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streak (m)
Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« on: April 10, 2008, 05:19 PM »

No, come to think of it,why do some men beat up their wives??
i feel its a sign of irresponsibility and any man engaged in such should be ashamed of himself.
please, lets just be frank and candid with our replies,
ibkaye
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #1 on: April 10, 2008, 05:22 PM »

Because they are damn cowards!  Angry
9ja boi (m)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #2 on: April 10, 2008, 05:42 PM »

ibkaye, why r u fond of taking on men,
How person wey beat in wife wan be Coward.
na wah ooo!
FELORE (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #3 on: April 10, 2008, 05:43 PM »

because they arwe fucked up assholes Angry and bloody brain-dead idiotics. Angry, end of story . Cool, chapter don close,  : Lips sealed Lips sealed why u ask gon sef ? Undecided
ibkaye
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #4 on: April 10, 2008, 05:47 PM »

Quote from: Nigeria boi on April 10, 2008, 05:42 PM
ibkaye, why r u fond of taking on men,
How person wey beat in wife wan be Coward.
na wah ooo!
Ok then, they are lovely Heroic Men who are the future of tommorow, infact, we need more of these type of men in society, is that better?  Undecided Tongue
The Sly
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #5 on: April 10, 2008, 05:48 PM »

Only a pathetic illiterate and insensitive male would beat up his wife!  Cool
ibkaye
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #6 on: April 10, 2008, 05:49 PM »

Quote from: ®~^Sly^~® on April 10, 2008, 05:48 PM
Only a pathetic illiterate and insensitive male would beat up his wife! Cool
That's what i'm talking bout.  Kiss Cool
waleab
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #7 on: April 10, 2008, 05:53 PM »

@ poster  when was the last tim you saw a man beat his wife?  and when was the last time you saw a woman beat up the husband? 
9ja boi (m)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #8 on: April 10, 2008, 05:53 PM »

But u know sometimes women cld be frustrating,
so they sometimes need it.
ibkaye
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #9 on: April 10, 2008, 05:56 PM »

Quote from: Nigeria boi on April 10, 2008, 05:53 PM
But u know sometimes women cld be frustrating,
so they sometimes need it.
*Rubs Eyes* Did i just read that? Violence is not the answer, even if you insult her verbally, it is better than beating her, it's cowardice i tell you, cowardice! Undecided Shocked
9ja boi (m)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #10 on: April 10, 2008, 05:59 PM »

ok advice, when a woman pushes a man to the wall, what shld he do?
larekey (m)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #11 on: April 10, 2008, 06:01 PM »

Quote from: Nigeria boi on April 10, 2008, 05:53 PM
But u know sometimes women cld be frustrating,
so they sometimes need it.
YOU ARE AN IDIOT
THAT IS OBVIOUSLY HOW UR FATHER ALWAYS BEAT UP UR MOTHER
DEMENTED FOOL
IT IS U THAT DESERVES THE BEATING
@ poster
a real man does not beat his wife, even if the woman messes up there are other ways of displaying ur anger
any man who beats his wife is just an idiot
chinda3
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #12 on: April 10, 2008, 06:02 PM »

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No, come to think of it,why do some men beat up their wives

why else?if not to show say WOMEN SAY THEM BE UNDERTAKER AND HOKOGAN Angry Angry
The Sly
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #13 on: April 10, 2008, 06:04 PM »

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so they sometimes need it.
Go try that in the united state or better-still, in any developed western countries. .
You will know wuz up by the time you start to grow sum white beard in prison!  Wink
ibkaye
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #14 on: April 10, 2008, 06:04 PM »

Quote from: Nigeria boi on April 10, 2008, 05:59 PM
ok advice, when a woman pushes a man to the wall, what shld he do?

Hmm, well if that is the case i beleive that the man should not retaliate physically but maybe try and calm her down and maybe even walk away. Shebi you guys don't know your own strengths? It's like comparing the feeling of a peice of cotton wool thrown on your head to that of a rock. Not saying that all women are weak but generally compared to men you guys have the advantage.  Undecided
streak (m)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #15 on: April 10, 2008, 06:08 PM »

larekey , abeg take am easy with the guy now,see as u blast am !!, he was only trying to contribute to the topic,
anyways, i saw a man beat up his wife couple of days ago but not too sure of the reason y,
but i still feel it aint supposed to be so, for no reason whatsoever should a man lift his hands on his wife.
ibkaye
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #16 on: April 10, 2008, 06:11 PM »

@Larekey
eyyah, abeg take it easy now, no need for insults please Smiley although his opinion may sound a bit *cough* it is still an opinion and he was just contributing Wink

@Streak
Goodness, some people can be animals  Shocked
9ja boi (m)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #17 on: April 10, 2008, 06:12 PM »

So if a woman shld burst my eye, i shld jst walk away.
Omo dts impossible.
HR.hotness (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #18 on: April 10, 2008, 06:14 PM »

Quote from: Nigeria boi on April 10, 2008, 05:53 PM
But u know sometimes women cld be frustrating,
so they sometimes need it.

