How to Deal With a Wife That Nags a Lot

I can tolerate anyone, live with anyone and will try to orientate her plus incuding much fasting and prayer and if she won't change God help us together.

That Level 2 is very stupid on the part of the "nag". Why did she marry the man when she knew that she's not satisfied with his job, beauty, money,etc. Maybe circumstances changed after marriage?

 i believe that a problem that has been identified is half-solved. A nagging woman wants something i.e attention. Give her the needed attention. Look at the situation positively. Try to talk to her when she's sober. Make her look very important-well, of course she is.

when nagging encounters patience and wisdom, it dies gradually.
Dating another lady will only add to the problem.
So, keep on keeping on and one will surely overcome

Winners never quit and quitters never win..

According to the bible that can't even be a second wife unless death separate them.

I  got to understand this from Christian friends yesterday. I thought divorce is allowed but if you do it, you have to stay unmarried forever unless you get back to each other again)

The best is to stay single forever or be very, very sure you are marrying the right person.

If i say every woman is a nag id easily pass for an anti-feminist, yet i've never met one who does not nag...

well, i've read alot of contributions. but i have two stories to share.
1.   there was a family that will alwasy fight every evening the husband comes back from work, the wife will talk him out that there will be alot of fighting every evening. so one day the man decided not to respond to her for that whole evening. when she got tired of talking she on her on bursted into tears and cried bitterly, so people rushed in as usual, but were surpriced to see the husband just sitting and the woman crying biterly, when they asked her y she was crying, her response was that her husband has abandoned her that since when he came back from work she has been talking to him n he does not respond so neighbors laughed, but that was the end of nagging.
2.   The second man just decided to pack his things one evening n when to his fathers house. when she had stayed a week without seeing or hearing about him she started looking 4 him asking his friends n all that, but latter when she decided to go tell his parent n tell his parents, she found him watching TV in his fathers sitting room n that was the end of nagging with her too. SO WHAT IS THE SOLUTION.  i suggets u abandone n live like they don't exist in your house.

 

i'm female & I never nag,  never have,  never will. I've been around people who nag & it's not nice. Yet I found that nagging isn't just a habit, it's not just something people do, there's usually a reason behind it, which makes me ask, what's the cause of this woman's nagging? Does the hubby do something that contributes to her nagging? Is it in fact nagging, or is that just his perception of it?

I think a good way is first to warn her, then you should stop all sexual activity with her until she mends her ways.

I believe it is hormonal in women and a part of their DNA makeup which makes them moan. The problem can be when they start this at an early age. They basically become old women before their time.

If you go home and they start to moan, do not argue with them, just go out for a beer with your friends. They will soon come to their senses.

If it gets worse you should consider leaving them!

Well, depending on your marriage ceremony, the words "till death do us part" may have been involved.

For those in such an unfortunate situation, death is the only way to part yourselves.  If your own is unappealing, perhaps that of the nagger may due.  Depending on your age and health and ability to tolerate about 5 more years of nagging, I would suggest starting on a regimen of some poison. . . start small and continue to increase the dosage, building up your resistance to the toxin.  During this time, you should also setup calls to your home threatening the life of both of you.  This being nigeria, there is very little chance of this being traced to you if you set it up correctly.  At the end of five years, order some food to be delivered to your place.  Ambush the delivery man, you may have to silence him for good, and pretend to recieve the food at your gate.  Liberally sprinkle with poison and serve.  You will, of course, survive and it would be totally untraceable to you.

by the way, who is the christian you are talking about?

I don't know . . .that's why I asked.

Tell me, what does the bible say about nagging women?

ok. . .that has been mentioned in the thread before. . .

And. . .what makes you say Reverend is a christian?

I haven't seen any posts which say the bible suggests refusing sex or consuming alcohol.   So, what are you talking about?

Well, you can slap the children and tell them to be quiet.  Just let a man  try doing that with a woman and see what trouble he gets into. . . or let a woman try that with a man and see what trouble she gets into.

really. . .and have you looked at the site he links through his profile.  . ?