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welli (f)
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who will make a good patner would .whether she is a virgin or not.therefore making a good patner does not depend on being a virgin.
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phabooluz (m)
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takin a virgin 2 bed outside marriage is a reality we all liv wt ds days,am nt sure men will stl find virgin ladies in d nxt few years because evrybdy wants 2 get laid & i stand 2 b corected on ds.
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phabooluz (m)
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bein a good partner isnt about virginity,its about attitude & a tin of the mind, havin your hymen in place adds 2 your human value bt it isnt everytin
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prince_onx
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Everybody want to get laid?  who dey lay this girls? just wondering  |
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merge (f)
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How can you increase your possibilities of martial success? Do as many of these divorce proofing your marriage things as possible and the better statistical chance of remaining married you will have. FIRST, keep your virginity, and don't marry any one that’s not a virgin, been shacked up, or divorced. SECOND, don't marry any one that has a divorced parent. THIRDLY, don't marry any one that has a divorced grandparent (this is almost impossible). FOURTHLY, don't marry any one that belongs to a church that allows for divorce and remarriage. Now you say that is IMPOSSIBLE. Maybe for you and I but not for some people. We will all reap the fruit of the decisions we sow in life. Source: ng.com/divorce_stats.htm">http://www.modestapparelchristianclothinglydiaofpurpledressescustomsewi ng.com/divorce_stats.htmVirgins are more likely to have a successful marriage. That just COMMON SENSE. |
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nwando
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How can you increase your possibilities of martial success? Do as many of these divorce proofing your marriage things as possible and the better statistical chance of remaining married you will have. FIRST, keep your virginity, and don't marry any one that’s not a virgin, been shacked up, or divorced.
SECOND, don't marry any one that has a divorced parent. THIRDLY, don't marry any one that has a divorced grandparent (this is almost impossible). FOURTHLY, don't marry any one that belongs to a church that allows for divorce and remarriage. Now you say that is IMPOSSIBLE. Maybe for you and I but not for some people. We will all reap the fruit of the decisions we sow in life. Source: ng.com/divorce_stats.htm">http://www.modestapparelchristianclothinglydiaofpurpledressescustomsewi ng.com/divorce_stats.htmVirgins are more likely to have a successful marriage. That just COMMON SENSE. It's sad but people from divorced parents are most likely to get divorced too just like a girl with an abusive father is more likely to marry an abusive man. We humans always seek to repeat patterns that were modelled to us. |
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peaceful p
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virginity does not make u a better person but it is the" pride "of a woman 2 get married a virgin. but what of men or is it only women that is suppose to be virgins
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longnida
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@Merge
if these are what u consider before marriage, May God help you, because e go hard u ooooo, let me give u a hint of what to consider before marriage,
1) trust
2) care
3)understanding and mostly
4)love
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dremoney (m)
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lol
i pity virgins o!!!! laughssssssssssssssssssssss
ow d experience b sef? any virgin in da houz?
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kjott (f)
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EVERINLOVE The question is are u a virgin?lol at least dey better than chick wey guys don widen their cunt.
Did anyboby see this?Oh my God!i thot been vulgar is forbidden on this site.SEUN wot are u doing about this? |
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merge (f)
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I am a virgin and proud to be one.
Keep Laughing.
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Scopium (m)
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I am a virgin and proud to be one.
Keep Laughing.
It's good thing if it's not torture. Keep it for as long as you want. |
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ikhideman (m)
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I'm wondering, is it making a better partner sexually or what?
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dakmanzero (m)
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In the days when virginity was valued, early marriage was valued even more.
Then, if a girl was not married by age 20, the parents would start consulting witchdoctors.
A woman who remains a virgin up to the marriage age of nowadays (27-33) most likely has other, more complicated problems- or is a devoted follower of a particular religion, or both.
The fact remains that non-virgin men who prefer virgins for whatever reason will very likely still seek fresh virgins outside their marriage once their wife has been 'f@cked slack'. There's more to life than the ridiculous double standard of sleeping around and expeting your wife not to do the same.
The only man who deserves a virgin is a man who is a virgin himself, and is as serious about whatever religion his virgin wife is serious about. Nothing wrong with a 2 born again virgins getting together, or a muslim virgin taking a virgin woman as his first wife.
