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coolier (f)
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'Honour your father and mother', biblically, morally, culturally, traditionally and socially it is acceptable. That is the way we were brought up, that is what we were made to believe.
Why then has my friend taken it upon herself to continually 'discipline' and humiliate (because that is the only way I can describe it) her mum at every available opportunity. She slaps, hits her with all sorts of dangerous things, her mum is really scared of her.
At a point her mum had to call in the police but again had to bail her out as she thought she couldn't press charges against her own daughter. Help! I just know she would kill her mum one day.
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Seun (m)
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This is not about honoring or not honoring. It is physical abuse, and it is not acceptable. Whether it is the mum beating her up or the friend beating up her mother. And it is quite an achievement, I must say.
Her mother is to blame for allowing this nonsense to persist. If I have a child and he (or she) raises his (or her) hand against me (or my wife), I am going to press charges. Common sense is thicker than blood.
By the way, what are you doing with a friend like that? What do you have in common? If she can treat her mother like that, I wonder what will happen to her children.
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Kobojunkie
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YIKES!!! She is still your friend???
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chy (f)
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If that your friend is a female then
she definitely bringing curses upon herself
because her children will treat her worse fo her to
beat someone that carried her for nine good months in her
womb and nurtured her till she can dictate good and bad.
its really terrible. she is a devil in making
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eudio (f)
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i think your friend needs help.
no same human being would beat up her mum.
i would like to say that she is gonig to get more than ten folds from her children
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eudio (f)
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i think your friend needs help.
no same human being would beat up her mum.
i would like to say that she is going to get more than ten folds from her children
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oyb (m)
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while i do not subscribe to kids beating their parents, are you sure u know the whole story?
who knows what dark family secrets may be responsible for this?
could the father/boyfriends have molested your friend in her childhood while the mother engaged in denial?
this does happen. . .
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ibkaye (f)
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Hmm, your friend is cursing herself o  |
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coolier (f)
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By the way, what are you doing with a friend like that? What do you have in common? We are more like family friends. I've known her since I was a child. I've spoken to her a couple of times and she keeps telling me she cannot help it, that when she is angry she gets out of control. I can't abandon her, every other person who's been close to her in the past had run away and I know fully well she needs help. |
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eudio (f)
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your friend needs help.
no sane human being would beat up her mum.
i would like to say that, she is going to get more than ten folds from her children.
wht r u doing with a friend like that?
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Seun (m)
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while i do not subscribe to kids beating their parents, are you sure u know the whole story?
who knows what dark family secrets may be responsible for this?
could the father/boyfriends have molested your friend in her childhood while the mother engaged in denial?
this does happen. . .
There is no excuse for such behaviour. If she was molested by her father, she should go and report her father to the police. |
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Seun (m)
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We are more like family friends. I've known her since I was a child. I've spoken to her a couple of times and she keeps telling me she cannot help it, that when she is angry she gets out of control. The reason she gets out of control when she is angry is because she has not slept in prison for a few months. Nonsense. I can't abandon her, every other person who's been close to her in the past had run away and I know fully well she needs help.
A good prison will also provide her with a psychiatrist who will help her with her fist-control problem. Why doesn't she take out her anger on someone who is strong enough to beat her back? This is one of those rare cases where a sound beating by a man in the family may be helpful. j/k |
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bisibaby (f)
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Ahhhhhhhhhhh oga ohhhhhhhhhh that's bad it may be a curse on her or at times ko ki nse oju lasan ohhhhhhhhhh maybe something comes upon her she may later sit back and cry over the issue
maybe u start praying for her she may need prayers sha because if u sit her down and talk to her she may not accept.
But that's too bad for her future because she go still get her own pikin ohhhhhhhhhhhhh
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Kaliyat (f)
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I think she has a mental problem. If her mother knows what is good for her, she should report to the police and ask them to take her to a mental institution for proper treatment because one day, she will kill her and go free because they might test her and find out she is suffering from insanity.
Also pray for her. She needs that right now!
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oluwdashmi
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Show me your FRIEND and I will tell you who you are, so they say
You even refer her to be your friend. Its like no one has embarrassed you before for moving with such a person.
Since you noticed that, did you try to advice her? If you advised her and she remains adamant, then don't be surprised the way she will treat your mum 4 you sooner or later.
As for the woman, the first time the girl tried it, she should have taken a serious charge against her, forget she is a daughter because that kind of girl is not worth presenting.
Anyway, the girl should expect the worst from her children and grandchildren.
