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LadyT (f)
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albrigde its not all attitude. Can you understand the horror women have to go though when a guy they are not interested in starts to toast them?
If you make the mistake of being polite and saying something he thinks he has you. He wont stop till he wears you down and you just want to commit murder. You blame yourself in the end you should of just been rude and come across as a stuck up bitch!
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Jackal. (m)
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@ albridge,
Most of em cannot express themselves in clear and concise language so they avoid any sort of conversation thus keeping it monosyllabic responses.
To the other half, they get intimidated seeing a good looking dude approaching em. . . .
Women that play hard to get have issues, attitude and lack self-confidence.
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LadyT (f)
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Jackal you talk jack shit a lot don't you!   |
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albridge (m)
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albrigde its not all attitude. Can you understand the horror women have to go though when a guy they are not interested in starts to toast them? thats just it. how are we men supposed to know which women like us and which ones don't without getting to know them? should men totally stop toasting women? how will the women get married? how will the men have kids? what will happen to the future of the human race? |
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ibkaye
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it's confusing sometimes, that's just the way it is, sorry jare  |
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LadyT (f)
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albrigde the key is if she tells you shes really not interested please just back off
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Jackal. (m)
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@ LadyT,
For a woman, u do spew a heap of applesauce!!!!
How are men supposed to take any woman serious when 90% of women out there live a pretentious life.
Their NO means YES most times.
Women(whether they like the dude or not) will always play hard to get to feel important. . . after the initial graggs, they come down from their high horse and come back to reality.
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Cadet (f)
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Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm! How people come up with statistic sef, is just beyond my knowledge!
@post
Men play too, it's just hurts then when women play harder than them.
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saucekid (m)
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wetin more make i talk?
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LadyT (f)
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Hell no Jackal you don't "tease" a guy you have no interest in. No is no,
90% my right butt cheek!
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j-girl (f)
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My first response to this topic was NOT AGAIN! Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm! How people come up with statistic sef, is just beyond my knowledge!
@post
Men play too, it's just hurts then when women play harder than them.
Abi ooo! Men play more games than all the PS games manufactured in the world. Bunch of Rapscallions! Yes we play hard to get. How else are they supposed to know our worth? Men hear the word 'no' and they transform it in their heads to 'maybe' |
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Jackal. (m)
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You lasses don't get it, do u?
When a girl meets a guy she likes. . . . .she FRONTS.
When she meets a guy she doesn't like at all. . . she still FRONTS.
So, how do guys know which is which?
It is very common for girls to say they weren't interested at first when they met their current boy/fs. . .
This simply means there is a level of fronting girls deploy whether they like a guy or not.
Therefore, it is very difficult for guys to read the situation which is why some guys persist even when they hear "NO" 1000 times.
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LadyT (f)
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Jackal rapists say the kind of bull you just spewed babes!!!
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LASIEFAIRE (m)
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you play hard to get so we will know your worth,
If I had to judge a female's worth solely on that many females will be worthless.
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90% my right butt cheek, From my simple math, jackal, the Left will equals 10 %
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Cadet (f)
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My first response to this topic was NOT AGAIN! >:(Abi ooo! Men play more games than all the PS games manufactured in the world. Bunch of Rapscallions! Yes we play hard to get. How else are they supposed to know our worth? Men hear the word 'no' and they transform it in their heads to 'maybe' |
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The Sly
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My first response to this topic was NOT AGAIN! >:(Abi ooo! Men play more games than all the PS games manufactured in the world. Bunch of Rapscallions! Yes we play hard to get. How else are they supposed to know our worth? Men hear the word 'no' and they transform it in their heads to 'maybe' Shuuuuuuuushhh!! !!!!!!! J-girl Most of y'all No =Yes at the end of the day! This is a proven factnot an assumption. Well after allI am not bothered by women who plays hard to get. . . thats their bizwizenough shawries on me tail already.  Go to a church down me block err tuesday. . . . You would see thousands of pretty laydies crying their birdish looking eyes in prayers for God to direct a dude to their ways. Opportunity they saycomes once in a life time. . . .most laydies have lost their main dude because of this pathetic hard to get game shitery. |
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D-reloaded (f)
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Dude what's with you comparing women to birds? Is this a new slang?  |
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Jackal. (m)
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LadyT, You have just confirmed u are a bush girl.
We are talking relationships and u are here talking sex.
Whats the correlation here?
Rapists ma foot!!!!
@ Lasiefaire,
God bless you!!!!
A girl that goes straight to the point will earn more respect from me than a pretentious one.
The worth of a woman is not saying "NO" 1000 times then eating back her words to say "YES".
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saucekid (m)
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uhm. . . . . . .
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albridge (m)
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How are men supposed to take any woman serious when 90% of women out there live a pretentious life.
Their NO means YES most times.
Women(whether they like the dude or not) will always play hard to get to feel important. . . after the initial graggs, they come down from their high horse and come back to reality.
well that another problem. women always play hard to get so how can u be sure shes isnt trying to see if you will try harder to win her when she says she is not intrested. i have always believed that life would be much easier for all of us if women would learn to say what they mean and mean what they say. in other words, if a bloke walks up to you and you like him, play along and let him know you do and stop fooling around playing those foolish games. that way we all get to know when you really are intrested and follow suit. at the same time, we also will get to see your no as no and leave you alone at such times. pheew, the games women play. |
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j-girl (f)
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you play hard to get so we will know your worth,
If I had to judge a female's worth solely on that many females will be worthless.
