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alextayo (m)
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Why is it that when a guy took a lady on a date, no matter how exotic the place you took her to, no matter how much money you spend on her and how interesting the outing is, she never calls you after the date hence you will still be the one to call here thereafter.
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iice (f)
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Call you for what? More talking?  Didn't you talk the whole night and probably day away?
BTW what's with the took?
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ifyalways (f)
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@poster prolly they didnt enjoy the outing. . . .it takes more than money and all for a nice date.perharps you are a bore . . . what did you talk about on the 1st date?. . . your parents or your biz? Look inwards  |
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The Sly
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Why is it that when a guy took a lady on a date, no matter how exotic the place you took her to, no matter how much money you spend on her and how interesting the outing is, she never calls you after the date hence you will still be the one to call here thereafter. Maybe your style is lame.  |
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jkpretty (f)
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LMAO  I wonder why u shld expect her to call i like the girl sef. |
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sylvex (f)
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maybe u're not the smart type or there's something about u which she doesn't hmmmm like
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Dalby (m)
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Na hard to get them dey play  |
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dreeldee (m)
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if she doesn't enjoy your trips then don't expect her to call you, also lots of ladies feel they will look cheap to the guy by calling first after a date.
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alextayo (m)
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FOR CLARITY SAKE, i never said i took a lady out on a date and she never calls me.
This is a trend i have noticed in almost all Nigerian girls, and if this is true, It shows that you girls are in for chop and clean mouth. No matter what happens on a date, courtesy demands u show a little appreciation except you want to tell me that you are forced into the date or you have probably been dreading the date from the onset but your greed for chop chop wouldnt let you opt out.
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iice (f)
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courtesy demands u show a little appreciation By saying Thank you or I had a great time or lets do this again @ the end of the date.
Pray tell why would she call after all that? |
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@desodgi (m)
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Well I guess the reason is just because if you are eligible to take them on a date you should also be stupid enough to know they are short of credit to call and its your duty to call and ask how they enjoyed the date. . . . . . . . .Well the end result will surely be. . . . . Girl : Am sorry I haven't called, I haven't gotten enough credit on my phone. Will you top-it-up for me. Dude : Ok, I'll see what I can do, but hope you enjoyed yourself sha. . . . Third Class Monkeyz, Mhen, they must believe men are mugunz all the time sha |
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stillwater (f)
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Get it into your head, it was just a date.
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Busta (f)
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Not all cases are like . . . if she likes u, she call u back and thank for the time and money well spent and she won't if she ain't feeling u. . . as long as the food was good.
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Dalby (m)
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Get it into your head, it was just a date.
A very bold statement I must say, but does not mean you should loose all sense of courtesy A guy does not notice that you are putting on a new dress, and you make so much fuss about, but its just a new dress |
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4Him (m)
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Perhaps its because no matter how exotic the place you took her to, no matter how much money you spend on her and how interesting the outing is, she just doesnt think you're worth the effort.
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phemyphemo (m)
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I WON'T SIDE EITHER SEX. IT IS NOT ALL THE GIRLS THAT DON'T CALL AFTER A DATE. SOME ARE FORCED FOR THE DATE AND AFTER THE DATE THEY WILL FIND IT DIFFICULT TO CALL BACK BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT INTERESTED AT THE FIRST PLACE.
HOWEVER, SOME ARE VERY SILLY BECAUSE THEY FEEL THEY ARE ON TOP. THEY WANT TO EAT AND RUN. (IF You DEY THAT CATEGORY, GOD GO PONISH YOU)
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Dalby (m)
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Niggaz should get it straight that not all dates must turn into relationships. Boyz u gotta to make
dates part of your life as it facilitates hormonal balance in the body system. Men, after a date, does it really
matter who calls first? At times, both parties forget about it. Don't expect because u heavily spent on her
that she must call to thank you. You aint the first to spend such on her. As a matter of fact, she probably
goes on even better dates than yours.
Look niggazz, why even spend on girls on first date? Mami, I've got lotta ladies served. We gon' to split
the bill half ways. You aint ma "queen", we just chillin' together, we both had a nice time except you'll
frankly tell me you aint gat no dough. But if you feel classy or bossy, baby, no lie, we splitting halves.
You gotta prove your classiness right there with me and I'd have shown u your classiness aint mean no shit to me.
