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ztyle (m)
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You mean am?  Talk oh!!
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@desodgi (m)
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 No blames,why wont you. . .?
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saucekid (m)
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una don hear am? nairaland babes,make una give fine nairaland boys chance ooo
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SAM MILLA (m)
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Sam Milla no mind them jo! I am taking you seriously.  DONT WORRY, I AM BOOKED
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ztyle (m)
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Yes Oh S/Kid! 
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@desodgi (m)
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Come to think of it sef ~ we aint gat no female on nairaland that is up to the task of we guys on naira. 
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babycool (f)
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DONT WORRY, I AM BOOKED
You said we are not taking each other seriously now i am trying to and you are telling me you are booked? You see yourself now??So how can we take ourselves seriously? 
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micklplus (m)
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hmmmmmmmmmmmmm
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phemyphemo (m)
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YOU ARE TOO MUCH TRUE TALK, PROUDLY NIGERIAN I LOVE THAT
FELLOW NIGERIANS, You DON HEAR. LET'S STAY CONNECTED TO ONE ANOTHER
MAY GOD HELP US TO APPRECIATE OURSELVES
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dreeldee (m)
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Nairaland girls are too swellheaded so it just won't work like that
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@desodgi (m)
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Well as I will really like to collaborate with this thread, we don't have any girl worthy of the chore because only few are ladies the rest na monkey!
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Bblak (f)
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Lol. 
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Joey82 (m)
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well, if i'm supposed to use d general posts and replies of peeps on nairaland to judge, i'll conclude that nairaland is filled with a bunch of juveniles and pretenders. reality is so hard to find, in that peeps ve got more than one usernames and u can hardly tell who's who, on profiles there are no contacts, no e mails, not to talk of pix. i'm 1 of 'em  the ladies feel they want men, not boys who think they can and d guys seem to want a quicky with d ladies which makes d setting immature. hence a parallel that can hardly meet is drawn, a wide gap so hard to bridge. @sam milla u've got a good post here but am afraid its what a tall order!
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iice (f)
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Most guys go about it all wrong. . . You don't go around postingam lonely, i need a girl and post your contacts  Or be like 'I need a friend'. . .granted some of us are optimistic and naive. However i think it's apparent that alot of us are skeptical of people.
So why not see how you guys vibe then ask for some way to contact them, because most of us don't have our contacts posted due to spam and silly people
and no my contacts are not for offer. . .
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@desodgi (m)
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and no my contacts are not for offer. . .
iice scruples dey worry you, who asked for your contacts now. . .  Mhen, should something be telling me this babe is despairing, I wont deny it. 
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Sisikill
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@ Poster By their words ye shall know them and to be honest, only a handful of guys have written any quite noteworthy on this site.
Why would I want to give a guy who thinks I should remain in a relationship where I'm being used for punching bag because God says so?
Why would you I want to be with a guy who thinks him cheating on me is my fault?
Why would I want to be with a guy who would expect me me to go "ah, boys will be boys" when he sleeps with another girl?
Why would I want to be with a guy who before I even finish stating my opinion on a matter, he's already calling my names?
Why would I want to be with a guy who thinks educated women are the downfall of society because they belong in the kitchenbarefoot and pregnant?
Like I saidby their words ye shall know them. It's bad enough having that kind of aggravation on the net, I'd be a complete idiot to bring it into real life.
So thanks Sam Milla but no thanks.
I'm happy for those who found love on Nairalandnot only that, I'm in awe of them because it takes a lot of faith and courage to do that.
Congratulations you two, whoever you are.
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iice (f)
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iice scruples dey worry you, who asked for your contacts now. . .  Mhen, should something be telling me this babe is despairing, I wont deny it.  It usually comes out. . . Just to save one the trouble. . .
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tkb417 (m)
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@iice i hereby ban you for calling some people silly (LOL!)
wait here, is it about guys not knowing how best to approach the girls? i'll let you know that 1 million and 1 babes here too are looking for cheap attention, reasons why most sapheads go about displaying placards about how lonely they are.
@Topic I think its time we organised some schitzo where everybody can get to see. .at least we can put to end all these larger than life impressions we have of some people The stockmarket section i know have plans of doing stuffs like that. presently, the London guys will meet over bingys and i know we Lagos dudes will do the same I'm sure this blog has been able to foster some camaraderie and physical get togethers might just be the final piece in the puzzle My 2 cents ( i should not be quoted o)
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morenike09 (f)
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Nairaland girls are too swellheaded so it just won't work like that
same goes for you guys. . . all most all naija men are unbearable, arrogant, pervertic piece of @#$%
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SAM MILLA (m)
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@ Poster By their words ye shall know them and to be honest, only a handful of guys have written any quite noteworthy on this site.
Why would I want to give a guy who thinks I should remain in a relationship where I'm being used for punching bag because God says so?
Why would you I want to be with a guy who thinks him cheating on me is my fault?
Why would I want to be with a guy who would expect me me to go "ah, boys will be boys" when he sleeps with another girl?