Quote from: Nigeria boi on April 10, 2008, 05:59 PM
ok advice, when a woman pushes a man to the wall, what shld he do?

the fact that u have to ask doesnt spk well of u  Angry
I'm beginning to suspect u are a wife beater!
How can u beat up someone u claim to love and respect?  Angry Angry
Are u an animal that u have no self control and can't put your anger in check?
violence in any form is disgusting and worse if directed towards someone close to u
FELORE (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #19 on: April 10, 2008, 06:15 PM »

Quote from: Nigeria boi on April 10, 2008, 05:59 PM
ok advice, when a woman pushes a man to the wall, what shld he do?
he should carry himself and take his shirt and get the hell out of da house before u even THINK of touching her with yo fist, while u're out she would realise her mistake , feel sorry and beg u when u get home, that is what U SHOULD DO INSTEAD OF BEATING HER THEN L8TER U NOW SAY , " I LOVE U " , koni raba fun love oshi,
streak (m)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #20 on: April 10, 2008, 06:16 PM »

@ibkaye,
my dear what can i say? its simply annoying hearing about such let-alone seeing it,
chinda3
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #21 on: April 10, 2008, 06:17 PM »

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, koni raba fun love oshi,

lol u dey vex ooooo Grin
9ja boi (m)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #22 on: April 10, 2008, 06:18 PM »

Quote from: HR.hotness on April 10, 2008, 06:14 PM
the fact that u have to ask doesnt spk well of u  Angry
I'm beginning to suspect u are a wife beater!
How can u beat up someone u claim to love and respect?  Angry Angry
Are u an animal that u have no self control and can't put your anger in check?
violence in any form is disgusting and worse if directed towards someone close to u
If she sef loves me, she push me to d extent of wanting to beat her.
waleab
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #23 on: April 10, 2008, 06:19 PM »

una want start the fight now abi?.  everything na  fight and abuse for naija
ibkaye
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #24 on: April 10, 2008, 06:20 PM »

Well if she is a sane woman, she won't just burst your eye for no good reason  Undecided Obviously if it gets that serious and she becomes a lunatic you can defend yourself verbally but don't go too overboard with the self defence and turn it into a boxing match Smiley

When we speak of men beating up their wives we mean when he does it on a regular basis, infact even once is too much and also it depends on the way in which she provokes you, if she just said something you don't like you will be a coward for turning her into a punching bag, even if she hits you, try to be mature about it, there is no excuse Lips sealed

@streak
lol sorry o Smiley
The Sly
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #25 on: April 10, 2008, 06:21 PM »

                                          Huh
Why all these cursing shitzhos? pooooooooooooooffffsss I'm out of here real quick! Sad
FELORE (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #26 on: April 10, 2008, 06:22 PM »

if ma husbANd ( though i don't have one  Tongue) try to lay his hand on ma precious body , da temple of god , god took special tyme to create  Tongue Cheesy Cheesy, that his manhood that he thinks dey make him feel like a man, one night i go jus remove his boxers with knife in ma hand, threaten him that that his, PRECIOUS MANHOOD WOULD BE IMMDEDIATELY CUT OFF IF HE TRIES that SHIT with ME AGEN, I GO SHOW AM PEPPER,  Cheesy Cheesy HE KNO GO TRY AM AGEN,  Grin
streak (m)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #27 on: April 10, 2008, 06:28 PM »

@felore
ahhh,  thats too dangerous,  Shocked Shocked
@Nigeria boy
u sef, u too like fight, don't u knw there is something they call love?
prince_onx
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #28 on: April 10, 2008, 06:30 PM »

Are you guys actually trying to give excuses or reason for that? There's absolutely no reason for hitting your spouse PERIOD.
streak (m)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #29 on: April 10, 2008, 06:32 PM »

love is unconditional,patient, ready to accept anything,  Smiley Wink
FELORE (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #30 on: April 10, 2008, 06:33 PM »

no its jus to tease him, and let him kno that i kno like shit like that, i wouldn't actually DARE ii'll jus be bragging,  Grin
streak (m)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #31 on: April 10, 2008, 06:38 PM »

@felore
please thats quite dangerous, if the guy has the guts to lift a hand on u, then he could get that knife from u and believe u me, the guy fit cut ur *cough*
please don't use that medium,
@Nigeria.
guy, u sef take am easy, u fit kill person ooo
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