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pareto
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Hello deep thinkers, there was a time in my life i felt like having sex after every meal. Then, once in 3 days and later at most 2weeks. D reason why i raise this topic is because of life in NYSC camp. Both married and singles within the 3weeks feel they are almost 3months there. Ladies hang out with riff-raffs even with some rugged soldiers. At night, people look for dark places to av sex also on parade ground. I then asked 'but people av partners at home, why this 3weeks? Then i came to a conclusion that anyone who doesn't flirt in d 3wks and is reserved after camp, is really very disciplined. So,why can't we stay long without sex?
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arianne (f)
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thanks 4 reminding us u were once in the world, but u did not have to post this 5 damn times.
to your question-
the world is ending and of people have lost every ounce of virtue and discipline left in them, i mean take a cue from nairaland, if ur a female virgin, they say u lack d opportunity and if its a guy, they say ur impotent. as sad as it, there's nothing we can do about it. everyone is accountable to himself only.
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almondjoy (f)
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Some of us can actually do without. . . .if we have it goooooooooooooood! The people who run around are those who never really found real pleasure!  Like a "kwashiorkor" patient! Always hungry even with a protruding stomach. Please get it right and you will neither hunger or thirst for weeks and months! You cannot even afford to look elsewhere at all. Talk about "horsepower"! |
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candylips (m)
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Shat ap ! Talk true. You are still they shag like that . . . if not more . . .
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kachiside
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My their nairlanders, that NYSC camp thing na serious matter. if people no fit hold their thing for 3weeks that means whala dey for their side.
I hear say some people they talk make it be three months that means Camp clinic go turn to antenatal, abi na post natal.
Abeg make we try maintain with this sex thing, any good thing they kill, may we do am softly softly.
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dee02 (m)
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Morality and decency has reached an un-acceptable level of decay in our society
Girls are horny and dripping wet all over
Guys are forever carrying erect peckers all over the place
Everyone is running helter skelter because of sex
STD's and HIV's are forever rising
I remember a few years ago when blowjobs was unknown in Nigeria, but now girls even love TEABAGGING and GUYS LOVE TO F**K D BUMHOLE!
Very soon, SEX ADDICTION would overtake CORRUPTION as Nigeria's biggest problem (If it hasnt)
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onyeka_ng (f)
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why on earth would it be sooooooooo difficult to abstain for 3weeks  this thingy no be food na? |
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micklplus (m)
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Morality and decency has reached an un-acceptable level of decay in our society
Girls are horny and dripping wet all over
Guys are forever carrying erect peckers all over the place
Everyone is running helter skelter because of sex
STD's and HIV's are forever rising
I remember a few years ago when blowjobs was unknown in Nigeria, but now girls even love TEABAGGING and GUYS LOVE TO F**K D BUMHOLE!
Very soon, SEX ADDICTION would overtake CORRUPTION as Nigeria's biggest problem (If it hasnt)
why on earth would it be sooooooooo difficult to abstain for 3weeks this thingy no be food na? I agree wit u guys but this sex thing na serious business o ! Abegi, no blame them ! God go save all of us. Cheers |
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tboy360 (m)
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well let me see i don't know what u guys are saying but i have never had sex be fore
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mohammedss
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Na only God fit save us from this sex issue,nothin on earth is as sweet as sex bt we should always remember that HIV is real, wetin sweet 4 goat mouth na him dey kill am.
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denony (m)
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Its because it is an away match called return match  some people prepared for months for this great opportunity. They tagged it "FUN WITH EASE" Married or not married is none of their business. For me oo i fit hold body for 2 year no shaking. ask my third leg it will testify  |
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bodsibobo (m)
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@dee02 I remember a few years ago when blowjobs was unknown in Nigeria, but now girls even love TEABAGGING and GUYS LOVE TO F**K D BUMHOLE! What's TEABAGGING? You must explain o! |
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Virtuous A (f)
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"So,why can't we stay long without sex?"
Purely lack of discipline, self control and fear of God. This can be compared with stealing, fighting, murder, gossiping, etc. There are people that felt they cannot do without one or two of these acts, yet a good number of individuals don't even think of committing them. Not only are there people who didn't flirt for 3 weeks, there are those that haven't done it in their life as singles (men and women inclusive). It's just a habit that can be dropped with the help of God and Holy Spirit. If one can drop sex from a day to 3days and then once in two weeks, it means that fellow can do without it. That answers the above question, we can stay long without sex. Do not see it as something impossible, it is possible.
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delegiwa (m)
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Why all these holier than thou posturings on this forum? Abegi make una go rest.
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kilode se (m)
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The truth is that moral standard is falling and sexual vices has now become a thing of pride. even ladies are now bold about their exploits  with d guys, wel while on camp I only hear that such things happen but never saw. |
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dee02 (m)
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@bodsibobo
TEABAGGING is when you lower the balls into a willing recipient's mouth intermittently!
does that help?!lol
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holythug (m)
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na wa o. . .tea baggin mo gbo tuntun leni
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fntekim (m)
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"Teabaggin" What wont I learn on nairaland |
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skipo87 (m)
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 its so sad, its obviously because of poor morals. i wonder where this world is turning to, God save us
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lightest (m)
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oga o! just imagine the girl wey me 1 marry. She went for her NYSC and she came came with yeye pregnancy. help me judge I black, She black, my parent black, her parent black, she come born yellow pickin. wetin she go name the pickin " se no b sumtin happen"
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fyneguy
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well may be if we were not taught reproduction in secondary school, this wouldnt happen.
