness is a way of keeping the girl.
The secret to the success of a bad boy is the air of "i could care less" he exudes . . . some call it confidence.

Which one are you?
acidrop (f)
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #17 on: March 18, 2008, 05:14 AM »

good guys my feet, if they are really good guys y are they suffering
morenike09 (f)
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #18 on: March 18, 2008, 05:27 AM »

@post
because he's not dangerous enough. . . i like a man that can put an alive crab in his pant and still not feel the pain
4Him (m)
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #19 on: March 18, 2008, 05:33 AM »

Quote from: stillwater on March 18, 2008, 04:56 AM
Which one are you?

Thou knowest.
stillwater (f)
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #20 on: March 18, 2008, 05:58 AM »

I'm not a mind reader, which one are you?
godspride (m)
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #21 on: March 18, 2008, 08:42 AM »

Any body here so we can discuss about why we good guys always suffered in relationship and i really want to share my experience with you guys,  my name is Oluwashola male from ketu, lagos.
hammers (m)
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #22 on: March 18, 2008, 09:12 AM »

A guy may suffer in any relationship but as long as he reaches the promise land, all the suffering is worth it Grin Grin
efuah (f)
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #23 on: March 18, 2008, 09:22 AM »

If u want to suffer u surely will!
kalmebad (f)
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #24 on: March 18, 2008, 09:46 AM »

@poster
Its a vice-versa thing, both ladies/guys suffer in relationship
It is not anyone choice,but rather the turns of fate sometimes not fair on mankind
iice (f)
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #25 on: March 18, 2008, 04:38 PM »

Quote from: efuah on March 18, 2008, 09:22 AM
If u want to suffer u surely will!

Gbam!
joycee87
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #26 on: March 18, 2008, 10:11 PM »

because guys too dey mess up na hm make them dey suffer pass
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Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
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Busta (f)
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #28 on: April 25, 2008, 01:54 PM »

Quote from: efuah on March 18, 2008, 09:22 AM
If u want to suffer u surely will!

lol

Then again, they say love turns u into a fool . . .
michelin89 (f)
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #29 on: April 25, 2008, 02:03 PM »

Because good boys always go for bad girls just like good girls go for bad guys!
ibkaye (f)
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #30 on: April 25, 2008, 02:05 PM »

Quote from: michelin89 on April 25, 2008, 02:03 PM
Because good boys always go for bad girls just like good girls go for bad guys!
not always Smiley
michelin89 (f)
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships
« #31 on: April 25, 2008, 02:13 PM »

Quote from: ibkaye on April 25, 2008, 02:05 PM
not always Smiley

But it's always so exciting (for the bad I mean)  Grin
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