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Needlelady (f)
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Recently, the issue of open marriage is becoming a source of concern to most western spouses because they suspect it's polygamy in disguise. It involves the both parties to seek sexual gratification elsewhere as long as the other partner knows about it. I've read in some subpar tabloids about celebrities like Will Smith and Jada that are involved in that kind of marriage claiming it strenghtens their relationship. Do you think it's another lousy way for cheating partners to exhale and sleep around or do you subscribe to the idea?
Personally, I am sure this is another masculine ploy to satisfy their unlimited sexual libido. As bad as I detest polygamy, I think open marriage is even worse and I urge Nigerian women to resist that culture at all cost. What do you think?
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D-reloaded (f)
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You seem to worry yourself about alot of things.
First off the whole will and jada crap is an old rumor that has been proven to be a lie
secondly those who have open marriages/relationship are both engaging in it so in a way it's, actually it's better than polygamy ocs it's not just the husband getting his "variety is the spice of life", BOTH are and if they are find with it, hey more power to them, nah their business. No difference between them and swingers. They don't bother me.
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ibkaye (f)
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Stupid excuse just to sleep with other people.  |
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Needlelady (f)
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Stupid excuse just to sleep with other people Ain't you seeing the Dumber generation here subscribing to it? |
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stillwater (f)
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Let's just say we are racing for the age where applying self control would become history. I feel it's the easiest way to cover up people's insecurities. Personally, I'm not bothered by people demeaning their relationship in the name of having an open marriage, eventhough I firmly have it at the back of my mind that it is contradictory to my stance in life. If it works for the couple, that is their bloody business. I detest people that do not know the meaning of self control. In these days of STDs flying everywhere, people still contemplate the idea of open marriage  |
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OMO IBO (m)
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y do people especially blacks make references to will and jada when they talk about open relationship? wills statement was misconstrued and for some reason we had run with it.
anyways back to thread: open relationship/marriage is simply rubbish to me. can't get my head round it.
although it works for some people. i guess it's each to their own.
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OMO IBO (m)
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Ain't you seeing the Dumber generation here subscribing to it?
i maybe slow or better still it wasnt obvious. i went through the post again and noticed the letter in bold. do i smell b1tch fight in the offing? |
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Needlelady (f)
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i maybe slow or better still it wasnt obvious. i went through the post again and noticed the letter in bold.
do i smell b1tch fight in the offing?
It's also obvious that 'blessed are the peacemakers' cannot be found in your personal bible. |
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OMO IBO (m)
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It's also obvious that 'blessed are the peacemakers' cannot be found in your personal bible.
i don't remember advocating for war |
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D-reloaded (f)
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Omo Ibo, the girl is daft but thinks she's clever and if she continues I wont hesitate in making sure she ends up having to make ANOTHER screen-name  I genuinely replied the thread but since she's such an insufferable cunt she had to try to find a way to turn it into something else I also like how she tried to imply that "I subscribe to it", Ode, is that what I said? I just said there are better things to worry about and that it's actually better than polygamy because wives are allowed to go outside too, both people make an agreement for it. It works for them, good. Wouldnt work for me or some others obviously. Not that hard to understand but when a person is an everlasting imbecile, with nothing better to do than complain about other people's lives because theirs is so miserable, what do you expect |
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Cassiel (f)
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@d-reloaded Lovely outburst,lol Seems someone's got you pissed. Thanks for your concern the other day dearie.Haven't been banned as yet  |
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D-reloaded (f)
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Cassiel, the girl's irritating because even though sometimes I agree with her views shes still a hypocritical tart. It's depressing. I was looking for that thread! I was praying you didnt get banned but good to see all is well |
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morenike09 (f)
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Stupid excuse just to sleep with other people. you're so right,baby. people will always try to find an excuse to make cheating something normal or try to find ways to disguise wrong things as a good thing. back in the old days, when you get married, your body and you yourself belonged only to your spouse. i guess since more cases on infidelity in marriages have sky-rocketed, they're now trying to find ways to make cheating justifiable and right. but which idiot would agree to an open marriage, who else but cheaters and perverts. strengthen the marriage ke? what is the point of the marriage when your husband can just walk to the neighbor's house and sleep with her? . i dnt think i can bare that o.  Jesu!! what is the world turning to. , open r/ship, open marriage, what is the point of hitching yourself with a guy/girl when you can just be with anyone else the same time. WDH? that one na another name for polygamy jo. |
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D-reloaded (f)
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lol infidelity skyrocketing? Hasnt it always been in the sky?  |
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nwando
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reloaded,is that hotfunmi?
