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Needlelady (f)
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Gone are the days when ladies wait for the man they have crush on to ask them out. It seems that many women these days do not follow the traditional way of waiting on the man.
Guys: Do you subscribe to this new line of action from women or are you more cormfortable when you are doing the chasing?
Ladies: 1)Will you risk it and wait for a man that you have a serious crush on to ask you out even though he's not getting your hint or will you bold up and ask him out?
2) What if you are dating a guy for some time and he's yet to pop the 'will you marry me' question, do you continue waiting or will you ask him to marry you with immidiate effect?
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ibkaye (f)
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I will wait to thy kingdom comes, i can never toast a boy and if he still doesn't approach me then too bad for me   |
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Needlelady (f)
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That means you still believe in the traditional roles. What if you date that guy for a long time and he's yet to pop the question, will you help him do it?
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SAM MILLA (m)
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I will wait to thy kingdom comes, i can never toast a boy and if he still doesn't approach me then too bad for me |
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Needlelady (f)
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USELESS PRIDE DETECTED.!!!!! Why is it pride? That's how we were raised in Naija. All these later day agression from Naija women today probably started in the new millenium besides, I think she has a right to decide what is best for herself. It's guys that cannot be bold enough to ask a woman out that call it pride. |
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jennykadry (f)
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USELESS PRIDE DETECTED.!!!!! there is nothing like pride there,we women have our honour and dignity to protect and i know men wt their mouth,they will always use it against us,if we end up doing the asking,the girl will get the everyday insult no everyday national anthem of afterall u came running to me not me to u,i did not beg u for this relationship did i and so on,let d men do d asking that is what they were created for |
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ibkaye (f)
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That means you still believe in the traditional roles. What if you date that guy for a long time and he's yet to pop the question, will you help him do it?
Hmm, i thought we were talking about basic relationships here  hmm, still even if it were marriage i still wouldn't make the first move USELESS PRIDE DETECTED.!!!!!
maybe so, but thats just the way it is  there is nothing like pride there,we women have our honour and dignity to protect and i know men wt their mouth,they will always use it against us,if we end up doing the asking,the girl will get the everyday insult no everyday national anthem of afterall u came running to me not me to u,i did not beg u for this relationship did i and so on,let d men do d asking that is what they were created for exactly |
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OMO IBO (m)
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USELESS PRIDE DETECTED.!!!!!
oga sam, thank u for detecting that thing. that ish go make these women miss out on potential loving and lovely relationship that they crave. These naija women need to get with the time. keep playing sisi eko till flying boat fly pass u |
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The Sly
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I would take a girl ''who pops it up'' to me very very serious than the other way around. . . . The world is changing with an unprecedented speed.  |
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Needlelady (f)
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I would take a girl ''who pops it up'' to me very very serious than the other way around. . . .
The world is changing with an unprecedented speed whatever; farts on comment  |
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welli (f)
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that thing you call pride is what makes the woman in us.when we ask u guys out ,you tell your friends we are cheap,when we say we can't do that you say we are proud.say what you like the truth remain that some of us who knows the rules of being a lady just can't.full stop.
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ibkaye (f)
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whatever; farts on comment Papapapaphahahahahakakakakaka!  u wan kill me |
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OMO IBO (m)
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I would take a girl ''who pops it up'' to me very very serious than the other way around. . . . The world is changing with an unprecedented speed. o boy, na lie u yan. if babe ask me out i go first check if something dey wrong with her. |
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Needlelady (f)
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oga sam, thank u for detecting that thing. that ish go make these women miss out on potential loving and lovely relationship that they crave.
These naija women need to get with the time. keep playing sisi eko till flying boat fly pass u Most women in todays America are go gettas and it's the culture is slowly pilfering into Nigeria making it difficult for the traditional system to hold it's cause. Where are the men? Why are they being too gutless these days that they even expect women to ask them out? After that what next? expect us to feed them, pay their bills and hump them at night? |
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ibkaye (f)
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o boy, na lie u yan.
if babe ask me out i go first check if something dey wrong with her.
Thankyou! |
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Needlelady (f)
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Papapapaphahahahahakakakakaka! u wan kill me Lol, he made the comment on a wrong day because this hot chic here got plenty gas today. I've been farting since morning. |
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OMO IBO (m)
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that thing you call pride is what makes the woman in us.when we ask u guys out ,you tell your friends we are cheap,when we say we can't do that you say we are proud.say what you like the truth remain that some of us who knows the rules of being a lady just can't.full stop.
really, what do u know about being a lady? |
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jennykadry (f)
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oga sam, thank u for detecting that thing. that ish go make these women miss out on potential loving and lovely relationship that they crave.