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Nellyf
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VIRIGINITY IS PRIDE AND DIGNITY ALTHOUGH IT DOESNT MAKE ONE A BETTER PARTNER BCOS THERE IS MORE TO MARRIAGE THAN SEX. @ UCHE1/FIMMY BEEN A VIRIGN IS NOT LACK OF OPPORTUNITY AM TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE. i JUST GOT MARRIED IN DECEMBER AT THE AGE OF 27 AND I WAS A VIRGIN.IT WILL BE DIFFICULT TO BELIEVE BCOS AM A VERY BEAUTIFUL LADY LIVING IN PH AND A GRADUATE SO I HAD VARIOUS KNIDS OF MALE TOASTERS. NOW IT'S NOT LACK OF OPPOTUNITY BUT SELF DISCIPLINE. @ SLY /SPIDERMANS, ASK MY HUBBY AND HE'LL TELL YOU THAT AM NOT BORING AT ALL INFACT HE WONDERS ATIMES HOW I BECAME SUCH AN EXPERT AND HE SAYS" NA WHO TEACH YOU ALL THIS THING". @ SPOILT IF YOU DONT LIKE THE TOPIC YOU HAVE A CHOICE OF NOT OPENING IT .IT CANNOT BE CLOSED BCOS THE VIRIGN THREAD IS OLD ACCORDING TO YOU.   TO EVERY NAIRALANDER, GOD ORDAINED IT FROM THE BEGINNING THAT YOU KEEP YOURSELF UNTIL MARRAIGE BUT INCASE ALONG THE LINE YOU'VE MADE A MISTAKE JUST RESOLVE TO KEEP YOURSELF AND YOU'LL BE HAPPY YOU DID. ITS GOD THAT GIVES THE GRACE TO REMAIN A VIRIGN AM A WITNESS. |
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SENATOR JD (m)
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In the days when virginity was valued, early marriage was valued even more. Then, if a girl was not married by age 20, the parents would start consulting witchdoctors. guy take am small small witchdoctor!!!na sooooo [/i]o
The only man who deserves a virgin is a man who is a virgin himself, and is as serious about whatever religion his virgin wife is serious about. Nothing wrong with a 2 born again virgins getting together, or a a great one virgin taking a virgin woman as his first wife.
this one i can agreeeeee[i] |
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Coldasiyce (m)
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i refuse to believe that half of u guys actually believe the things u post, u're really just talkin crap to see who has enough free time to waste trying to get u to see reason |
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ayomifull (f)
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No! being virgin doesnt make one a better partner. My husband disvirgined me but i am not even close to being a better partner, he infact deserve a better wife than me. I have my great parts but i do not make a better partner compared to my friends or some wives i know whose husband did not disvirgin. Nothing makes me special as in being better, i am trying but definitely being virgin when we met and remaining so for 6 years before i 'did' does not make me any special. I am just as good as any other wife.
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dremoney (m)
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No! being virgin doesnt make one a better partner. My husband disvirgined me but i am not even close to being a better partner, he infact deserve a better wife than me. I have my great parts but i do not make a better partner compared to my friends or some wives i know whose husband did not disvirgin. Nothing makes me special as in being better, i am trying but definitely being virgin when we met and remaining so for 6 years before i 'did' does not make me any special. I am just as good as any other wife.
thank you jare!!!! |
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T.girl1
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hmm, virgins?, truth is most guys of today act like untamed mammals where issues of virginity are concerned, how many virgins existy today, once the untamed mamals find, they disvirgin', some even boast that they can't marry virgins because they might not enjoy sex during marriage since they don't how good the girl is on bed or if she can concieve at the appointed time, the few who remain virgins are able to stay away from guys , because most of them have the picture of a bedroom jus at the sight of a girl, some would even cal off the relationship if u choose to remain a virgin'
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dremoney (m)
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hmm, virgins?, truth is most guys of today act like untamed mammals where issues of virginity are concerned, how many virgins existy today, once the untamed mamals find, they disvirgin', some even boast that they can't marry virgins because they might not enjoy sex during marriage since they don't how good the girl is on bed or if she can concieve at the appointed time, the few who remain virgins are able to stay away from guys , because most of them have the picture of a bedroom jus at the sight of a girl, some would even cal off the relationship if u choose to remain a virgin'
wats your point? |
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oluwdashmi
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@ swoosh What if she does it over and over again before meeting her husband?? If she like let her do it over and over, what matters most is that after all that, she turns her life to serving God. What has virginity got to do with eternity? It is an issue between u and your husband.WELL, VIRGINITY IS FAR BEYOND ALL WHAT YOU GUYS HAVE BEEN SAYING, MIND YOU IT IS A HONOUR, DIGNITY, RESPECT COS IT IS FACTUALLY A GREATER COMMITMENT ESPECIALLY LADIES. MAY GOD ALL HELP US. AS AN EXAMPLE, I SEE IT AS A DISCIPLINE AND THE BEST WAY OF SEXUAL LIFE COS HUMAN WANT IS UNILIMITED- ASPIRING FOR MORE AND ALWAYS ASKING FOR MORE BUT DISCIPLINE URSEF TO DIS EXTENT WILL SERVE AS A WAY OF SEX CONTROL EVEN IN THE FUTURE. You NEED MORE TALK ON THIS? PLEASE GET IN TOUCH WITH ME VIA 08059907474 OR search4unique@yahoo.com <mailto:search4unique@yahoo.com> presently i have a write-up i usually give to known virgin friends in order to appreciate them and encourage them the more about it. above all, it is a God's instruction-EVIDENCE, IF MARY HAPPENED TO BE DISVIRGINED BEFORE HER MARRAIGE, THEN JESUS CHRIST CANT COME TRU HER. THIS IS THE EVIDENCE THAT VIRGINS ARE GOD'S FAVOURITE. THANKS ONE LOVE SAYO
I have a question for you and would like you 2 reply, Are u a virgin?? If yes, do u promise to be one till your wedding day?? Cos virginity has to do with both gender not the woman alone.
