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coolier (f)
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You've been married to your husband for so many years. Unfortunately he died. It is the tradition of his family that in the event of his death, you're passed on to his senior brother if he has any or his junior brother if he has no senior brother. So what will you do? Choose to remain in your husbands family but this time as the wife of one of his brothers, who incidentally might also be married? Or take your kids and run?
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sista-jay (f)
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I'd take the kids and run, sure aint keepin it in the family.
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morenike09 (f)
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i'll take the kids and runi can't marry my Hubby-want to-be (his brothers). . . wnt even have same feelings for him  |
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stillwater (f)
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Take the kids and run
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dominique (f)
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well said gals, take the kids and vamoose.
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iice (f)
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Marry for wetin? Some families sef na wahala, why you go wan continue to dey punish yourself?  
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TOYOSI20 (f)
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@ Toipc, No way, . . . , . . . . . . . . . . . . . . , . . . . . .  |
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ifyalways (f)
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uhm. . . .hmmn
i wont run with my kids,i would remain in the family BUT wont be marrying any of his brothers.
running with the kids might make me/the kids forfeit many things,i would stay back and fight the tradition.
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chinda3
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@poster
it is not my portion,my husband will not die early, i jesus name AMEN
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efuah (f)
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@poster
it is not my portion,my husband will not die early, i jesus name AMEN
Amen! err. . . if it happens, i will run wt ma kids. |
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opuro (m)
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I will not advice any woman to stay and marry the husband junior bros or senior bros ARE WE SURE IT IS NOT THE BROS THAT KILL THE HUSBAND IN THE FIRST PLACE |
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coolier (f)
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So what if the family decided you cannot leave with their kids. What do you do then?
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tRoOE (f)
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Well it mostly happen in the Igbo’s culture (just an opinion, nothing personal
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