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almondjoy (f)
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sister AJ, you are a class act. you tell truth without sugar.
happy easter my dear sister. hope your world and everyone in it are fine?
bless you all and please be romantic una hear? it doesn't have to be mr biggs
Happy Easter to you too! Yes me lord! I have a lot of romantic movies lined up for the weekend! Bless you too and stay safe always!  |
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Chacal (m)
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@ Almondjoy,
I disagree with u.
Black Romance is boring because black movie industry lack producers like the Spielbergs, Bruckheimers and the Tarantinos of this world.
Besides, low budget also undermines the production of black movies because black producers tend to attract 3rd-class actors/actresses.
Black peops are better in acting than their white counterparts but insufficient funds tend to take Black flicks 6 steps backwards.
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almondjoy (f)
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@ Almondjoy,
I disagree with u.
Black Romance is boring because black movie industry lack producers like the Spielbergs, Bruckheimers and the Tarantinos of this world.
Besides, low budget also undermines the production of black movies because black producers tend to attract 3rd-class actors/actresses.
Black peops are better in acting than their white counterparts but insufficient funds tend to take Black flicks 6 steps backwards.
Sure! Keep making excuses as usual. They suck period! The only thing black peeps can act better that white folks is rauchy, seedy porn! Or tasteless music videos with gutter language! Even Hispanics can act better romantic music or Indians. I frankly will not be caught dead watching a "black" romantic movie. Please white movies any day. Don't care what the reasons are. . . . . . they are just too fake! |
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D-reloaded (f)
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Lmao you see to like Tyler Perry though AJ  |
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Chacal (m)
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@ AlmondJoy,
Seedy Porn?
Have u seen Jason's lyrics, Best Man, Love Jones and even SOUL FOOD?
How can u rubbish classics like that?
Cut black movies some slack, will ya?
Tasteless music videos?
I am sure u know Hype Williams?
How many times has he won music video awards?
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almondjoy (f)
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Lmao you see to like Tyler Perry though AJ Not for romance please. For his loud sense of humor and riotous custume! @ AlmondJoy,
Seedy Porn?
Have u see Jason's lyrics, Best Man, Love Jones and even SOUL FOOD?
How can u rubbish classics like that?
Cut black movies some slack, will ya?
Tasteless music videos?
I am sure u know Hype Williams?
How many times has he won music video awards?
Okay, you have named a few. Not the norm. Yes they are a few black ones I agree. But it is not their thing in general. They are too busy with crime and gangster stuff. I have seen "Soul Food" and "Jason's Lyrics"! Okay, the have a pass mark. Can you please name a top 25 of greatest black romantic movies?  They are not many. I just prefer oyinbo peeps that's all. I get their romantic message more than I could from the other "race"! |
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Chacal (m)
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@ Almondjoy, I suspect u have been westernised!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Don't tell me u now have got the mentality that anything BLACK will always come out EVIL. . . . An experiment was done sometimes ago. . . . .100 black kids were given a white teddy and a black one EACH. They were asked which one was EVIL. . . . .ALL of em chose the black teddy. . . . Can u beat that?? Are u aware the other race actually prefer our own movies to theirs? An average Black man has got drama in him, it's in his DNA. The only thing missing is a good producer/director and errrrm, errrm MONEY!!!! You want me to name 25 great black movies? I am not sure i can but let me run a list. Soul Food, Best Man, Sugar Hill, Foxy Brown, Malcolm X, A Time To Kill, Shaft. Higher Learning, Coach Carter, The Brothers, Jason's Lyrics, Boyz-N- The Hood. Brown Sugar, Barbershop, Lean On Me, Menace II Society, American Gangstar, Amistad. Set It Off, Training Day, Ali, New Jack City, Poetic Justice, Ray and Two Can Play That Game.  |
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danity
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Lol! I concur!!!!!
AJ - you won't kill me with laughter.
I don't even think black people understand the true meaning of romance.
