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pareto
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Hello parents, How strict are you with your spouse and children? When i was a kid, my parents were both strict but my dad's strictness was extreme. He hardly played with us even with his wife, all he did was give us money in the morning and when is back, eat, watch TV and go to bed. We were with our mum most of d time because she gave us what we wanted. Later, we lost our mum(died) and now we are now adult. He is trying to get familiar with us but we hardly relate well with him and he complains. So, fathers (especially) if u are this type, change your attitude.
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iice (f)
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Dad is the cool one, Mum is the strict one. . .
We get along but not always  We are all too opinionated and stubborn
You can only relate if both sides are willing to work on it.
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tRoOE (f)
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Hmmmmm my dad isn't like that 
His very cool and easy when his dealing with the children
momsi is strict but not anymore ahaha she lost her touch
before it was hard for me to relate with momsi because we are both alike, but now we find ways to agree
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lucabrasi (m)
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my dad was like that as well but money was never a problem with us and when he beat me which he did often i know i deserved it because of all my bad moves then,but i agree parents should chill out with their kids and from my experience i know that money cannot be a substitute for fatherly love(lost my mum as well)and also beating a child will not correct any mistakes but having a talk with him/her,treating them like adults
@trooe make sure you protect your parents with the fbi cause i might come steal 'em off you and adopt them one of these days lol
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welli (f)
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i'm an aspiring mother nd when eventually i bcum one,i wil nt nd wil nt encourage my husband to be strict wit my kids.my parents are'nt .
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