@nwando
God bless you for this thread, It sounds exactly as if I posted it.
I just got my own Camera phone two weeks ago and I am also waiting for the cost of Plasma TVs to go down!
In all my years of working, I have never bought a 'tear rubber'(New car), although that must change this year, I am tired of this Cotonou runs

I go on vacation regularly though (just like you!) and I am planning another one for this summer.
I am glad to hear of your contribution to other people's lives, I am also sensitive to needs of people around me and there is hardly a month without reaching out to someone.
I do not think you are stingy like some people have pointed out, I have neighbours who drive flashy cars and will never use their Generators to pump water for the use of everybody anytime there is a prolonged power shortage despite the fact that they run their generators constantly for their own personal comfort but they will be the first to start storing up water whenever 'stingy' people like me decide to do it!
This example is just to show that many seemingly 'generous' people will not spare a dime unless it on themselves.