To them, it's showing love in the physical way while in white movies, we always want them to just hook up already.
It's really bad though
. . . . . . . . . maybe i should flock to the white side so I can experience all the magic I see on tv.
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4Him (m)
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Race hate in action.
If some people here were born white they'd be the worst racists on earth.
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danity
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I don't think it's a matter of hate.
Gimme a romantic black guy and i'm keeping him forever and ever.
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morenike09 (f)
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who wakes up early in the morning with the thought of showing romance to everybody else that does not matter. . .? If he's not romantic to youthen he's romantic to someone else but mostly all naija menare just not romantic at all   But i got.ta agree with the poster sha. . . |
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Chacal (m)
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@ Danity, It's not too late. . . . . You can follow MJ's footsteps and bleach your skin THOROUGHLY. Get yourself a decent pointed nose that will not fall off when slapped. How can u say Blacks don't know what romance is all about? I think y'all black sisters need some soul-searching. You are too complicated. |
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4Him (m)
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I don't think it's a matter of hate.
Gimme a romantic black guy and i'm keeping him forever and ever.
If you've never met one then most likely u've been looking in the wrong places. Or perhaps u're idea of romance is a blond haired, 6ft white man with blue eyes giving u a rose on one knee. |
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danity
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Excuse you Mr. Chacal.
I love my skin color to death. I'm not bleaching for nobody.  I like my nose too. I don't want all those witchy noses.
You know what?
Tell me what romance is in the black culture.
After 20 years of marriage, a white man will still attempt to renew his vows. How many black men do that? Only Damon Wayans on that episode of my wife and kids. Some even try to arrange cruises or go somewhere romantic.
How many black men consider cruises romantic?
Black brothers need to reconsider the meaning of romance.
Tolerance is not romance for goodness' sake.
After 20 years of marriage, do not tell a woman that your idea of romance is staying with her.
There is a difference. @ 4him,
That's not even close to my idea of romance. I've met semi-romantic black men but never the full ones.
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4Him (m)
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Excuse you Mr. Chacal. I love my skin color to death. I'm not bleaching for nobody. I like my nose too. I don't want all those witchy noses. Could this be because you just have no other choice? You know what?
Tell me what romance is in the black culture.
You're a black woman, kindly define black romance or us in ur culture. After 20 years of marriage, a white man will still attempt to renew his vows. How many black men do that? Only Damon Wayans on that episode of my wife and kids. Some even try to arrange cruises or go somewhere romantic.
What you forgot to tell us is that divorce among whites is over 50% in the first 2yrs alone. Have you been to all black homes and discovered that the men don't renew their vows? Could the reason whites are more likely to go on cruises that blacks be more to do economics than romance? How many black men consider cruises romantic?
Is a cruise your idea of romance? Did you know that divorcees also take cruises too? Can the midde class Naija man afford a cruise? Forget about the issue of visas. Black brothers need to reconsider the meaning of romance.
Infact it is black sisters who shld do so. Its hard to be romantic if ur partner is loud, abrasive, overly aggressive and thinks independence is synonymous with being rude. Tolerance is not romance for goodness' sake.
Ordinary tolerance sef una no get. After 20 years of marriage, do not tell a woman that your idea of romance is staying with her.
Yup, after 2 years the white man's idea of romance is divorcing his wife. At least we stay long enough to reach 20yrs. we try. That's not even close to my idea of romance. I've met semi-romantic black men but never the full ones. [/color]
search harder. |
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Chacal (m)
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Excuse you Mr. Chacal.
I love my skin color to death. I'm not bleaching for nobody. I like my nose too. I don't want all those witchy noses.
You know what?
Tell me what romance is in the black culture.
After 20 years of marriage, a white man will still attempt to renew his vows. How many black men do that? Only Damon Wayans on that episode of my wife and kids. Some even try to arrange cruises or go somewhere romantic.
How many black men consider cruises romantic?
Black brothers need to reconsider the meaning of romance.