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MyPeace (f)
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does she beat her boyfriend too? abi she get power only where her mum is?
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PL+C
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As the saying goes "If you beat your parent(s) your own child will still do same to you. So, who knows if your friend's mother beat her own parent(s) when she was young?  Anyway, may God have mercy on your friend for beating her mother |
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ololade34 (f)
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Poor woman!!! the same child she nursed now smacking her about
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manmustwac (m)
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We are more like family friends. I've known her since I was a child. I've spoken to her a couple of times and she keeps telling me she cannot help it, that when she is angry she gets out of control. I can't abandon her, every other person who's been close to her in the past had run away and I know fully well she needs help.
ok coolier u say your both family friends, but what about the girls father or brothers and sisters? Isn't there anybody else in the girls family who can help deal with the problem? |
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ibkaye (f)
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Does your friend live with her mum? If she does what is her mum doing still keeping her in the house!? She should have fly kicked her out ages ago, nonsense!  |
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uche_uche (m)
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that your frnd don kolo.what r u guys waitn to take her 2 a shrink? if u check very well she,s on crank. anyway, she's only storing curses n painful repercussions for her self in future because im pikins go do worse to am. nemesis is still there o. but seriously, she'd see a shrink.
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clemcykul
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what an odd world!
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oyb (m)
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karma - what you sow you reap. . .do unto others. . .
what has the girl's mother sown. . .we don't know.
with the exception of sociopaths. . .most dysfunctional people (and the girl being discussed is clearly that way) were made that way by their environment.
maybe some social counselore shoukld enter the thread. almost everyone here is reacting with shock, let some of us ask why- ?
do i smell a ban coming? Admin seems to take this topic personally. . .
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tundewoods (m)
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Quite a hilarous but sad story i must confess.
But lets face it,i've got a hunch that this story may a bit over exaggerated or better still a hoax.
But if in any case it is true contrary to my thoughts then i presume that there is more to the story that has been posted by the poster and next question is are we sure that both Mum and Daughter are not having bad blood because of Man 
Nairaland,thank you for feeding me humor that will keep me laughing and smiling for the rest of the day at work.
Threads like this keep me going. Damn it,i love this game. 
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oluwdashmi
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The reason she gets out of control when she is angry is because she has not slept in prison for a few months. Nonsense.
A good prison will also provide her with a psychiatrist who will help her with her fist-control problem. Why doesn't she take out her anger on someone who is strong enough to beat her back?
Good talks Seun.
If it is a mental problem, it shouldn't be her mum alone that will pay for it (but everybody) including her dad and other men. She can control her anger on other people but can't for her mum. Abi  She needs serious deliverance.
You didn't tell us about her dad, what has been his reaction or where is he?
Funny enough it is one man that will see that and say he has found the love of his life , not knowing he has just found someone who has been cursed by man and God and will bring such curse to his new family. MEN, God help you ooo |
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Scopium (m)
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I wonder what the other members of family are doing about this vixen friend of yours, or is she living alone with her mum? The mum should kick her out, or are they both on drugs and she got higher than her mum? I smell a secret somewhere which the mum is willing to keep with the price of torture in her daughter's hands.
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chrisoml (m)
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As the saying goes "If you beat your parent(s) your own child will still do same to you. So, who knows if your friend's mother beat her own parent(s) when she was young? Anyway, may God have mercy on your friend for beating her mother exactly what am about to say. @poster your friend's mum should check her self out if she did not do same to her own mum during her own youth time. but come to think of it how does it feel wit 1 beating up your own parents? men I can't imagine it, not even in my dreams. if anyone of my bros/sis tries it wit my own sweet Mother and Papi, HAA! I will roast d person alive!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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showbobo (m)
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Even without being cursed by her mother,she has already placed a curse on herself.Is she on drugs or what ???Stay away from her |
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izeek (m)
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As the saying goes "If you beat your parent(s) your own child will still do same to you. So, who knows if your friend's mother beat her own parent(s) when she was young? Anyway, may God have mercy on your friend for beating her mother sorry but even if the mother beat up her own mother, why did this particular child decide to be the one to repay her mother? she is just being stupid thats all. if to say her mama see future , this is one abortion i would have supported. |
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drwhopl (m)
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the report you have just given about your friend is very annoying,GOD know sey if that your friend was my sister i would have dealt with her severly.it's absoultely bull shit men,that your friend is fucked,sorry to say.
what about her dad?is he still alive because if he was all this trash won't come up.
let me know where your friend is,so i can give her some ass whooping
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