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morenike09 (f)
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lol infidelity skyrocketing? Hasnt it always been in the sky? in the western world, there is no limit, them they reach higher than the sky jare |
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D-reloaded (f)
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at least in the western world polygamy isnt legal.
osisi, who else makes plenty of retarded threads whining all the time?
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morenike09 (f)
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at least in the western world polygamy isnt legal.
does it matter if it is legal or not? what's wrong is wrong!! abeg, you might as well say an open marriage is another sect of polygamy. just like the western world formed their own idea of English, they're also slightly trying to make what is wrong something rightful. am not saying this is just from the western side, but this thread is talking about the western side. |
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D-reloaded (f)
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just saying how can people from Nigeria complain about infidelity in other countries
It's laughable.
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morenike09 (f)
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just saying how can people from Nigeria complain about infidelity in other countries
It's laughable.
just as how people from America complain about AIDs in Africa. . . yes, vey hilarious. yet a very serious matter |
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Needlelady (f)
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i don't remember advocating for war attaboy! |
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OMO IBO (m)
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attaboy!
what does that mean? |
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opokonwa (m)
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@poster
If what you described is true, then I think it is another sign of the end times.
The times are evil. It is a desecration of matrimony and a legalizing of both adultery and immorality.
Wetin God go judge plenty o!
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techzone
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Open marriage is wrong likewise polygamy
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Busta (f)
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it's another lousy way for cheating partners to exhale and sleep around.
Besides, how do u curb jealousy which definately exists in this kind of relationship. This kind of relationship makes no sense to me.
Personally, I don't like to share lovers or be shared by lovers.
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Islander (f)
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@topic
Open Marriage? NO way, Open relationship? hmmmmmmmm. why not?
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Dr Ferlie (m)
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it's another lousy way for cheating partners to exhale and sleep around.
It is NOT so far the couple involved agreed to do it. Besides, how do u curb jealousy which definately exists in this kind of relationship. This kind of relationship makes no sense to me.
There is no jealousy of any type. The objectives and limit of such relationship would have been set initially. It is just for sexual gratification only. No other feelings or attachment personally, I don't like to share lovers or be shared by lovers.
A lot of lovers do and will continue to. who says sexual gratification outside your shell isn't remarkable and sweet?? |
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Needlelady (f)
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By Dr Ferlie,
There is no jealousy of any type. The objectives and limit of such relationship would have been set initially. It is just for sexual gratification only. No other feelings or attachment In that case, they are no more practicing the HOLY MATRIMONY, the couple are rather holding on to 'BUSINESS MATRIMONY'. sheeesh. |
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Dr Ferlie (m)
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In that case, they are no more practicing the HOLY MATRIMONY, the couple are rather holding on to 'BUSINESS MATRIMONY'. sheeesh.
It is still holy matrimony just that the sexual gratification/satisfaction aspect has been outsourced. The couple still live together, bear children and do what other couples do.  |
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Dr Ferlie (m)
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Let's just say we are racing for the age where applying self control would become history. I feel it's the easiest way to cover up people's insecurities. Personally, I'm not bothered by people demeaning their relationship in the name of having an open marriage, eventhough I firmly have it at the back of my mind that it is contradictory to my stance in life. If it works for the couple, that is their bloody business. I detest people that do not know the meaning of self control. In these days of STDs flying everywhere, people still contemplate the idea of open marriage .
Why would you be infected with STD if the necessary PPM ( Privates Protective Materials) are used??
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