That topic : reproduction, na hin initiate people to this thing.
Now we know the hormones are difficult to tame
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luvus
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Hi i find the topic really interetsing and funny. nteresting because it affects people like me and funny because it can't be stopped by mere discipline or whatever. (rememeber with all the talk of aids/hiv, unwanted pregnancy and so many pbms, decay is rampant in our society.)reason: simply bc what is making us do what we doing, is an entity called the FLESH. whether u saved or not, it resides in u and u know what? it will make u do it aganst your will that is for a christian. a sista mentioned the Holy Spirit, yes that is the main opposition to this entity. This entity is bigger than any religious affilition, human ideology, discipline or willfull abstainance. so what do we do? give in because it is beyound us? No! cause it will destroy u. stand against it? It will deceive u and make u feel u are beyond falling into sex. so the only Solution: The Holy Spirit.and please we religious idiots as u call us are free to air our view so please spare us the cursing. if what we rite offends u sorry but if it helps thank God, |
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mama orga (f)
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NAIRALANDERS UNA GO FIT KILL PERSON WITH LAUGHTER
I DON LAUGH TIRE FOR THIS THREAD
HA HA HA HA
TEABAGGING- WHY THE BALLS NA LIPTON TEA?
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ikhideman (m)
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I can't understand why people & I mean Guys and Ladies can't hold themselves for 3wks at the orientation camp. When a girl decides to remain chaste, some will say its a lie or no opportunity, etc;while if a guy decides not to engage in immorality, people would say he's probably impotent.
For me, remaining chaste inspite of temptations means DISCIPLINE and/or SELF-CONTROL; that's the big difference between us HUMANS, and ANIMALS. When i told one of my female friends that I havent had sex in six months, she jokingly said she would like to test my potency. Is it a must (for unmarried people) to give in to sexual desires regularly? I'm a Guy, have those desires, but have developed the art of self control to handle them. Nothing is easy, but if u really want to control yourself, You CAN. (whether Guy or Lady, & even married people when their spouseS are out of town)
I'm not tryin to be "holier than thou" afterall I've done it before, but self control is key.
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conny
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inspiROHM (m)
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Talk about chastity now and man you will be asked if you are some alien and will be stared as the same. I can clearly remember the day i lost my virginity; the same day that Pope John Paul came to Nigeria. That day I did it by choice and not out of peer pressure. The last day I had sex is what gets people screaming their heads off, one guy was staring at me open mouthed and the girls just couldn't sink it into their heads that it is very possible: December 4th 2004. At the cafe where I normally spend time, it was a heated discussion. Some guys even offered to contract out call girls pay for a good hotel room for me.
One thing is in my nature, I can't have sex with someone I do not have feelings for. So one night stands is out of question. I must trust that girl enough to trust her with my nakedness. It is not that I don't like or never enjoyed sex then. I did, but I am very selective about who I go bed with. If the lady in question is peevish and inhibited, I can never look at her even with a 500x zoom 60 mile range telescope. If she is wild adventurous and flings caution through the bedroom door as it closes, no skin off my nose, she'll have everything she ever desired sexually. I am a Virgo, check out our sexual characteristics. Well the main reason I quit sex is that I need to live a life where my woman, whoever she will be will always see me as different and trust me deeply. Even my ex-girlfriend that got married like 5 years ago still believes that I have not humped a girl since then because of the way I treated her with respect. During the relationship she was the one that actually asked that I make love to her the first time we did it. Guys please try chastity, there is nothing as positive as it. I can tell you that because the peace of mind that comes with it is only found in HEAVEN.
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prince84 (m)
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everybody loves SEX, from bill clinton to sani abacha from monica lewisky to paris hilton everybody loves it. for sex its not a bad thing ooo, if not it would not have been created, its just that its was supposed to be a special thing between two people that love themselves, Now everybody does it like we are chickens, Na wao I was on the Metro last night, i see one girl dey give I'm guy BJ, for inside Metro i just shake my head, hiss come think, the world go soon end. so everyone shag,BJ and Teabag all you can cause in HEAVEN we will Be singing 24/7/infinity NO TIME FOR S.E.X!!!!! use a condom oooo |
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guysmat (f)
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The spirit of "brush" exits in every human born of a woman, That means all of you reading this  . Na natural urge!!! It takes the grace of God not to give into these urges from time to time. Sometimes you give in and you wonder what all the stress was all about. On other times that you don't, you could daydream for months/years about how the experience with partner X would have been, Even though it's a DOG, it isn't something one should take lightly. Its the ability to control the "dog" in each and everyone of us that will see us through. Sometimes we control it, but on other times, , we just can't help but give in. God help us! It's a function of time urge. Hopefully, the urge will reduce as you get older, or else , wetin you go tell God if you kick bucket during the away match?  Na devil cause am ba? At the end, its your life (and that of partner (if you're married)). see ya later people  |
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