These naija women need to get with the time. keep playing sisi eko till flying boat fly pass u @omo ibo it is better to ask a white man for a relationship because i know they will not laf at u for asking,than asking u nigerian men wt una bad mouth,na this same mouth una go use yab d girl finish,all u nigerian men,its better i miss out from the potential loving dan enjoy it with one eyes opened one eyes closed ,or enjoy it with my heart in my hands,waiting for d guy to sing the national anthem to me, .you're d one that asked me out i did not ask u did i |
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Needlelady (f)
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@omo ibo
it is better to ask a white man for a relationship because i know they will not laf at me,than asking u nigerian men wt una bad mouth,na this same mouth una go use yab d girl finish,all u nigerian men,its better i miss out from the potential loving dan enjoy it with one eyes opened one eyes ,or enjoy it with my heart in my hands,waiting for d guy to sing the national anthem to me, .you're d one that asked me out i did not ask u i Very true, some of them will think you are a whore the moment you pop the question. I don't know what those men think they are. |
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ibkaye (f)
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Lol, he made the comment on a wrong day because this hot chic here got plenty gas today. I've been farting since morning.
lool @topic If i liked the guy, yes i would flirt with him but pop the 'question'? you gatta be kidding me! |
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OMO IBO (m)
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needlelady and jenny, ru ladies trying say u don't make us guys the subject of your round table discussion? or when u have that 3-way telephone conversation ofr hours u don't talk about the guy or guys that may have asked u out?
common now, be real?
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jennykadry (f)
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@topic
If i liked the guy, yes i would flirt with him but pop the 'question'? you gatta be kidding me! thats right dearie, for me,flirting is 100% allowed |
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Viante (f)
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No, thank You.
i can only let my feelings be known, its up to the guy to do the asking.
Gosh! so akward asking a guy out, how the heck do you respect such a guy afterwards???
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ibkaye (f)
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thats right dearie, for me,flirting is 100% allowed
yes na, give the guy signals |
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Cadet (f)
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Wait ke? If I feel like there's a point where he still won't get me, even after I kiss him, then I'll just tell him. I'll be like, "dude, are you that clueless? You can't tell that I like you? Na wa o! Anywaz, we're going on a date tonight and you're paying No arguments!"
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The Sly
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o boy, na lie u yan.
if babe ask me out i go first check if something dey wrong with her.
Lie as in what  I am very serious  |
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OMO IBO (m)
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i wonder why una dey worry una selves with rejection. this is exactly what we go through. after uve turned us down then we face our friends who'll laugh and yab the life out of us. somehow, the news of our rejection tends to travel faster than the speed of light. thanks to ladies
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Cadet (f)
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thats right dearie, for me,flirting is 100% allowed
Abi o. But that's to the guy you like. People tell me that I flirt, I don't know how. Some people don't get it. Just because you're joking and laughing with a dude, it does not mean that you're flirting jare.
If I like this guy, man, I will get him. Unless he shows that he's not interested, until then! |
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stillwater (f)
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@omo ibo
it is better to ask a white man for a relationship because i know they will not laf at u for asking,than asking u nigerian men wt una bad mouth,na this same mouth una go use yab d girl finish,all u nigerian men,its better i miss out from the potential loving dan enjoy it with one eyes opened one eyes closed ,or enjoy it with my heart in my hands,waiting for d guy to sing the national anthem to me, .you're d one that asked me out i did not ask u did i
Yep @ topic If I should ask a guy out just know that I'm after something else, definitely not love. |
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jennykadry (f)
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needlelady and jenny, ru ladies trying say u don't make us guys the subject of your round table discussion? or when u have that 3-way telephone conversation ofr hours u don't talk about the guy or guys that may have asked u out?
common now, be real ofcourse we talk about it,but we don't say to each other AH DAT GUY DAT ASKED ME OUT IS SO CHEAP no we don't ,because its not a new thing if a guy ask's u out,but u men also discuss women,and if a girl that happens to ask one of u out is d subject of that day,una go use cutlass and matchet ,matchet d babe for d discussion wt words like so that babe open mouth ask me out na waoo what is this world turning into ,another will say mess the girl and throw her away since she no get shame and another will say WHY You NO SPIT FOR HER FACE AS SHE DEY ASK You OUT i could go on and on and on |
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