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J UNIT (m)
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just asking? no offence
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Dr Ferlie (m)
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never heard of that. they don't exist in nigeria
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bawomolo (m)
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they exist in the closet. there are probably more DL/bisexuals in naija though
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frank 3.16 (m)
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Yea there a lot of them, i have had contact with about four or five.
i am good at singing so i met this very good singer but a homosexual, he loved my voice but at the end of the day i found out he felt i was sexy since i have a nice voice , i am not sexy ooooo for him, i took to my heels.
there is this other guy that sells cloths. i went into his shop to buy cloths and noticed that he was breathing hard and using my hands to rub on his genitals(still under his jeans o), i was bold to tell him"this one way you touch my hand for your pennis, i hope say you go give me cloths for free. he didnt give me any cloth for free. but i came back another day with a friend whom i explained my experience with. we came with a big bag, and while he tried to seduce me, my took some cloths, like boxers, light tee shirt, and belts and put them into the bag.
we no be theives o but we saw the opportunity and we grabbed it.
yea their are so many of them, GOD how they disgust me.
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D-reloaded (f)
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.Um Yea.
Most of those stories you here about boys hostels isnt a lie
Apparently there's a gay club in Nigeria that is frequented by governors sons and such
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buzzle (m)
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Yeah there's a lot of Gay guys in Lagos, u need to see how annoying they are, lol
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OMO IBO (m)
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Yea there a lot of them, i have had contact with about four or five.
i am good at singing so i met this very good singer but a homosexual, he loved my voice but at the end of the day i found out he felt i was sexy since i have a nice voice , i am not sexy ooooo for him, i took to my heels.
there is this other guy that sells cloths. i went into his shop to buy cloths and noticed that he was breathing hard and using my hands to rub on his genitals(still under his jeans o), i was bold to tell him"this one way you touch my hand for your pennis, i hope say you go give me cloths for free. he didnt give me any cloth for free. but i came back another day with a friend whom i explained my experience with. we came with a big bag, and while he tried to seduce me, my took some cloths, like boxers, light tee shirt, and belts and put them into the bag.
we no be theives o but we saw the opportunity and we grabbed it.
yea their are so many of them, GOD how they disgust me.
u be big fat idiot. |
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madamkoko
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Of course there are gays in Nigeria, there are gays everywhere,
Bisexuals, homosexuals, transgenders, tranverstites, lesbians and whatever deviance exisits, its exists everywhere in the world.
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Cadet (f)
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If there are men willing to sleep with goats (literally), then what omits Nigeria from gay acts? We are forgteting this is Nigeria again, anything goes 
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Needlelady (f)
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Most of them live in the north.
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Raymond88 (m)
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Why? easy for you to say you don't have those feelings. . .
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Needlelady (f)
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Why? easy for you to say you don't have those feelings. . That kind of feeling is abnormal and those of you that have it should realise that it's not normal and should vehemently seek help. I don't know about you but if you have such feelings for people of the same sex with you, you surely do need help. |
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Raymond88 (m)
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Hey im not gay ok, but i just feel it's wrong to hate a group of people when you can't possibly understand what they go through. . .
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islandar (f)
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It is wrong to hate a group of people based on their sexual preference. Whether one belives it is wrong or right, people have to remove their judgemtal mentalities, what goes around come around, and you might be condemmed for something you dont think defines you, like most gay people do.
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Needlelady (f)
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Hey im not gay ok, but i just feel it's wrong to hate a group of people when you can't possibly understand what they go through. . . Never said you are gay but i still maintain that gay people should be better understood if they accept themselves that there is something definitely wrong with them, till then I wouldn't want to understand what the hell they are going through. |
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bawomolo (m)
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but i still maintain that gay people should be better understood if they accept themselves that there is something definitely wrong with them yeah how sensitive. being homosexual is hormonal. they can't change how they feel. nothing wrong with homosexuality by the way. don't even bring nature into this till then I wouldn't want to understand what the hell they are going through. u don't have too, discrimination against homosexuals is well documented. kudos to the bisi alimi guy |
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manmustwac (m)
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Of course there are gays in nigeria. I have a few bi babes who are my good friends.
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manmustwac (m)
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Of course there are gays in nigeria. I have a few bi babes who are my good friends.
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hadiza30 (f)
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There are gays every where
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Feministic (f)
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@ post
yeppers. there are gay/bi/trans/pans/etc people everywhere. No where is excluded.
