Giving Your Fellow Nairalanders A Chance

Ladies and Gentlemen of nairaland,

I greet you all in the name of God

This matter i am going to table here was born out of a thread someone posted here.

Its about how he met his fiancee here on nairaland, It was a sweet story for me because thats the kind of things i like to hear.

My question is for all the nairalanders who are not yet married or engaged.

How serious do you take people you meet here on nairaland.?

A guy i met here a week ago asked me to link him up with a white woman and i asked him

''what about all those ladies i see their names here on nairaland''

How many of them have you ever asked out ?

He just said that i don't want to help him and closed the chat window.

The same question goes to the ladies too, 

All those guys that you meet here, how many of them have you ever taken

serious?

Remember you can't tell what a person is because of where you met him or her.

I know that this is one of the (if not the) biggest forum owned by a nigerian in this country.

Let us make it a nigerian property by doing more serious things here instead of running off to hi5 or myspace.
, thank you all

rotflmao. . . link him up with a white woman? when we're here? outrageous!!

anywayzi pick eldeethe boy said he's rich oeldee, i dey make plan for us oyou berra be a millionaire   

The problem is that a lot of people are not their real selves on nairaland. People pose a lot here. So, it is not really difficult to see why some ladies will avoid the brothers in here if they can.

Also, the guys too are no different. They give off a wrong picture of who they really are. Infact, most of them sound really desperate, and I don't blame the ladies for not really looking at their side.

But, Sam, since you started this, probably you should just be appointed the official 'alaga iduro' of nairaland.

@ sam milla,
Nice one u have here. I think we will do better if we can mingle more and chill with one another. I believe we can as well get all the fun we want here in naija way !      Thats not to say we can't go to other sites or forum.

All those magas that has turned our sisters away ! You berra watch out because your head will be bursted !
And all those sisters that has played my brothers, make una cool down ooooooo ! must u "dull" the brothers???

Lets keep it real and we sure gon have a better NAIRALAND.

For real, cheers

hmmmn!

she mustn't see this o



just be serious for once. my arms are waiting to receive you

nice post, but i'd rather pass on the opportunity of hooking up with someone on this land even if i was single. no offence, but most of the fellaz here are way below my league judging by their perceived lifestyle from what they post. there are a few good men among them though, and i can count them on my fingers!

new friends might be the solution to your problems dear

@arianne
I like your reply, I refuse to critisize you for saying that fellaz here are way below your league but i guess you used the way they sound in their posts to make your judgement.
Your judgement might not be close to being correct.
You can't possibly know what kind of person a man or a woman is the first time you meet him/her, no matter where you people meet.
Its by giving him/her a chance that you will know what he/she is capable of doing.
People can change to what you wish them to be only if you stay close to them and not if you stay away from them,

FINALLY,
SINCE YOU ARE MARRIED, DOES IT SIMPLY MEAN THAT YOUR HUSBAND IS BETTER THAN ALL NAIRALANDERS.


 I WONDER WHO YOU THINK YOU ARE

@desodgi
Have spoken take note!!

there are problem-shooters on nairaland.  :Pwhy not tap into that resource??

Me too, @desodgi- - - Word!!!!

Read my signature again.

ROTFLMAO!!! Omg! its a mistake i reply the thread!! Na Sleep eyes  

BTW
How far na, make we block for N/L Game Base!!