My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!

A Member? Please Login  
type your username and password to login
Date: July 26, 2008, 07:33 AM
223744 members and 127058 Topics
Latest Member: tola_ri1
Nairaland [Nigerian Forum] Home Help Search Who is currently online? Login Register
Nairaland Forum  |  General Discussion  |  Family  |  My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
Pages: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) Go Down Send this topic Notify of replies
Author Topic: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!  (Read 4611 views)
flext
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #128 on: April 22, 2008, 09:31 AM »

that s just naaasty
laceybric (f)
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #129 on: April 22, 2008, 09:38 AM »

Baby girl your Friend needs thorough deliverance!!!!!! When did such  a habit begin? Is it that her mther would be taking all the beating in silence and helplessness? The mama no see koboko fore the girl?That mother is not  an action lady. If to say na action woman she for don stop that bd habit tay tay Angry Huh Embarrassed Embarrassed Shocked[
laruuu
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #130 on: April 22, 2008, 03:05 PM »

Nawa for una sef.and u call that your frend.You shld even be ashamed to post this thread.Dis is a Nigerian forum and not a Uk tiin.Abeg let discuss beta tins
Ebonyj (f)
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #131 on: April 22, 2008, 03:08 PM »

There is more to this than meets the eye. I feel sorry for this your friend. Even sorrier (pardon my English) for the mother, we can't really judge her because we donjt know what her mum did when she was younger, could it be that a curse has been placed on either the mother or daughter. Back in Naija, I remember a woman who used to get beaten up by her children(all female), I think they all went for deliverance and found that it was a generational curse. \It might be the same case with this your friend, you better tell her and her mum to go for deliverance at their place of worship.
Uby40 (m)
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #132 on: April 22, 2008, 05:21 PM »

besides the fact that that frnd of urs has incured so much curse upon her future,she obviously has a demon ruling over her life. she should go for proper deliverance,otherwise she'll regret it all at the long run.
eddiep (m)
Your friend has to face reality
« #133 on: April 23, 2008, 02:57 PM »

There is one thing that friend of yours needs to know; a mother is one and only, there can't be any duplicate. Untill she comes to the reality of that, she will continue beating up her mother. And I tell you something, that is were you fall in as a friend. Don't get tired of advising her. It is your duty to save her from such a Devilish act. Smiley
BTT (m)
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #134 on: April 24, 2008, 08:07 AM »

Tell your friend to write her obituary. And not to worry, her mum will take care of her (your friend's) will.

I know a family where d 3 sons always beat up their mum. 2day, they r all worm meat & d poor woman is still alive, bouncing hale and hearty.
st json
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #135 on: April 24, 2008, 03:37 PM »

Tell us what is wrong with your friend, if you think she has no problem, tell us what your own problem is,  how far have you gone in solving this problem. There is a problem, look for immediate solution now!
purpul (f)
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #136 on: April 24, 2008, 05:11 PM »

Run away from this yr friend. Flee every appearance of evil, Show meyr frend and iwill tellu who u are!!!!
wendymanda
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #137 on: April 24, 2008, 05:12 PM »

As your friend you should show her how shameless this behavior is. Are all these occuring in Nigeria.
wealthyman (m)
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #138 on: April 25, 2008, 01:01 AM »

that guy is a dead man period
fillox
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #139 on: April 25, 2008, 01:02 AM »

AH! This is rather alarming. Though highly possible in our morally desecrated society.

There might be more than meets the eye to bring about such reaction from your so called friend. But no matter what the mother might have done, I don't think that is the last option she ( i mean your friend) should result to.

Try and talk her out of this shameful and ungodly act. Even if it means you have to engage some elderly ones around.

If after this she doesn't listen to you, you've got to be watchful of your association with her. Because your own orientation could actually get contaminated likewise.

LET HE THAT STANDS BE WATCHFUL LESS HE FALLS, FOR EVIL ASSOCIATION CORRUPTS GOOD MANNERS.
engr vicky
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #140 on: April 25, 2008, 11:24 PM »

My Beloved Nairalanders,
Did anyone write the United Geophysical Nigeria Limited test of 12th April, 2008 ?
If you did, could you please fill me in if you've gotten any response from them yet ?, Thank You My Great Guys Cool Cool
pheena
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #141 on: April 26, 2008, 12:04 AM »

since she says she can't help herself
then she needs to attend anger management class
her mum should also be wise and avoid being alone with her, make she no kill her one day
abi the mama too dey suffer from what she did to her own mum?
whatever the case your friend should not allow herself be the instrument of hatred
she also needs deliverance
Sweet T (m)
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #142 on: April 26, 2008, 10:19 AM »

@Coolier

Your friend is an Idiot!!! Do her mother a favor, next time she put her filthy hands on her CALL THE COPS !! She needs some psychiatric evaluations. What are the males in the family looking at??
coolier (f)
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #143 on: April 26, 2008, 03:29 PM »

@chiogo:
 "First of all, how old is she??You mentioned that she finished high school before movin' to the UK and that was over 10 years ago.Therefore, she shouldn't be anythin' less than 25 years old. Does the house belong to her mother or her?? If it belongs to her mother, why hasn't the mother kicked her out?".