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Sapphic
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Yea there a lot of them, i have had contact with about four or five.
i am good at singing so i met this very good singer but a homosexual, he loved my voice but at the end of the day i found out he felt i was sexy since i have a nice voice , i am not sexy ooooo for him, i took to my heels.
there is this other guy that sells cloths. i went into his shop to buy cloths and noticed that he was breathing hard and using my hands to rub on his genitals(still under his jeans o), i was bold to tell him"this one way you touch my hand for your pennis, i hope say you go give me cloths for free. he didnt give me any cloth for free. but i came back another day with a friend whom i explained my experience with. we came with a big bag, and while he tried to seduce me, my took some cloths, like boxers, light tee shirt, and belts and put them into the bag.
we no be theives o but we saw the opportunity and we grabbed it.
yea their are so many of them, GOD how they disgust me. Make una look at this Dipstick. You were rubbing your hands all over a man's genitals and did not complain but went back for Part 2, yet you have the guts to say you hate gay people. What a fcuking moron. 
That Bisi guy is cursed.
Apparently not as cursed as you are. |
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spikedcylinder
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That Bisi guy is cursed.
Oh hush! Whats your business if he likes to stick his privates into where doesn't concern you? You [Needlylady] are a Christian/Muslim and based on this, I think you have been cursed by the devil. There! Howzat for self preferential hatred?  |
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anengiyefa (m)
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That kind of feeling is abnormal and those of you that have it should realise that it's not normal and should vehemently seek help. I don't know about you but if you have such feelings for people of the same sex with you, you surely do need help.
So what kind of "help" does Needlelady propose that gay people should seek? Does she think that there is any gay person in this world who has not at some point in his/her life wished that things were different? Can she show us any gay person anywhere in the world whose sexual orientation has been changed after seeking help? Even the world's psychiatrists have concluded that homosexuality is not a psychological or psychiatric condition. To be gay is not a choice, but neither is it a condition that needs "help". Being homosexual is a state of being, just as is being heterosexual, being right-handed, being tall or short, having brown eyes etc. You do not need help just because youre left-handed, so similarly, a homosexual person does not need help either. The only problem gay people have is that they are misunderstood. And people think of homosexual people only in terms of their sexuality, whereas nobody thinks of heterosexuals in the same way. Our sexual orientation should not be what defines us as people. Most people are heterosexual, but some people are not. Thats the way it is. Our sexuality is only a part of who we are. We are all different, but we are all human. So we should respect each other and make allowances for others, whatever the differences that exist between us. And for those who think that there are no gay people in Nigeria, statistically, since Nigeria has about a quarter of the population of Africa, it is likely that at least one in four of all African homosexuals are Nigerians, living in Nigeria. And it is nonsense to suggest that most gay Nigerians live in the North, because geographical location has nothing to do with a person's sexual orientation. And those who think that all Nigerian homosexuals are in hiding, you need to crawl out from under that stone and open your eyes! |
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Sagamite (m)
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So what kind of "help" does Needlelady propose that gay people should seek? I know for sure in the UK that those with sexual appetite for children (paedophiles) are put on treatment and are only released when the psychaitrists feel that that appetite has been eliminated or reduced to a safe level. Looking at transfer of that treatment or a similar solution might be a good start if there is enough political will. |
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anengiyefa (m)
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I know for sure in the UK that those with sexual appetite for children (paedophiles) are put on treatment and are only released when the psychaitrists feel that that appetite has been eliminated or reduced to a safe level.
Looking at transfer of that treatment or a similar solution might be a good start if there is enough political will.
