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nddy (m)
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If you need to say "slower/faster/harder/right there/don't move/keep moving" ect then do so.
or words like um haa um haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa um haaaaaaaaaaa um haaaaaaaa
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vexxy (f)
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L.O.L. or something to that effect  |
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layi (m)
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.........................."slower/faster/harder/right there/ don't move/keep moving" ect ...............  Haba!..not all men are robotics humans. Most men are deaf while in cloud nine. Instead of sayin "don't move"..just hold his JT with your 2 hands and release it when u wish. I doubt your sucess even at that. When a man is approaching orgasm, his system is always corrupt..don't move? Thats when he'll move. My advise. Talk about your sexneeds before starting or better still go on handcuff sex. |
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vexxy (f)
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You're right, Layi. All of these things can be communicated non-verbally but the point is to have them communicated. Sometimes women place all of the blame on men when we infact can help make things happen. No one know's what we want more than us. |
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kamakula
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yes, sometimes women act as if guys can read minds
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vexxy (f)
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agreement #3? We're on a roll!
Communication is vital in any relationship, including a sexual one.
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kamakula
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on a roll vexxy . . .unless you're just pretending to agree with me
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vexxy (f)
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Honestly, some women don't need to have an orgasm to enjoy sex. It can be enjoyable with or without one. Leaving your man because of the lacking O seems unfathomable. Also, there are plenty of things that women can do during sex that can bring about the Big O. And something else, women need to be more vocal about what they like and dislike. Men don't know right off the cuff. If you need to say "slower/faster/harder/right there/don't move/keep moving" ect then do so. Part of the love making process that can take one to great heights includes communication. You're right, Layi. All of these things can be communicated non-verbally but the point is to have them communicated. Sometimes women place all of the blame on men when we infact can help make things happen. No one know's what we want more than us. Not pretending, truly agreeing if you note my previous posts. |
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kamakula
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i know - we're on a roll - you're agreeing with me; on a role - we're pretending
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munyasia (m)
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am readily available for any lady who has never had orgasm provided she comes to kenya 
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vexxy (f)
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That better be one out of this world "o" if one has to fly all the way to Kenya to receive it.
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layi (m)
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Fly to Kenya? Haba! Is the guys "ko ko below" made of steel?
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spencer (m)
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I appreciate your contributions so far on this topic. You guys should keep it up.
Vexxy, hot-angel and great p. I feel you guys
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bagoma (f)
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Hmmmm..... what a topic. i must say that i've enjoyed the contributions made thus far. really interesting. i just want to point out a thing or two that we neglected to mention.
Some women indeed have difficulty reaching orgasm during intercourse, by no fault of her own neither the man's. the reason in my opinion is connected with hang-ups that women have.
In this part of the world women have been programmed from childhood by society not too show too much enthusiasm for sex as such women are regarded as loose and promiscious so you find some women largely holding back during sex, pretending not to like so much what she is feeling.
This and some other issues hinders her enjoyment of sex and thus prevents her from reaching the peak of sexual pleasure.
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vexxy (f)
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Point well made, Bamgoma. Definitely something to consider. The woman may be unable to reach orgasm due to psychological hinderances.
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Greatpeter (m)
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Hmmmm..... what a topic. i must say that i've enjoyed the contributions made thus far. really interesting. i just want to point out a thing or two that we neglected to mention.
Some women indeed have difficulty reaching orgasm during intercourse, by no fault of her own neither the man's. the reason in my opinion is connected with hang-ups that women have.
In this part of the world women have been programmed from childhood by society not too show too much enthusiasm for sex as such women are regarded as loose and promiscious so you find some women largely holding back during sex, pretending not to like so much what she is feeling.
This and some other issues hinders her enjoyment of sex and thus prevents her from reaching the peak of sexual pleasure.
Orgasm if reached can't be resisted you just suddenly see yourself increasing the tempo before you come to realise it. I believe this doesn't apply here you can quote me anywhere. |
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bagoma (f)
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oh gp, i beg to disagree with you. this whole sex thing revolves in the brain. how you FEEL, how you see yourself, your whole mindset from the onset plays a major role in the end result. if you don't believe me ask your grandmother if she knows anything about orgasm talkless about feeling it. another thing, you aren't a woman. its one thing to read stuff on paper, it is quite a different ball game practically.  |
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Greatpeter (m)
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Bogoma what has my groundmother got to do with with this topic?
I believe brain co-ordinates every activities of the body.
Both we have voluntary and involuntary impulse.
But I save this info till you come on board.
But you should have asked me for clarification before you brought my groundma in.
I'm not happy about that but no problem, all the same we are still one.
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bagoma (f)
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hey greatpeter, i was only joking, i honestly thought you would laugh at my jibe. e jooo baba oko mi, ema binu.  never meant to insult big mama, i could never do that. see i should've have said ask my own granma.  what i meant is that our great ground mama's were psyched not to like it and such they couldnt let go enough to achieve orgarsm. that's all. please say i'm forgiven. |
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spencer (m)
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Gp, with all due respect, there is sense in bogama's opinion. most women pretend not to like the game, in other not to make men think they are so crazy about sex. This, though, may not prevent the joy and satisfaction, but will stop them from reaching the climax of it.
Since the introduction of this topic, I have been talking to women on this issue. Reaching orgasm, I believe has to do with age. Complains of not reaching orgasm falls among women aged 23 below. Any woman above this age stands a better chance of the sweet experience.
Women in the house!, whats up. Prove me wrong.
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bagoma (f)
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thank you dear brother spencer, but i'd really like to hear it from the horse's mouth.... ooops, there i go again,  sorry, i meant to say the great GP. |
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Greatpeter (m)
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Bagoma we can't tangle, God forbid I'm not offended.
Believe me, we are friends and family.
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drbigdaddyg (m)
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I knew you would be like G.P. of the bible. Peace maker and emmmmmmmmmmm  lots more |
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Greatpeter (m)
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I'm just trying to, thanks drbdaddyg
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drbigdaddyg (m)
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Keep it up. People aspire that.
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Greatpeter (m)
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Alright. so what do you know about orgasm?
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drbigdaddyg (m)
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You guys have made a good contribution on it.
Your ideas are all suitable. I give it up that way.
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Greatpeter (m)
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So have you met a lady who does not reach orgasm?
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