She should be 32 this year. The house belongs to her mum and why she hasn't kicked her our beats me too!


@chiogo:
"Again, i don't want to run into conclusions so i need more details concernin' this issue, where's her father?"

Separated from her mum and living in Nigeria with his remaining two wives.
tRoOE (f)
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #144 on: April 27, 2008, 08:13 PM »

32 years I see why she's so bitter, Her mom need to kick her out

She's ola enough to take care of herself, and why isn't she married

No man will marry this one
Tattooboy (m)
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #145 on: April 27, 2008, 08:17 PM »

@poster
please tell her to keep it up, one day yawa go gass
dee02 (m)
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #146 on: April 29, 2008, 12:05 AM »

What did she beat her with?

Pankere or Atori or Nepa Cable or was it just some hot slaps?
big-ben
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #147 on: April 29, 2008, 12:04 PM »

this is abomination :'(the friend surely needs help before it gets too late Lips sealed
Bluetooth (m)
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #148 on: April 29, 2008, 02:42 PM »


Girl beats mother!!! Shocked Sad Apart from being possibly possessed, what was her mum looking at

to have allowed it to degenerate to this extent? I really don't understand? Huh



hornyhoney
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #149 on: April 29, 2008, 06:10 PM »

your friend is abusing the rights of her mother which apart from being morally wrong,its an act of violence that should be reported.she sholud not let one of this ngo,s that fight violence against women get her o.
nport (m)
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #150 on: April 30, 2008, 07:03 AM »

You should either beat up your friend, or find a new friend.
Aderoy (m)
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #151 on: April 30, 2008, 02:14 PM »

Hi @Coolier,

Here to offer my 2 cents. First I must admit I have read every single reply on this thread and would like to reiterate my opinion based on the reply from Sholeyb (April 17, 2008, 01:51 PM ).

I should say first and foremost that I support you in trying hard to help your friend. And certainly do not agree with those who quote from the Bible Stating “Show me your friend….” Hey common people, she’s trying hard to help. OK let’s look at it this way; everyone has deserted her ‘because of her way of life. Fair enough, but who will offer help any help if everyone deserts her? So I support her trying hard in helping her friend.

She made absolute sense with the practical solution she’s out forward. In as much as so many others has attributed your friend’s dilemma to some sort of spiritual attack. In as much as I do not deny the fact that this could be the case, let’s as well be practical by seeking legal redress as suggested by Sholeyb (April 17, 2008, 01:51 PM ). Sholeyb has offered you and your friend legal help free of charge. It’s now left to you to seize the opportunity.

For those who are under the illusion that this sorta thing don’t happen in Naija, You had better wake up as such issues are not Geographically-inclined. It could happen anywhere and should be condemned outrightly. As pointed out by some Nairalanders, it is happening in Naija and will continue to happen.

@Coolier, you pointed out the following (1.) Your friend is 32 (2.) your friend’s mum owns the house. Based on these two theories: The following steps need be taken:

1.   Your friend’s mum should get a court injunction restraining her daughter from having access to the property.
2.   If anyone (from the extended family or friend’s in Naija or UK) make baseless complain that it’s not OK (in their words “African”) to do that she should gladly offer her for adoption to these same people making such remarks.
3.   She should shed the binding emotions of motherhood through trying period and take a stand to help her pikin (no matter how old she is she’s still her daughter) by seeking the help from appropriate quarters (e.g. legal and psychological evaluation).
4.   She should be offered the opportunity to be psychologically evaluated (but that depends on her willingness to be evaluated). But you no say person wey dey craze (throwing tantrum at her mum at every slight opportunity) no go admit say she dey “kolo”


Let all Nairalanders know your progress in helping your friend.
I remain a true Nairalander
Aderoy
Aderoy01@yahoo.co.uk
+447877393327


* tantrum.jpg (121.68 KB, 1281x849 )

* tantrum 2.jpg (2.63 KB, 98x122 )
handsombob (m)
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #152 on: April 30, 2008, 04:10 PM »

picking way they beat him mama,no no say him own picking go beat am back.when hin own time reach.and him get luck say i no they close with am there him 4 use im eye see somthing.and mk him no say him lay course on his or her self.
coolier (f)
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #153 on: April 30, 2008, 09:02 PM »

@Aderoy:

Very funny, am laughing. Don't  tell me my friends mum will end up like that o!