Why would I want to be with a guy who before I even finish stating my opinion on a matter, he's already calling my names? Why would I want to be with a guy who thinks educated women are the downfall of society because they belong in the kitchenbarefoot and pregnant? Like I saidby their words ye shall know them. It's bad enough having that kind of aggravation on the net, I'd be a complete idiot to bring it into real life. So thanks Sam Milla but no thanks. I'm happy for those who found love on Nairalandnot only that, I'm in awe of them because it takes a lot of faith and courage to do that.[/b]
I don't know where to start analysing your problems, You have already concluded that all men in nairaland are people who maltreat their girlfriends or wives as the case maybe, What makes you think so angel?, Ok, think about it from this perspective, Someone said that all girls in nairaland are cheap attention seekers and that all girls here are ugly. Someone said we don't have the ladies in nairaland that are up to the task, Now do you agree with these people ?the answer is no. Are you one of these ugly girls? the answer is no again. So you see that their words does not affect you in any way. The chances are,there are thousands of people here who are good enough for you. The same to the boyz, there are thousands of girls here who are better than what you are looking for in a woman, Do not judge anybody by what he/she posts here. I have been in nairaland long enough to know how people started their replies in the beginning and eventually turned to what they are today due to the way some people treated their posts here, I agree with every body that there are idiots here , people like HIS GRACE AND his group. Do not let their posts affect your real life, you don't deserve that. Believe in your ability to change someone from bad to good, No one is ready made and no one is perfect,
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arianne (f)
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sam milla- first of all, i aint married but am definitely with someone. "and who do i think i am"? well, am someone who can smell a trashy, no good, low life brother from a thousand miles away (my radar is that strong). no aplogies if my refusal to mingle with people who spit crap instead of sound reasoning expected of a grown-ass male. i don't see that possibility, not in even in my next life.  p.s - please wake up from that slumber and quit the that theory of people changing people, we're not zombies but humans bounded by our will and choices, that is what everyone needs to make a change. no love in the world will change you if you don't love yourself first.
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SAM MILLA (m)
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sam milla- first of all, i aint married but am definitely with someone. "and who do i think i am"? well, am someone who can smell a trashy, no good, low life brother from a thousand miles away (my radar is that strong). no aplogies if my refusal to mingle with people who spit crap instead of sound reasoning expected of a grown-ass male. i don't see that possibility, not in even in my next life.  p.s - please wake up from that slumber and quit the that theory of people changing people, we're not zombies but humans bounded by our will and choices, that is what everyone needs to make a change. no love in the world will change you if you don't love yourself first. You said u are someone who can smell a trashy,no good,low life brother from a thousand miles and in your previous reply, u condemned all d boys on nairaland. what are u still doing here Condellezza Rice? You are very good at insulting people you have never met.I don't care what you believe. Just stop playing queen mother here.Every young woman who visits here are not exposed to MTV like you and don't confuse them.
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Sisikill
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I don't know where to start analysing your problems, You have already concluded that all men in nairaland are people who maltreat their girlfriends or wives as the case maybe, What makes you think so angel?, Ok, think about it from this perspective, Someone said that all girls in nairaland are cheap attention seekers and that all girls here are ugly. Someone said we don't have the ladies in nairaland that are up to the task, Now do you agree with these people ?the answer is no. Are you one of these ugly girls? the answer is no again. So you see that their words does not affect you in any way. The chances are,there are thousands of people here who are good enough for you. The same to the boyz, there are thousands of girls here who are better than what you are looking for in a woman, Do not judge anybody by what he/she posts here. I have been in nairaland long enough to know how people started their replies in the beginning and eventually turned to what they are today due to the way some people treated their posts here, I agree with every body that there are idiots here , people like HIS GRACE AND his group. Do not let their posts affect your real life, you don't deserve that. Believe in your ability to change someone from bad to good, No one is ready made and no one is perfect,
Touché Sam Milla, Touché. I guess I need to be clear-er on 2 things. 1) The ALL inclusive phrasing in my post was wrongfor that I apologize. 2) Starting a relationshipno matter where, when or how still comes down to personal preference and how much faith & Courage you are willing to put into it. PERSONALLY, I’d be a little hesitant of starting a relationship with majority of the guys whose posts I’ve read on Nairaland. Like I said earlier, only a handful of guys have attracted me with their wordsjust as I’m sure not all the guys who read mine are attracted by them either. This is not an insult to anyoneagain, it’s all about your preference and what kind of things attract you. I hope that makes this cleared. Oh one last thingsaying someone can change another person is the biggest urban myth ever perpetuated. Only YOU can change who you areso please let's stop giving people false hope that they have the power to change another human being.
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arianne (f)
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sammie, sammie, sammie, i did not condemn every guy on nairaland, i recall saying there a few good ones i can count on my fingers ( your deliberate omission). i did not insult people i never met, i only stated my uncompromising stance (kind of cute for u to call me madam rice).do you feel condemned, poor you. my truths are bitter pills to swallow so i'll advise you get a drum of water!
Oh one last thingsaying someone can change another person is the biggest urban myth ever perpetuated. Only YOU can change who you areso please let's stop giving people false hope that they can change another human being.
can you comprehend?
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SAM MILLA (m)
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@arianne i think d quarrel is enough, for all i care you might be better than all these girls who are keeping quiet on this matter.
HUMANS CAN ONLY BE CONTROLLED BY FAITH AND FEAR- I AM PUSHING FOR HOPE WHILE You ARE PUSHING FOR FEAR WHAT I BELIEVE CAN NOT BE CHANGED BY WHAT You THINK ONE DAY I WILL BE HERE COUNTING FOR You, HOW MANY PEOPLE MY MESSAGE CHANGED THEIR LIVES STAY STRONG
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arianne (f)
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abeg oga rocket scientist, which xhemistry is that?  we only rubbed minds like matured peeps do. don't give nairalanders something to muse about o!
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arianne (f)
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for which church, pastor chinda3?
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