Men With Many Wives: Does Equal Love Exist?

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May kelly (f)
Men With Many Wives: Does Equal Love Exist?
« on: March 19, 2008, 10:12 AM »

Love is one of the principal thing in any True Religion. Where there is LOVE there will be PEACE. Therefore those with many wives, is their Love equal to all their wives?
olabowale (m)
Re: Men With Many Wives: Does Equal Love Exist?
« #1 on: March 19, 2008, 10:24 AM »

@May Kelly: There is "JUST" love, for every wife. A poor young woman who is married to a very wealthy man was only need a bungalow and a Lexus. Whereas, an older and wealthier wife of the same man knows how to handle an estate and a Bentley or Rose Royce. But of them are given full love. Each is satisfied according to her needs, as per the capacity of the man. And by the way, sex is not the only reason a man marries more than one wife.And it is not necessary if a man is financially and in other aspects incapable of getting involved in more than one wife.
May kelly (f)
Re: Men With Many Wives: Does Equal Love Exist?
« #2 on: March 19, 2008, 10:41 AM »

Quote from: olabowale on March 19, 2008, 10:24 AM
@May Kelly: There is "JUST" love, for every wife. A poor young woman who is married to a very wealthy man was only need a bungalow and a Lexus. Whereas, an older and wealthier wife of the same man knows how to handle an estate and a Bentley or Rose Royce. But of them are given full love. Each is satisfied according to her needs, as per the capacity of the man. And by the way, sex is not the only reason a man marries more than one wife.And it is not necessary if a man is financially and in other aspects incapable of getting involved in more than one wife.

So in otherwords, wealthy Muslim mainly marry from a poor home so as to give the woman material things she has been lacking and that is "JUST" the love, and love is just equal just like that.

Anyway, are you saying that they maltreat them by keeping them hidden from people?
Leilah (f)
Re: Men With Many Wives: Does Equal Love Exist?
« #3 on: March 20, 2008, 02:22 AM »

I do not think its possible for a man to love his wives equally!
May kelly (f)
Re: Men With Many Wives: Does Equal Love Exist?
« #4 on: September 01, 2008, 03:38 PM »

Those with tradition of having more than one wife are yet to provide answer to this question. Could it be that they are ashame or did no believe their teaching any more? Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin   86 Wooh!!!! Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Brash! (m)
Re: Men With Many Wives: Does Equal Love Exist?
« #5 on: September 01, 2008, 03:39 PM »

Quote from: Leilah on March 20, 2008, 02:22 AM
I do not think its possible for a man to love his wives equally!

i agree with you

equality is not chips and baked beans! Grin
May kelly (f)
Re: Men With Many Wives: Does Equal Love Exist?
« #6 on: September 02, 2008, 10:13 AM »

Quote from: olabowale on March 19, 2008, 10:24 AM
@May Kelly: There is "JUST" love, for every wife. A poor young woman who is married to a very wealthy man was only need a bungalow and a Lexus. Whereas, an older and wealthier wife of the same man knows how to handle an estate and a Bentley or Rose Royce. But of them are given full love. Each is satisfied according to her needs, as per the capacity of the man. And by the way, sex is not the only reason a man marries more than one wife.And it is not necessary if a man is financially and in other aspects incapable of getting involved in more than one wife.

I now understand you olabowale, Indeed a muslim will be receorded in the Guiness Book 86 wives not concumbines, so added with concumbines they will amount to 15 wives just as the pro-p-h-et. Well Done olabowale, keep it up. Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
HR.hotness (f)
Re: Men With Many Wives: Does Equal Love Exist?
« #7 on: September 02, 2008, 10:18 AM »

It is impossible to love 2 people equally, be it wife, child or friend. . .
no two people r d same so the feelings for them cannot be d same
$$Rhino
Re: Men With Many Wives: Does Equal Love Exist?
« #8 on: September 02, 2008, 03:28 PM »

There is no way a man cld have equal love to different woman, such man cld love one because of her food, one because of how she dance, another, because of how she is presentable, and another would be best in bed, would be great if he can find one with all these attributes and the rest will just rust for house.
sistawoman (f)
Re: Men With Many Wives: Does Equal Love Exist?
« #9 on: September 02, 2008, 05:42 PM »

When will it be acceptable for a woman to have more than one husband?
$$Rhino
Re: Men With Many Wives: Does Equal Love Exist?
« #10 on: September 02, 2008, 06:33 PM »

Quote from: sistawoman on September 02, 2008, 05:42 PM
When will it be acceptable for a woman to have more than one husband?

It is already accptable.
femigirl (f)
Re: Men With Many Wives: Does Equal Love Exist?
« #11 on: September 02, 2008, 08:31 PM »

$$Rhino
Re: Men With Many Wives: Does Equal Love Exist?
« #12 on: September 02, 2008, 08:42 PM »

Quote from: femigirl on September 02, 2008, 08:31 PM

The women are just using the man and the man is thinking that he is the man.
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