Thanks all the same for your contribution. Ah! plus contact info, later.

kingsikaz (m)
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #154 on: May 01, 2008, 10:13 AM »


 no worry she go still beat your own mama, u better discard am or else,
Aderoy (m)
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #155 on: May 01, 2008, 12:54 PM »

Hi @coolier,

I think you should show your friend the two pics i posted in my earlier reply. Ask her what she thinks. If she about it. Ask her if she's ever giving a thought what could happen if she continues to treating her mum like a worthless scum.

About my contact. Dont worry about that. I'm tired of getting scam e-mails from Naija and some other countries. Most of the e-mails claim to have been sent from UK, US or some other European country. I know how to trace such emails such that I could discover the exact computer (in terms of assigned IP address and the ISP/cafe from which such emails originate] ) from which the email was sent and the exact route the e-mail tunnelled through before getting to my inbox. I guess I'm tired of getting such e-mails so it doesn't bother me on bit revealig it.

In essense I'm revealling it 'because I'm A STEP AHEAD of all scammers (or 419ers) in their game. I don't really care, they should keep bringing it on.

I remain a true Nairalander,
Aderoy
aderoy01@yahoo.co.uk
+4470877393327


* a step ahead.jpg (4.88 KB, 102x150 )
OgaMadam (f)
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #156 on: May 01, 2008, 06:04 PM »

I don't think there is an excuse here for what she's doing.


However, there could be a root to this problem.


She maybe angry at her mum for some reason.


Human relations are complex and only the 2 of them know. 


I still maintain theres no excuse for this.
GinikAwa (f)
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #157 on: May 02, 2008, 04:50 AM »

[size=8pt] Maybe your friend has bipolar or was abused by her mum n its her way of her retaliating back,   I use to do social worked wit mentally challenged adults n youths,  You might want 2 seek help from a doc 1st.   
chisimdi (f)
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #158 on: May 02, 2008, 03:32 PM »

 Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Dey never born d pikin well, if not which pikin wey mua go born,den en go come dey show skills 4 mi,I go send am back frm where en come frm.I pity d woman sha,as 4 d girl,may she come mk i b her mama 4 1 day,den she go no say there is a different between EGBE na EGBE.My 3 boys kw mi say na shorts wey i dey wear 24/7,any of them wey jst misbehave i go jst tidy am up sharp sharp because i full ground no shakin'
bionic
Re: My Friend Consistently Beats Up Her Mum!
« #159 on: May 02, 2008, 05:32 PM »

here is what i say:
i have nothing to say to help ou or your friend, other than tell u to switch your focus on your friends mum, else she might be in be 6ft under before u blink
as weird, strabge and mytic this story is,  i kind of believe it.
i read 90% of the thread, and the one thing am going to ask to do to save your pal's ma' is to ask why she's concerned about protecting her family name or reputation, because believ it or not, that reputation, pride and whatever was long gone the moment her kid hit her. so if she gives as much as a penny value to her life or for her other kid, she should make a big court case, metal case and public scence form this.thats her only means to escape, send the kid back to naija, were she can get a good beat up for as much as slightly expressing her thuggery to the public. here jungle justice rules.
one more thin, there is a family secret and if u want to truly solve this issue, inverstigate that secrecy, then u'll mos-def make a head way in reolving this trauma.
and its only in uk this can happen, doesnt she have neighbours, don't they hear scream when she's been beating? why don't call 911. oh naija, her neighbours would have long time clipped this evil wind blowing in your girl's brains.
 Do You Have A Step Mum?  Should I Cheat On My Wife?  How Necessary Are Big Weddings?  Page 2
Pages: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) Go Up Send Topic to Friend by E-mail Reply 
Google
 
Web www.nairaland.com
Sections: TV/Movies (2) Music/Radio (2) Celebrities Jobs (2) Career Romance Books Politics Sports Fashion Travel
Health Schooling Religion General(2) Business Webmaster Programming Computers Phones Cars & Trucks

Links: Page1 Page2 Page3 Page4 Page5 Page6 Page7 Page8 Page9 Page10

Nairaland is owned by Oluwaseun Osewa
Nairaland Forum | Powered by SMF 1.0.12.
© 2001-2005, Lewis Media. All Rights Reserved.