Tolerance is not romance for goodness' sake.
After 20 years of marriage, do not tell a woman that your idea of romance is staying with her.
There is a difference. Stop clutching at straws, will ya? Romance shouldn't be one sided. Unfortunately for Black sisters(especially Nigerians), Romance is material things. Try send a Naija chic bouquet or romantic card on her birthday and watch the drama she would bring to a brother's door step. Mr Bigg's sausages and TFC Chicken nuggets is her own version of Romance. For Black sistas, it is food, ice-cream and chocolates. . . . . . . Anything in trousers willing to provide that for em is romantic. Thanx for mentioning vow renewals. . . . . Like the Holy Scriptures go. . . . You reap what u sow. White women take care of themselves even in marriage. . . . They keep fit, look trim and are good value for money anytime, t in their life span. They don't stop looking good. . . . The whole attitude is the same like they were still SINGLE. Black-sisters? Puhleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaseeeeee Just 6 months in marriage. . . . . they blow up like Nitro. From 34B to 42 FF. . . . .Belly protudes like an expecting momma elephant. The ass is something else. . . . . .It flattens the tyres everytime they ride in a brother's SUV. . . . . Now tell me. . . . . .Which Black brother will be considering a romantic cruise with such women?? |
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faketan (m)
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Are black women romantic?
They do not know what romance is. When you tend to be romantic to a black woman, she thinks you are not man enough.
Talking from experience.
Give me a break please. When they want to be romantic, they are doing it for a purpose.
According to AlmondJoy, they fake to be romantic in order to take control of the man.
So what are we talking about here?
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spoilt (f)
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The difference is blacks don't have time to decieve each other with flowers, guilt trips, chocolate and all . . .
@4him we want to be deceived. we'll enjoy it while it lasts jare. |
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faketan (m)
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Chacal,
I did not read you post above before posting mine.
We are actually saying the same thing.
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Chacal (m)
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@ faketan, Great minds think alike. Don't mind those Black sistas. They think ROMANCE should be one-sided. Give em an inch of space and they will take several yards. To a white woman, looking good is long term. . . . .they strive towards it before, during and after marriage. For a black sister, looking good ends once they walk the aisle with their man. Blimey. . . . .I married a diva and 2 months later she has turned to a GODZILLA. . . . . . How am i supposed to deal with a situation like that? |
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4Him (m)
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@4him we want to be deceived. we'll enjoy it while it lasts jare. the blackman is pragmatic . . . no time to waste decieving you. |
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danity
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Una wan kill me? Ah ahn 
Okay - first come, first serve.
@4him,
I love my color because I don't have different shades when it comes to conveying my expression.
Oh no he didn't! Did you just call black women - abrasive and loud? Not all black women are abrasive. The abrasion must have been caused by the man and his unromantic side.
The cruise was just an example.
We're the ones who tolerate their sorry behavioural problems. @Chacal Stop clutching at straws, will ya? Romance shouldn't be one sided. Unfortunately for Black sisters(especially Nigerians), Romance is material things. Try send a Naija chic bouquet or romantic card on her birthday and watch the drama she would bring to a brother's door step. Mr Bigg's sausages and TFC Chicken nuggets is her own version of Romance. For Black sistas, it is food, ice-cream and chocolates. . . . . . . Anything in trousers willing to provide that for em is romantic. Thanx for mentioning vow renewals. . . . . Like the Holy Scriptures go. . . . You reap what u sow. White women take care of themselves even in marriage. . . . They keep fit, look trim and are good value for money anytime, t in their life span. They don't stop looking good. . . . The whole attitude is the same like they were still SINGLE. Black-sisters? Puhleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaseeeeee Just 6 months in marriage. . . . . they blow up like Nitro. From 34B to 42 FF. . . . .Belly protudes like an expecting momma elephant. The ass is something else. . . . . .It flattens the tyres everytime they ride in a brother's SUV. . . . . Now tell me. . . . . .Which Black brother will be considering a romantic cruise with such women??
