Dating A Hausa Man?

@ poster abeg enjoy your aboki man jo.
which one is my one.
If my Mr Nwando was aboki I would have still married him.

Aboki

Lolcute.

@
Sly
I agree with youwhich is why I'm just going to sit back, all chilled and whatnot.

@ sly



nairaland without tribal war is like drinking gari without sugar, for some people.

They wouldnt be here but for the opportunity to throw tribal jabs online. Since its not done so easily in real life without the offender getting some heavy duty knock outs.

Ay! So much for being chilled and whatnot.

@ Nwando
Okay, Is it possible for you to acknowledge that if you were caught in an area where there's a riot. . . regardless of who is involved, peaceful won't be a description you'D use?


No matter how you try to spin thisthe truth is it's because of YOUR bias towards the Hausas you'D think someone saying they prefer a Hausa person is automatically calling none Hausa people evil.

LolI gotta tell ya, for a moment there, I thought I'D be pulled into a demon casting prayer session because of my personal preference.


Gets down on both knees.
Thank you A l l a h . . .errI mean Jesus for the anonymity the internet provides us ooh. Who knows who would be knocking down my door right now ready to cart me off for deliverance service. Amen! That is the final word you'D use for a prayer, right?

Anyhoo, thanksit's been enlightening to say the least. 

   
I feel you bro!. . . . i really don't know what they derive from it. . .

   Yea its ma pleasure to join you as well. . . .Lemme sit back. . relax with ma popcorn! 

@maryray



Yes, but isn't it true ?  It is an open secret that hausas are the least educated people in Nigeria yet they spend money any how. The yorubas have
atleast gone to school; they have produced a nobel prize winner and have a reason to celebrate unlike you illiterate hausas.


Which state other than lagos in Yorubaland is as backward as Jigawa state ? Is it in education ? Is it in enterpreneurship ? Even
with the huge amount of money accruing to Jigawa from the federation account, it continues to be the poorest state in Nigeria per
capita and most backward state in the Federation.


Which Ibadan is close to lagos ?  Ibadan was developed by the former western region by money from cocoa. We had the
tallest building in west africa at the time, the first radio station, and so on. So, Lagos played no role in the development
of Ibadan.

Hausas have ruled Nigeria for the bulk of its life since Independence, yet, you people are the least educated and poorest.
Year after year, hausas are at the bottom of the pile of students seeking admission to universities.



Obasanjo does not have a farm in Abeokuta, his farm is at Ota. It's apparent you don't know what you are
talking about.


eyaa, I apologize for the yoruba guy that dumped your ugly behind. Atleast, the musslims in Yorubaland do not chop

off people's hands for stealing or sentence their women to be stoned

to death for committing adultery. They have chosen to embrace civilization unlike you hausas.



All over Nigeria, hausas go door to door begging people for money. What an Accomplished set of people 



Please go and address your illiteracy in the north. Go and tell your people that there is more to education
than learning about the Kooran.
 

@ All contributors
Dont personally think different about Hausa guys. Am a guy myself and had lived in the north (Kaduna/Niger states) for 8yrs. Hausa guys are as good as every other guy we meet all the time. Very lovely and accomodating people provided u don't talk ill of their religion.

My Own take!
From my observations while in Zaria, I found out that southern ladies majorly dates Hausa guys not for love but for material gain. A typical religious Hausa guy would pay some sort of money to a certain lady for merely approaching toasting or razzling irrespective of the outcome. This gesture is one major aspect that drives southern gals crazy about Hausa guys.

The most annoying aspect was that, all through my years in Zaria (Campus), I never saw nor heard of any real Hausa girl (a religious Hausa girl) having any sort of affair with a southern guy (Christian). I meant never heard nor seen with my eyes. Majority of my friends over there were Hausa guys, all dating Igbo girls. Well, before and after our NYSC, majority of those my Hausa friends got married to fellow Hausa ladies.

Hmmmmmmm, a southern lady dating an Hausa guy is like excusing a lady for a dance in a club: "Excuse me dance!", mind you that after the dance, everyone goes back home to his/her respective person.

 

@chukz4real

Well the one i dated was circumcised don't know about others.  Everything about him was normal ok.I have heard the rumour before too. Dont think it applies to all of them.

My sister, if you are not a Muslim and you want to marry a Hausa guy who is a Muslim, you better think twice.

you are very safe if he is a Christian, no problem with that.

if he is a Muslim, i assure you that you will continue to remain stranger in your own home.
go and learn more about their culture, i bet you will have a re-think. here are some important things about Hausa Muslims that you must know.

Once you are married to them, you are stuck indoor for more than half of the rest of your life. you don't talk to any other male, or go out unnecessary(especially if he is a fanatic)

they see women as second class citezens, you can't make any decision in your own home, what he says is absolute and you must obey, infact your obedience makes him love you more.

if you are not converted after a period of time, there will be pressure from his people to take another woman, this you can't stop since his decision remains absolute

there will definitely be more wives, its like a train on a track, be assured of that.

marriage is a life time thing and not a dating thing, have you asked your self how the relationship will be in the next five years especially when you put all these variables into consideration?

LOOK, they can be very good lovers, and are very caring, this is because of they way they love jealously, but the bad news is that they are capable of giving that same love to multiple women.

if you love him so much and don't want to let go, then, to make your marriage work, get converted and learn to stay indoor, avoid people(especially males), forget about your education, be ready to be like a slave to him.

no offence to my Hausa friends, you guys are great.

Hmmmn Hausa men.                                                                     
                                                                               
The few ones I met are nice and very responsible.  It is not all Hausa men that are polygamous.

Again, it is rare you see a stingy Hausa men.  They are free givers.  But they can get annoyed too sometimes.
If you come across an educated one, you will                                                                                                                               prefer to date him.
           

LOL.
How do you guys stay so slim though?
The men are tall and lanky just like obama
not all those potbellied southerners

hehehehehehehe

deola1 to hell with you, you are disgusting

That's what i am talking about, there  is good and bad people everywhere, FYI we have less arm robbers in the north too.

every lady or gentleman should be able to relate well with everyone regardless of their religious or cultural backgrounds.

but since dating is the first stage towards getting married, its important to consider your values and make sure you don't have to compromise them while dating anyone.

cheers my people.

They are really cool, I mean the Hausas. I grew up in Kano and enjoyed every bit of it. But then, here is the caveat. You guys are best of friends until the issue of religion comes up. Then that is when u see a whole new side  Most of them , anyway.