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90% my right butt cheek, From my simple math, jackal, the Left will equals 10 %
lol - Well men judge women over their difficulty in saying yes. Even in relationships, you still have to front. If not - the guy will take advantage of you. If you lay your heart on your sleeves, you'll get crushed. It is very common for girls to say they weren't interested at first when they met their current boy/fs. . .
This simply means there is a level of fronting girls deploy whether they like a guy or not.
Therefore, it is very difficult for guys to read the situation which is why some guys persist even when they hear "NO" 1000 times.
It is also difficult for girls to read guys. Like i said - some guys hear no and it becomes maybe in their heads. Why won't the girl agree at the end? Some of them just want to get it over with. Others just don't care. NO means NO but men don't understand the meaning of that word. @ Cadet, Lol!  Shuuuuuuuushhh!! !!!!!!! J-girl Most of y'all No =Yes at the end of the day! This is a proven factnot an assumption. Well after allI am not bothered by women who plays hard to get. . . thats their bizwizenough shawries on me tail already. Go to a church down me block err tuesday. . . . You would see thousands of pretty laydies crying their birdish looking eyes in prayers for God to direct a dude to their ways. Opportunity they saycomes once in a life time. . . .most laydies have lost their main dude because of this pathetic hard to get game shitery. Sly - you've come again. We argue about this everyday - don't make me deal with you again today oooo! Most ladies have also lost their dudes because they say yes too fast and their boos don't take them seriously leading to CHEATING. The most romantic and successful weddings always start with the girl fronting and the guy persisting - Need i say more? |
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LadyT (f)
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@ Laisefaire Sly and Jackal you can both kick rocks! Baba nla nonesense.
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albridge (m)
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Go to a church down me block err tuesday. . . .
You would see thousands of pretty laydies crying their birdish looking eyes in prayers for God to direct a dude to their ways.
Opportunity they saycomes once in a life time. . . .most laydies have lost their main dude because of this pathetic hard to get game shitery.
my brother and thats the funny truth of the matter. this matter is like that of someone who is almost dying of thirst in the desert and someone comes up and offers cold water to safe the life but instead of accepting and drinking the thirsty person knocks the water out to the hand of the person offering and throws it away. sometimes, women really don't make sense. |
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The Sly
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Sly and Jackal you can both kick rocks! Baba nla nonesense.
Mi o gbe ise ran e Lady T. . . . As u see me so. . . . i no send u oo. . . . . but that one no mean sayi no dey wish u well o.  |
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Jackal. (m)
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@ J-girl,
These days, an average guy is mentally stubborn when the issue of asking a woman out is concerned.
It is now widely accepted that a woman must FRONT whether she likes a guy or not!!!!
So, guys cannot tell when NO really means NO or it means try HARDER!!!!!
Virtually all the gals i have dated said NO at first before saying YES.
It means if i ask your phat ass out and u say NO. . . . I am there thinking you might still say YES.
Why? because all the gals i have come across said NO just like u have. . . . .
Women really need to sort their heads and stay TRUE and REAL!!!!!
@ SLY.
Please tell D-reloaded that "bird" is a slang for chic in the UK.
@ Albridge,
Women don't make sense ALL the time.
Have u ever heard the saying. . . . . ."You never know with women"??
Shoot!!! Women prefer men as their close friends than women because they know guys are more sincere and more honest.
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LadyT (f)
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@Sly Jackal just hush please. I can now tell you are a toasting terrorist!!!
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The Sly
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@ SLY.
Please tell D-reloaded that "bird" is a slang for chic in the UK.
IIght!!!! Dude what's with you comparing women to birds? Is this a new slang? Yup!! Is cool Init?. . , . . . |
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j-girl (f)
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@ J-girl,
These days, an average guy is mentally stubborn when the issue of asking a woman out is concerned.
It is now widely accepted that a woman must FRONT whether she likes a guy or not!!!!
So, guys cannot tell when NO really means NO or it means try HARDER!!!!!
Virtually all the gals i have dated said NO at first before saying YES.
It means if i ask your phat ass out and u say NO. . . . I am there thinking you might still say YES.
Why? because all the gals i have come across said NO just like u have. . . . .
Women really need to sort their heads and stay TRUE and REAL!!!!!
@ SLY.
Please tell D-reloaded that "bird" is a slang for chic in the UK.
If a woman says YES off the bat, the guy will never treat her well. Personally, i understand why women front. Now some of us think life is too short for all that jazz but it's a necessity. You HAVE to front as a girl. If you ask a girl out now and she says yes after 10 mins, you will NEVER take her seriously because at the back of your mind, you're thinking that either she's cheap or she's not taking you seriously either. It's almost an innate behavior of the so-called men we deal with everyday. You guys expect to work when you ask a girl out and we expect you to really come after us if you want us so bad. Whatever you work for with so much strength, you're bound to cherish it more - that's the whole idea beneath this. Sly - just a friendly warning - call every girl on the face of this earth a bird but if you try it with me . . . . . you'll need e-crutches to carry you out of Nairaland, CHICKEN! |
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The Sly
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Sly - just a friendly warning - call every girl on the face of this earth a bird but if you try it with me . . . . . you'll need e-crutches to carry you out of Nairaland, CHICKEN! ---> J Girl. Whats wrong with these birds? Ok what about cats? sumn like sexy cat? |
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j-girl (f)
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---> J Girl.
Whats wrong with these birds?
Ok what about cats? sumn like sexy cat?
Cats are not sexy! They are too clingy |
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