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smooooooth
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #96 on: July 09, 2008, 04:17 PM »

depending on the woman. some like to be loved, others love to be beaten!
Pataki
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #97 on: July 09, 2008, 04:19 PM »

Quote from: Kutey on July 09, 2008, 04:16 PM
Most of you guys are F.u.cked up in the brain. Kiplement now I understand why you have serious issues if you are ready to insult your own mother in a forum,  I'm sure you r like 12 years old
If you do not have the maturity to deal with a situation why get married in the first place,
Marraige is for men not animals like you or kids that when they do not get their way start fighting and punching each other,
I've lived in Europe all my life and I cringe for the women that will end up with you villagers like you.
Really just grow up,
Even here in London you are known for being agressive and violent and because of the few idiots people unfortunately sterotype. I mean if you can beat up your wife or a girl you claim to love what can't you do to others,  Sincerely I hope you guys rot

Just don't burst your spleen over this matter.  Cheesy
Pataki
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #98 on: July 09, 2008, 04:20 PM »

Quote from: Moyola on July 09, 2008, 04:15 PM
haha,,,,,,,,"sweet hot pepper"  Wink

Ore mii,,,,,fii oye gbe
Ko ye mi rara oh.

Bami so'oro. Grin Cheesy Grin
chamotex (m)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #99 on: July 09, 2008, 04:21 PM »

Quote from: Kutey on July 09, 2008, 04:16 PM
Most of you guys are F.u.cked up in the brain. Kiplement now I understand why you have serious issues if you are ready to insult your own mother in a forum, I'm sure you r like 12 years old
If you do not have the maturity to deal with a situation why get married in the first place,
Marraige is for men not animals like you or kids that when they do not get their way start fighting and punching each other,
I've lived in Europe all my life and I cringe for the women that will end up with you villagers like you.
Really just grow up,
Even here in London you are known for being agressive and violent and because of the few idiots people unfortunately sterotype. I mean if you can beat up your wife or a girl you claim to love what can't you do to others, Sincerely I hope you guys rot


ahn ahn!!!

Bros, kila gbe kile ju?

why u just generalize all the guys

wetin do u?
Moyola (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #100 on: July 09, 2008, 04:23 PM »

Quote from: smooooooth on July 09, 2008, 04:17 PM
depending on the woman. some like to be loved, others love to be beaten!
omase!! {wta pity}


Quote from: Pataki on July 09, 2008, 04:20 PM
Ko ye mi rara oh.

Bami so'oro. Grin Cheesy Grin

 Undecided whala tii e ni yen



What about a woman that beatz up her hussy?

woodboi (m)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #101 on: July 09, 2008, 04:26 PM »

some woman can make you get mad atimes and no matter how hard your wow not to lay your hands on her,you will find out that is the only option you have.


and the only way to avoid such scene to me is just for one to pray that he find the right woman that suits is life style

if a woman beats are husband na the man no dey hear word,if her wife as him not to do something e must listen.


Pataki
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #102 on: July 09, 2008, 04:27 PM »

Quote from: ladyolis on July 09, 2008, 04:12 PM
well im not Nigerian im from Zimbabwe but i have a lot of people who are married or involved with Nigerian man that they are abussive the hit their women  Undecided
This is not a Nigerian thing, so do not bring that line of statement into your inputs.
Pataki
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #103 on: July 09, 2008, 04:29 PM »

@ Moyola,

shior.
Moyola (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #104 on: July 09, 2008, 04:32 PM »

Quote from: Pataki on July 09, 2008, 04:29 PM
@ Moyola,

shior.

Kini mo soh, ti o fun eh nii right lati se shior sii mii

Don't b an agbaya



onyinye2 (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #105 on: July 09, 2008, 04:32 PM »

Quote from: Moyola on July 09, 2008, 04:23 PM
omase!! {wta pity}


 Undecided whala tii e ni yen



What about a woman that beatz up her hussy?



this is one of those double standards that we have grown up to live with. im not saying woman are weak cause i know some strong woman, but compared to a man in anger, we woman don't stands a chance. a man can withstand the slap from a woman but woman can get really hurt if a man hits her.
Moyola (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #106 on: July 09, 2008, 04:34 PM »

Quote from: onyinye2 on July 09, 2008, 04:32 PM
this is one of those double standards that we have grown up to live with. im not saying woman are weak cause i know some strong woman, but compared to a man in anger, we woman don't stands a chance. a man can withstand the slap from a woman but woman can get really hurt if a man hits her.

true that!!!
Pataki
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #107 on: July 09, 2008, 04:38 PM »

Quote from: Moyola on July 09, 2008, 04:32 PM
Kini mo soh, ti o fun eh nii right lati se shior sii mii

Don't b an agbaya
Right ko, left ni. Grin Grin

Now you beginning to talk like my little baby girl. Agbaya indeed!


Quote from: onyinye2 on July 09, 2008, 04:32 PM
this is one of those double standards that we have grown up to live with. im not saying woman are weak cause i know some strong woman, but compared to a man in anger, we woman don't stands a chance. a man can withstand the slap from a woman but woman can get really hurt if a man hits her.
The fact is that, there are women who beat up their man severely.

My church mind tells me you are such.

stillwater (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #108 on: July 09, 2008, 04:39 PM »

Some guys are actually contemplating beating their wives? We still have a long way to go.

