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Oh Jayzy
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The right guy won't go out of his way to make you cry. You may wait for him until you are 32, and then he would come back saying you are too old for him, or that he has found some new, younger babe. Na wetin you come do at that last minute?  |
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I dey Vex! (m)
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@ Poster
Some people are asking you to scram! But I think you should hold on. Your man has not said anything yet. All he has said to you is make your choice. Both of u are still in school. You expect him to seriously promise you marriage when he doesn't know what the future holds for him? If he asks you to wait, that is when you have a problem!!!! Why not wait until you finish school, see what the future holds. That way, you can always know just how serious he is.
I remember when I was under this type of pressure. My galfriend wanted to know what the future held for us even before I served!! I made her understand one thing. I can't say anything to you until I have served and seen where I am heading. Your boyfriend has not made you cry. You made yourself cry. Give the guy a break and concentrate on leaving school with flying colours.
O gwula mu na onu!!
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dee02 (m)
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If your boyfriend makes u cry then you are a fu*king RETARD!
And your boyfriend is a clueless dimwit!
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kola oloye (m)
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WEEP NO MORE,better dey come.Just shine your eyes well-well.
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nextdoor
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Well babe girl, take heart and think twice before the guy turns you to football. I think for now you should forget about marriage try acquire what you want from school first before going to marriage. Take it or leave it, NA D LITTLE MONEY I GET BE THAT,
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chiegemba (f)
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@ poster, am sure u do have set goals in life besides marriage? Y don't u concentrate on those goals 1st and let d marriage aspect b on hold 4 a while. . because u still can reach your goals as a single girl not necessary u have 2 b married 2 reach your set goals. so wipe your tears and go do somethin worth your precious time!!!   |
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OLADO (m)
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I undastd hw u feel, 4yrs is nt a joke bt please don't let this affect your life xpecially your academics, remeba that is your first and primary assignment in school. On this issue try and talk, appease, cajole and so on and ask him what d mata his. If he is no lnga interested PLS KNOW DIS LIVE GOES ON.  |
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OLADO (m)
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Abeg when u want dey xperience mak u no turn asawo o all in d name of testing and trying relationship. look before u leap!!!!!
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kingsikaz (m)
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ibi like say u never cry. cry first , we go kon know wetin we go do.  u better faze your study |
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OgaMadam (f)
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@Poster you said:
1. I've always being the one talking about our future together which he never mentions to me.
2. In one of our gist I told him I'm actually waiting him. What he told me was that I have choice,.
3. He practically said it's my choice, which means: it's either I continue wit him/ leave him.
Ive once heard it put, DONT PRIORITISE SOMEONE TO WHOM YOUR AN OPTION. Prioritise someone who prioritises you.
Men do not speak direct, read in between the lines and also the writting on the wall. Basically.
Just move on.
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Cori_corde (f)
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so?  |
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omekele (m)
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weeping may endure all nights, Joy cometh in the morning
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mulaw
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what the guy is saying is that is not interested anymore so i will advice u to leave the guy because is already cheating on u by d word he said  |
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kene 20 (m)
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@ cori corde It's that all u can say? try 2 b in her shoes, uh , |
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olrotimi (m)
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@ threader, why be a cry cry baby, pay him in his own coin ( or perhaps in a foreign currency).make him weep. am i cruel? no! |
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Gamine (f)
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Singing*
My mama said baby be careful, if anyone comes to say i love you ooh o oh o oh o
My papa said baby i warn you if anybody come to say oh o oh o i love you. , . . . .
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romeo (m)
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girl wake up and dust d wool 4m your eyes and face d truth. its so obvious he doesnt want to marry you. d earlier d better thou it would hurt.
LoL!! Are you not the same girl that opened a thread about your own boyfriend not calling you?  |
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ElvisD
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IF I WERE You, I WILL LEAVE THE GUY, HE DOESNT WORHT YOU,
AM SERIOUS OH!!PEOPLE LIKE You NEEDS PEOPLE WHO WILL BE FAITHFUL TO You,,,,,, JUST TRY ME AND SEE IF I WILL NOT MARRY YOU.
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baloolaspo (f)
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no need to cry because wats goes ups we surely comes down, u just igoring him for now am very sure one day he we need your attention.
u do not need to cry my advice for u is to stand on policy for now
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onlyoracle (m)
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d thing is in most things we do we assume things are, when they re not!
so my opinion?
Ask him d real question
1 whats happennin to us?
2 its like u re no longer interested?
3. if you want us 2 break up just say it nd ill understand.
you know call a spade a spade questions.
but i have to warn you, be prepared for both good nd ugly answers ooo.
if you get d ugly one, be brave, walk him out , or walk out on him with a straight face,
then when u re in private, u re free to cry d heavens down.
believe me its refreshing, then move on!
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origina9ja (f)
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girl in every relationship dere is tyme 4 play nd seriousness
let this man kno watup
maybe he doesn't understand this thing
your man making u cry is not a good start 4 your relationship
maybe iz thinkin bout age or money issue when u get married
so talk it through properly
nd try 2 stay away 4 a while init
maybe he will then kno what his missin
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annboga (f)
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sorry to say, dnt gals of nowadays think?
hw on heart do u expect that kind of guy to
think of marriage.my advise to u is just to keep
yourself ready for the next guy on block.
good luck girl.
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dee02 (m)
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Does he make u cry as well when hez fu/cking you?
If he doesnt,then i suggest u can just keep making love everytime so u wont have to weep like a kid robbed of his feeding bottle!MUMU
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abdulreal
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i will just want u to stay away for some time and see if he well come back to he sences
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Latoya (f)
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Seriously . . . . this topic is sick. NO OFFENCE ! He makes you cry why be with him ? thats emotional abuse. . . leave him alone. he doesnt deserve ya. leaveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee, |
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nkc (m)
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juju |
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onmakpo
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u are rushin d guy now.what will he feed u with?grass?stone?and if he is ibo he will take time 2 get asets before settlin down(proposing)
it is well
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kaypound (m)
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YEAH I AGREE WITH HIM THAT YOU HAVE A CHOICE, WHICH EVERYONE DOES, ITS JUST THE BITTER TRUTH, don't worry come to me i wont make cry, i'll probably make you moan |
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moskeme
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My sister don't deceive yourself. Any guy that truely loves u will not say such thing or put u in such situation. And if he does he will be willingly to expplain or say sorry or put u in a good mood. He might like u or even say he loves u but marriage has not come to his mind. Calm down just be watchful don't show too much love for him. Be ready for anything that might happen btween the 2 of u so if he eventually says he does not love accept it and leave. It is clear that u will like to get married to someone that truely loves u. So if he keeps behaving strange it means he doesnot love u.
look d man that loves u love u . He will look for you wherever u are. don't disturb yourself always do the right thing. Just do your own part well and not very very well. OK. I have
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g_nnaji
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my dear, falling in love is a great experience, but present day nairaland has thought us that while doing so you have to use your head rather than your heart. Before you fall in love with your school boyfriend, ask yourself where you want the relationship to take you. Your guy is not guaranteed of a job after school unlike the good old oil boom days and both of you together after school will not eat love. You will need money. My advice is that before you go into any relationship, think about the end result and what you stand to gain from it. this will guide you in knowing whether to scram and hope for a better fish or stick with the bird in hand.
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