At the same time there is a difference between romance and provision. I agree.
Is it hard for a guy to put some food in a basket and take a woman out on a picnic? I'm westernized, yes and I hate myself for it.
Black guys expect to come home from work and be catered to but how do they cater to their women in return? By giving her money to buy clothes for the children or by giving her money to buy groceries? 
How many times do they get their wives gifts just for the sake of it? Or how many times, do black men cook for their wives and wait on her - hand and foot for one day out of the 52 weeks a year without it being an occasion.
As for the bust size - as long as it's not drooping, i think y'all should be thanking God for the increase in bounties 
The ass - what can we say - we are just naturally endowed to have that part. At least some of the black sistas out there.
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Rev2bit (m)
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That depends, give her a break and get a divorce, it you love her for her looks the relationship is lost anyway. I am not trying to be mean just the facts sir. Oh the most important sex organ is between the ears not the legs, we all get old and not so pretty, but real love is loving the person not the shell. : {>
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faketan (m)
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the blackman is pragmatic . . . no time to waste decieving you.
I have experienced that when u do the deceiving, it is misinterpreted. Chacal I had a girlfriend staying with me in naija. I was not rich but on her birthday, I managed to raise some small money to get a nice bracelet. I did not want her to see it before hand so I asked another friend to bring it along on the day. You don't want to know what hapened that day. Give us break jare. |
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stillwater (f)
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Infact it is black sisters who shld do so. Its hard to be romantic if your partner is loud, abrasive, overly aggressive and thinks independence is synonymous with being rude. Abeg 4Him don't group all of us in that category. |
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4Him (m)
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Stillwater . . . when you people stop grouping us as above we will stop stereotyping too. |
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Chacal (m)
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@ Danity, You must admit it is one-sided for Black couples. A Black sister's idea of romance in Nigeria is to cook goathead stew for her husband. In return, she wants a boat-cruise or a romantic weekend in Hawaii. . . . . .How does that add up? As for the bust-size, i do mind. I don't want to be choked to death. Black sistas should sort themselves out and act straight. Like the scriptures say, You REAP WHAT You SOW. As for the loving her for her looks. . . . . Thats hypocrisy at the very top level. I must like what i see before i even take the 1st step of chatting u up in the first place SO LOOKS COUNT. Any man that comes here to say otherwise is deceitful!!!!! Lets ask loverbwoy Rev2bit if he will marry a junkie, pygmy or a hunched-back diva. Afterall, looks don't count for him. . . . . .Classic hypocrite!!!!! |
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faketan (m)
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That depends, give her a break and get a divorce, if you love her for her looks the relationship is lost anyway. I am not trying to be mean just the facts sir. Oh the most important sex organ is between the ears not the legs, we all get old and not so pretty, but real love is loving the person not the shell. : {>
A good woman is not lazy. They lose their shape and form due to laziness forgetting bloating out is not good for their health. A virtuous may not be pretty but she will be smart. Who does not liuke good things. Why do you even bother to look smart before marriage if not to be attractive. You think you do not need to be smart to remain attractive to the man. This is natural and you cannot expalin it away. |
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stillwater (f)
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Black-sisters? Puhleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaseeeeee
Just 6 months in marriage. . . . . they blow up like Nitro. From 34B to 42 FF. . . . .Belly protudes like an expecting momma elephant.
The ass is something else. . . . . .It flattens the tyres everytime they ride in a brother's SUV. . . . .
Now tell me. . . . . .Which Black brother will be considering a romantic cruise with such women?? What are you guys saying? Is it not the naija man that starts grooming pot bellies competing with the wife on who's belly grows larger as if they did not eat in their mother's house before marrying the woman. |
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faketan (m)
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I guess you have always been around the wrong couples. I no lie you sis |
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faketan (m)
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If not for racial prejudice, black women would not have black husbands over here because the white girls believe that black men are better husbands.
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