Really funny, split the bill with Nigerian babe!!! hehehehe The greatest joke of the millennium  |
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stillwater (f)
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A very bold statement I must say, but does not mean you should loose all sense of courtesy A guy does not notice that you are putting on a new dress, and you make so much fuss about, but its just a new dress I would have appreciated the guy that same day!!!!!!!!! |
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babycool (f)
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Many Reasons she may not want to call you
1. she was not impressed with you at all
2. she never really liked you and just used the date to fill up a boring day
3. she may just be intrested in the wine and dine and nothing else
4. she may still be contemplating if she wants to see yoou again or not
5. she doesnt want to see you again.
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opokonwa (m)
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It's just a ladies' thing.
Na shakara! You want her to sound like you've just given her the trip of her life???
Please follow suit with a call if you truly mean to get her or otherwise come to Nairaland and ask more questions
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bobbyxxx1 (m)
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The babe is just posing for you. Fashi her and she will be the one harassing you with calls. Bottom line, endeavour not to burn your money, time and credit on her. Because someboby else may be banging her.
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morenike09 (f)
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simplyyou didn't buy her a Lexuswetin she wan call you for? |
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eminex (m)
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she just probably wants you to do it all over again. you meet her and ask her out on a date again as if one never happened. |
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opokonwa (m)
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simplyyou didn't buy her a Lexuswetin she wan call you for? How many you don buy for person before? ? People wey their yansh never enter Lexus na them dey form Lexus pass.  The babe is just posing for you. Fashi her and she will be the one harassing you with calls. Bottom line, endeavour not to burn your money, time and credit on her. Because someboby else may be banging her.
Dem dey talk about dating, you don enter bang?! Some Nigerian men and jumping into conclusions! |
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frank 3.16 (m)
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if she does not call, it probably means that she does not like you and didnt enjoy your company no matter how much you tried to impress her or because she like you and enjoyed the date but stupidly thinks she should still be playing hard to get, isnt that crazy.
do you know what i do when girls are not decent enough to show appreciation?
i keep a cool head, try to eventually get her to love and then when my love and care eventually humbles her to cal me even at the slighthest nice guesture, i stop calling her. and no matter how good she eventually turns up, i wil never call her to tell her how nice she has been to me.
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cixluv (f)
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@ et al i've had dates with gals and i have come to understand that: (1) those who don't call to appreciate even though they enjoyed the outing, r the hungry ones. (2) those who call to appreciate the outing r open minded and nice. i mean they just enjoyed themselves. (3) those who don't appreciate r not humble and try to feel among, even though they've never been to an eatry etc. (4) those who apprecite u have had dates and r aware that appreciating it means ticket 4 another date. etc any chic who does not appreciate a date with me, simply & naturally will not/never get another one from me. it's that simple i mean  |
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phemyphemo (m)
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MORENIKE09
THAT IS VER WRONG.
LET'S BE MATURE
WATIN DEY THEIR, LADIES NO FIT STAY WITHOUT GUYS NOW, ABI NA WATIN DEY DO You.CHERS
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frank 3.16 (m)
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MORENIKE
i know your type (your papa get Lexus?) i am very sure that you live in face me i face you compound. someone like you will chop ishi ewu, ugba, abacha, nkwobi with five bottles of small stout and will still want take away. but you wont have the decency to call and say simple thanks.
and even if you have a phone you will prefer flashing. and all your cloths are gwonjo.
take a look at you name "MORENIKE" oh my GOD!!! what a local name, what happened to Tracy, Vennessa, Cynthia or Stephany. bush girl see u see lexus. no he wil buy plane for you. person like you suppose wed for inside tipper or gwongworo!!!!!!!
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opokonwa (m)
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because the date was lame and because you didnt ask her for sex on the first date - girls like men who ask them for sex on the first date - if you're too lame to ask for sex on the first date, they think you have gotten a bent di ck.
I wonder where you got those wack ideas from? ?? I also wonder what sort of girls you've been dating? ? Ashawos? |
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indaclub (m)
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Its common to find girls with such practice; but there r a few exceptions to these act. I think its either a feeling of complex or that of greed or ingratitude.
Some may call it an act of naivety bt others see it as an act of stupidity. That is nt to say that all girls r the same.
Courtesy demands that u place a call to the one that took the responsibility to foot the bill - no matter what his intentions may be.
You may take a girl out, and u need nt demand for sex from her the first day even if that is your intention. Let it be that you're just gambling; if she returns a call, well she might be 1 that appreciates. Otherwise, she might as well belong to the same general group - ingrates, chop n go. It is nt safe to split the bill on a date wt a Naija babe, 'because u'll fail: She thinks you're nt serious bt when you're serious she might think you're a mugu. Well, its a game, so to say.
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Rogo
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Such girls lack appreciative training from their home. that's why such are cheap to deceive. i do give respect and handle with care when i meet a girl or lady that appreciate every little outing we have together.
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