Also, the question says "Do Virgins make a better partner?" You didn't ans it. |
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oluwdashmi
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No! being virgin doesn't make one a better partner. My husband disvirgined me but i am not even close to being a better partner, he in fact deserve a better wife than me. I have my great parts but i do not make a better partner compared to my friends or some wives i know whose husband did not disvirgin. Nothing makes me special as in being better, i am trying but definitely being virgin when we met and remaining so for 6 years before i 'did' does not make me any special. I am just as good as any other wife. You 've said it all!!!! God help u as u wish!! |
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merge (f)
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I believe that virgins are more likely to make better partners.
Even god is against premarital sex. That is enough said.
You can't compare a woman who have slept with more than 20 men to a virgin.
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FMK (m)
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you are being more stupid here are you ?
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eudio (f)
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na wa for you shayo02,
why did u attach your picture?
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prince_onx
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@merge: Sense indeed is not just "Common" as you thought or believe! no such thing as common sense atleast your posts here will bear me witness. True enough God is against premarital sex, we know its sin against God and also our body but that does not make virgins better partners. If I may ask you, whats your definition of better partner? better in bed? or better in all aspect of marital status/success? Will a virgin wife be a better partner if she starts cheating after a year or two of being married? Does virginity both in a man or woman guarantee happy marriage? How? You know what, I pray God to send me a woman that have slept with 20guys in the PAST before we marry that will give me peace, joy, happiness, trust, and most of all LOVE when we marry than a virgin on the wedding day and hell after that.
Anyway, you have your own views and oppinion but if you're trying to open my eyes with what you posted above, my guy! I'll not only close them back! infact I'll even fall asleep!
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tpia
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No! being virgin doesnt make one a better partner. My husband disvirgined me but i am not even close to being a better partner, he infact deserve a better wife than me. I have my great parts but i do not make a better partner compared to my friends or some wives i know whose husband did not disvirgin. Nothing makes me special as in being better, i am trying but definitely being virgin when we met and remaining so for 6 years before i 'did' does not make me any special. I am just as good as any other wife.
**sighs** a rare moment of clarity and good sense in this everlasting virgin brouhaha. @ merge: you mean you werent joking in that long post of yours? Bill Clinton's mom married four times. Bill Clinton has been married only one time, for nearly thirty years. Countless other examples. Children from two parent homes are the ones getting divorced at an alarming rate these days, from what I'm seeing around. |
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prince_onx
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@Nwando: I thought its the other way round? Girls from abusive fathers try to avoid abusive guys/men I'll think.
How are you anyway?
@tpia: Your observation is very right! has nothing to do with parents being divorced or married! what about people wey no get papa and mama nko?
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bobbteeth
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Is for a good reason if anyone can stay virgin b/4 he or she get married. I also think is a way of been discipline and training. at least, that will protect you from having especially any of the STDs. what about preserving your body as the temple of God. I regreted on the very day i met one lady. infact, virgins its a game reserve for married people by God.
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prince_onx
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Your point is completely off the question! we know its good to be/remain a virgin till marriage, we know that STDs are out there, and that our body is the temple of God, but the question here is
DO VIRGINS MAKE BETTER PARTNERS?
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