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edwardo70
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I have a nagging wife, and many of your arguments and perceptions are incorrect. I'm by no means perfect, however my wife began her nagging about 1 year after we got married. I would do many things which I thought were good and appreciated, only to find out they were not done to her UNSPOKEN expectations. Ok, so I changed the way I did it to meet her expectations, Yes, you guessed it, her expectations changed, and the nagging continued, What message did I receive from this? It doesn't matter what I do, good, bad, better, best, even surprises, she nags, So, to remain sane, I ignore her and go on about my business, And yes, the nagging continues, but I don't hear it. I just laugh (internally) at her lunacy and rants,
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Rlst84sale (m)
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There r three things a man really needs
1. Food
2. Sex
3. Peace of mind
when women understand and work with us on these it would be easier to reach a common groud with us (men). Personally I don't fancy a nagging woman no matter how gorgeous and or smart she is.
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Nwaka77 (f)
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There are 3 things a woman really needs
1. A loving compassionate respectful man
2. Peace of mind
3. Financial stabiliy
When men understand and work with us on these it would be easier to reach a common ground with us (women). Personally, I don't fancy annoying men who cause women to nag no matter how handsome and or smart he is.
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Rlst84sale (m)
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Nwaka,
na fight?, lol
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@desodgi (m)
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flog all the craze comot at the middle of the night   |
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blaquie
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My dear its in the nature of women to keep talking and men to do the listening, sometimes just compromise so that they can be peace.
you just have to live with it, its not enough reason for mischieve just try and understand her.
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elizabetta (f)
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Try to stop those things she nags about.
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rubi
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A woman nags when a woman (under marries) I mean when alot of family responsibilities are left for her alone to carry and deal with so don't look for how to deal with a wife that nags rather you should be looking for how to deal with what causes those nagging so I make sense to you. Men do nag too
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Rlst84sale (m)
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@Rubi
Who told you that?. We don't nag we only state what we don't want (you may call it "complain").
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Uche2nna (m)
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Nagging wife,,,,,
Hit the ignore button and go into silent mode. Na she go tire
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JoyceAgim (f)
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in marriage,a man shld go deaf to somethings she says while a woman shld go blind to some things he does, as for the nagging wife,just let her be,dn't answer her,just pretend as if your deaf to somethings she says.she ll be the one to get tired the moment u ain't listening to her.
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rubi
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@RIst84sale,
I used the word "nag" because that is what the poster used so that I can convey my opinion
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banni
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I seen men who stay for the sake of the children or because they do not believe in divorce.
I seen family members do this even.
And it ages them fast.They live in a hell on earth and feel trapped.
I think if I could not make it work for years then i will leave.
I don't care what the any religion ,priest or anyone says.I cannot think God will want me to live in such a way.
And how can the children be happy too when they see this everyday?
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