@topic
Such men are illiterates, insecure, have psychological problems, uncontrollable temper and lack self control. If you know you have any of these traits, please stay far and far away from me. Angry Angry
BLUETWOOTH (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #109 on: July 09, 2008, 04:41 PM »

Quote from: stillwater on July 09, 2008, 04:39 PM
@topic
Such men are illiterates, insecure, have psychological problems, uncontrollable temper and lack of self control. If you know you have any of these traits, please stay far and far away from me. Angry Angry

It's pathetic isnt it?

Then again you can't reall;y take these babies seriously. The same one claiming that they do or would are usually the ones you see using their tongues to clean their wife's underwear. Dont know who they are fooling. Cowards.
Moyola (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #110 on: July 09, 2008, 04:43 PM »

Quote from: BLUETWOOTH on July 09, 2008, 04:41 PM
It's pathetic isnt it?

Then again you can't reall;y take these babies seriously. The same one claiming that they do or would are usually the ones you see using their tongues to clean their wife's underwear. Dont know who they are fooling. Cowards.

Yes o,,,,,,,,,,,,,,na them get mouth pass,,,,,,,,,,,,,,flipin cowards!!  Angry
onyinye2 (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #111 on: July 09, 2008, 04:44 PM »

Quote from: Pataki on July 09, 2008, 04:38 PM


The fact is that, there are women who beat up their man severely.

My church mind tells me you are such.




what are you trying to say?
rubi (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #112 on: July 09, 2008, 04:47 PM »

@ Topic some women find it interest and purposely provoke a man to beat them up which I don't support and after that they get TLC
Pataki
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #113 on: July 09, 2008, 04:48 PM »

Quote from: onyinye2 on July 09, 2008, 04:44 PM
what are you trying to say?
Go back to school. . . . .


Are you ladies starting this Man bashing thingy again? Angry Huh Huh
syren
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #114 on: July 09, 2008, 04:51 PM »

Quote from: Pataki on July 09, 2008, 04:48 PM
Go back to school. . . . .


Are you ladies starting this Man bashing thingy again? Angry Huh Huh

If you don't believe that beating your partner is acceptable then don't worry.  Grin
For thos that do, be afraid  Cool
Hannibal
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #115 on: July 09, 2008, 04:58 PM »

Re: Why Do Some Men Beatup Their Wives ?

Men like these are cowards who feel the only way to exercise power and control is their homes!!!
Frustration, alcohol abuse, drug abuse, and patriarchy(according to feminists) have been identified as the causes of wife battery.
Indeed it is paramount that domestic violence is recognised as a crime and not left behind closed doors or considered the private matter many feel it should be.

jaymee (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #116 on: July 09, 2008, 09:32 PM »


Streak say:
Quote
No, come to think of it,why do some men beat up their wives??
i feel its a sign of irresponsibility and any man engaged in such should be ashamed of himself.
please, lets just be frank and candid with our replies,

Streak, let me flip the script on you man, what about the woman that beats up her husband?  I have a neighbor where he is physically abused, but because he is a bigger man, he says nothing, because he is latino or macho or somethin but, he stays in the relationship for the kids, then what?  should he be a punchin bag?  If he gets a divorce, what are the guarantees that he will get the kids?  He does nothing wrong, but HE not SHE is paying child support because she doesn't mistreat her kids,

i felt bad for this man because he is a good man whose inappropriate actions are result of her physical abuse, so what do you make of that?
$$Rhino
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #117 on: July 10, 2008, 09:21 PM »

because they are cowards, losers with low self esteems
nuttyKachi (m)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #118 on: July 10, 2008, 11:50 PM »

really some ladies deserve it,turn her into a punching bag
jek_kad
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #119 on: July 10, 2008, 11:58 PM »

poster (streak) and 9jaboi same person,hissssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
Ibime (m)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #120 on: July 11, 2008, 12:12 AM »

As they say, you can't hit a woman but sometimes you just gotta shake a bitch.
onyinye2 (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #121 on: July 11, 2008, 12:31 AM »

Quote from: nuttyKachi on July 10, 2008, 11:50 PM
really some ladies deserve it,turn her into a punching bag

1. You would allow someone to treat your sister like a punching bag?

2. You would allow someone to treat your daughter like a punching bag?

3. You would encourage your son to treat a woman like a punching bag?
chisimdi (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #122 on: July 11, 2008, 12:34 AM »

Quote from: onyinye2 on July 11, 2008, 12:31 AM
1. You would allow someone to treat your sister like a punching bag?

2. You would allow someone to treat your daughter like a punching bag?

3. You would encourage your son to treat a woman like a punching bag?

Gud questions jare, no mind d guy
onyinye2 (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #123 on: July 11, 2008, 12:37 AM »

Quote from: chisimdi on July 11, 2008, 12:34 AM
Gud questions jare, no mind d guy


he will never answer the question.
nuttyKachi (m)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #124 on: July 11, 2008, 12:45 AM »

Quote from: onyinye2 on July 11, 2008, 12:37 AM


he will never answer the question.

you causing trouble N might be beaten  Cheesy
onyinye2 (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #125 on: July 11, 2008, 12:46 AM »

Quote from: nuttyKachi on July 11, 2008, 12:45 AM
you causing trouble N might be beaten  Cheesy

don't flatter yourself. i trash guys like you in the gym every day. so woman beater, since you are so tough, go answer my questions.
ogb5 (m)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #126 on: July 11, 2008, 12:55 AM »

Why do women beat their children.
Men beat for several reasons: show of authority, instalment of discipline, correction, prevention of more grievous "crimes"e.t.c.
onyinye2 (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Beat Up Their Wives?
« #127 on: July 11, 2008, 12:58 AM »

@student

this is no ordinary gym. i kickbox and compete in tournaments. and have beaten a guy before.
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