Well, obviously your knowledge and understanding of homosexuality is limited, so perhaps THAT should be the starting point. Educate yourself first, so that your opinions are informed, rather than just making blind and uninformed assumptions. Paedophilia is a psychological condition. Homosexuality is not. With paedophilia, there is always a victim, because a child is deemed not old enough to give consent. Consensual homosexual relationships between adults provide emotional satisfaction for those involved, which is at par with ordinary consensual heterosexual relationships. Homosexual people are human too and they are entitled to live their lives happily just like everybody else. The fact that people like you disapprove of their sexual orientation, should not be the reason why they shouldn't be free to be who they are. In no way are you affected by the fact that two adult people of the same gender fall in love with each other. Basically, its not your business, just as it isn't my business who you choose as your partner, or what you and your chosen partner do in your relationship. Its about live and let live. |
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Sagamite (m)
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Well, obviously your knowledge and understanding of homosexuality is limited, so perhaps THAT should be the starting point. Educate yourself first, so that your opinions are informed, rather than just making blind and uninformed assumptions. Paedophilia is a psychological condition. Homosexuality is not. With paedophilia, there is always a victim, because a child is deemed not old enough to give consent. Consensual homosexual relationships between adults provide emotional satisfaction for those involved, which is at par with ordinary consensual heterosexual relationships. Homosexual people are human too and they are entitled to live their lives happily just like everybody else. The fact that people like you disapprove of their sexual orientation, should not be the reason why they shouldn't be free to be who they are. In no way are you affected by the fact that two adult people of the same gender fall in love with each other. Basically, its not your business, just as it isn't my business who you choose as your partner, or what you and your chosen partner do in your relationship. Its about live and let live.
Yeah, I have to agree that my understanding of homosexuality is limited as I am not one and have not conducted studies in the area. But I believe I have read sufficient points from different camps and have enough information to base my views. Here are some of them: Yes, paedophilia involves the harm of children, no doubt. But that is the act, that is harmful. One part is act, the other is desire. Unfortunately for paedophiles the other party can not consent whilst gays can have a partner that consents. The other part, the desire and attraction to children is as perverse as the desire and attraction to same sex. I believe your confidence in labelling paedophilia as a psychological disorder is on the premise of their sexual attraction to children which you find abhorrant. Surely since paedophiles too can claim that "they were born that way and it is not by choice they have the attraction" (as, lets face it, no sane person would want to be in this category of humans) then homosexuality too is also a psychological disorder? And if the Western government have enough confidence in their medical progress to resolve this perversion, then surely they should try and help gay people as well? You also stated that: "Consensual homosexual relationships between adults provide emotional satisfaction for those involved" and "The fact that people like you disapprove of their sexual orientation, should not be the reason why they shouldn't be free to be who they are" and "In no way are you affected by the fact that two adult people of the same gender fall in love with each other"So how come the "open-minded" (it should be more appropraite to say "open(totrash)-minded") West lock people that perform incest up? Why not leave a brother and sister that are mature and attracted to each other with "emotional satisfaction" to live their lives since "consensuality" is the judgement tool for acceptance? Is it not double standard to accept one deviancy and suppress a similar one? Since because we disapprove of it is not sufficient reasons why they shouldn't be free and it does not affect us, at least according to your arguments. Futhermore, it shocks me that the "open-minded" West that have fed you with the Mantra that of "consensual adults", "freedom" "harms no one" and "not your business" would not allow polygamy and even lock people up for it regardless of consensuality, freedom, harmlessness and personal business. You also stated that: "Homosexual people are human"Are you saying incestors, paedophiles, necrophilics, bestials, transgender etc are not humans? Or are you just trying to appeal to my emotions so I will drop my objectivity? |
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anengiyefa (m)
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With regard to your lengthy rambling comment, I have absolutely no desire or need to "appeal" to your emotions. Your emotions are of complete irrelevance to my well-being. When you find an adult lesbian woman who makes a complaint to you that she was forced into a lesbian relationship against her will, or a gay man who does the same, then please come back and and we shall discuss whether homosexuality has victims.
The greatest annoyance to homosexual people is the ignorance that they have to contend with. How can you on the one hand, say that you have not "conducted any studies in the area", but then believe that you know enough about it, when obviously your views are starkly lacking in depth? I am not interested in a ping-pong discussion that has the potential to deteriorate into a pointless argument. When you do expand your knowledge, then perhaps we shall engage in a lively discussion. For now, I think my time will be better spent doing other things,
By the way, what has incest got to do with what we are talking about here?
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Sagamite (m)
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I have not conducted a study on corruption in Nigeria, neither have I conducted a study on the death penalty, neither have I conducted a study on bringing up children or conducted a study on the crisis in the Middle East, Zimbabwe or Niger Delta.
But I have an opinion on it based on the points of different camps. And I don't see nothing wrong with that approach as if we declare people need to conduct academic studies before having opinions then we would not make much decisions in the world.
Anyway, I take it you don't have any strong arguments to challenge my points. Go and do the other things you enjoy.
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J UNIT (m)
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God created adam and eve not madam and eve
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