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to me
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No matter what must have happened between her and her mother,it is still very wrong of her to beat her mother.
she should also put it in mind that she is sowing a seed and she ll surely have a bountiful harvest of all she had sown
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topgirl
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its a 2-way thing.its either the mother did the same thing to her own mother or the daughter is looking for the wrath of God which is definately going to come.
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Bblak (f)
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This is Outrageous   its a 2-way thing.its either the mother did the same thing to her own mother or the daughter is looking for the wrath of God which is definately going to come.
Word! |
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bluehorizo (m)
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Such a child shall know no peace in old age.
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eudio (f)
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seun,
did u say she should report to the police?
which country? obviously not nigeria.
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carmelily (f)
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Like the good book says "Train up a child in the way he should go and when they are grown they won't depart , "
Your friend's behaviour may have been unconsciously encouraged by her own mother. That's what happens when kids are overpampered and their spiritual needs neglected.
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FBS
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something is wrong somewhere! He needs prayer and serious counselling, ( maybe a little flogging)
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carmelily (f)
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something is wrong somewhere! He needs prayer and serious counselling, ( maybe a little flogging)
SHE not HE  |
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Cori_corde (f)
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@ Topic, She needs to be prepared to have her kids do the same to her.  , AND the bible says that those that honor their parents live long, |
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chrisoml (m)
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D Poster is yet 2 let us know d exact color (green/blue) of her friend that beats up her Dear Mother.
at least it will help d response and a good advice recommendation for her friend
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papa giddy (m)
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please tell your friend that God said for doing that, ""she will amount to NOTHING in life""!!!  |
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Sentra
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Hun, nkan be.To start with ,most people seem to agree with the idea of the mom kicking the daughter out.To me this idea seem easier said than done.The might be a curse and unless it is broken, it will run its full course.Back @ home I actually know a lady that was doing almost the same thing to her mom then.Of course ,the poor woman was helpless.Not only was not physically strong enough to throw her daughter out, she also lacks the courage/ guts to do it.According to her she can't stand to see her suffer.Ironic?
I tend to see this issue more from a spiritual approach than any other approach.
The girl needs deliverance
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coolier (f)
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All this naija children when their parents don suffer bring they to Europe finish,as soon as them don begin dey wear this Koboko pants they think say them don get sense pass their parents.
Na so a close family friend bring the wife cousin(small girl of about 12 years) come Europe(papa and mama die for accident for naija) after two years she begin fight people when bring her come for BETTER LIFE.She even report them to her school and social service come dey involve.Well,Okra plant no dey grown pass the owner.Na so them use number six take give am TC and she se herself for Oshodi oke.
After one week she begin make telephone call to say I AM SORRY.My guy tell her say u don loose election.That na the end of the story.
You don't know how right you are brownbonno. My friend's mum really suffered to get her here. Doing all sorts of menial jobs to be able to arrange and pay for her visa and ticket. My friend grew up in Naija and only came here after her secondary education. Even then we all thought she would have a better life but in 10years has succeeded in turning a proffessional thug. |
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coolier (f)
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D Poster is yet 2 let us know d exact color (green/blue) of her friend that beats up her Dear Mother.
at least it will help d response and a good advice recommendation for her friend
She is black Nigerian. |
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LadyT (f)
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Coolier what exactly do you want?
Sounds like you can't do or say much so what solution could you be looking for?
The mother obviously has not been given a good enough beating. Maybe after losing some teeth and hearing in one ear the stupid woman will realise her child is the devil and put the idiot behind bars. I mean what are you waiting for? for her to kill someone?
If she has anger issues she needs help if she wont go on her own accord lock her up where she will have no choice.#
Vile human being,
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Builder
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@ chrisoml, your question baffles me, u mean to tell me that such disturbing attrocity dosent happens within the african or nigerian household? You need to go out more
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Builder
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I bet both of them are high of some thai weed , thats what happens when both mother and daughter smoke the same cheap weed
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jay8ers
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@ poster ,
tell her to go check herself very well , n since she got ahold of ANGER she should work on it seriously(naturally,spiritually etc)otherwise her ANGER will KILL/ruin her for LIFE.
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mum should leave daughter to carry her CROSS, leave the apartment for her ,
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dipo2much (m)
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@ Poster.
YOUR FRIEND HAS A SERIOUS MENTAL DISORDER.
WHATS THE ADDRESS? I CAN TRANSPORT HER TO A PSYCHO HOSPITAL. FREE
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shockreaction (m)
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Hooray for dumb moms!
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Elgaxton (m)
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na wah o please whee r thiese people living? Naija or Away |
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Anuli ph (f)
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na wah o please whee r thiese people living? Naija or Away Exactly.this kain ting no fit happen for naija. Only with those spoilt abroad kids. Its just a reflection of the mother's bad parental skills. I can picture d mom givin her a candy when she threw a tantrum! |
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tipsy289 (m)
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please buy Boxing gloves for her mum.  Its ok to hit back |
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mamaput (f)
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i feel its the mothers fault she should have stopped it when the daughter was still small.
you see all these babies that like to slap people in the face. thats how its starts.
there was once this boy (about two) . this boy i did not know from adam just slaped me and i did not know when my hand lashed out and slapped him back.(he will never try that with me again).
anyway i kept talking to the father to train his boy to listen. he did not. result is that at a young age the boy is a marked troublemaker in school .
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chrisoml (m)
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@ chrisoml, your question baffles me, u mean to tell me that such disturbing attrocity dosent happens within the african or nigerian household? You need to go out more
Hey! u got me all wrong here. just wanted to b sure where this very incident is takin place. assuming its here in Nigeria I would've recommend d lady go 4 sum spiritual cleansing/deliverance or beta still take her 2 the left side of YABA . But in abroad she needs counselling or go see a physiotherapist. one thing I know is that such things does happen here in Nigeria but its more rampant in d UK and western world. |
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mamaput (f)
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please it is not common here for children to beat their parents.
it is not common anywere.
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mamaput (f)
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how old is this friend? the mum should disown her. and if the family members have something to say , they should take her up in their own house.
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chiogo (f)
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No offense but this sure is a funny story. Seriously, this is happenin' in the UK?? I've met people here in the US who call their mother the b-word and all sorts and who fight back at their mother but I've never heard of anyone 'beatin' up' their mother. That's absurd! It's like the roles got switched up. You don't mean
she fights back at her mother(not that either one is good) but she 'beats up' her mother. First of all, how old is she??You mentioned that she finished high school before movin' to the UK and that was over 10 years ago.Therefore, she shouldn't be anythin' less than 25 years old. Does the house belong to her mother or
her?? If it belongs to her mother, why hasn't the mother kicked her out??. You also mentioned that she admitted to havin' anger issues, does that mean she doesn't know when she throws these tantrums and does she regret them after?? If she does regret them, why hasn't she done somethin' about it, like
movin' out considerin' she shouldn't still be livin' with her mother anywayz??. Again, i don't want to run into conclusions so i need more details concernin' this issue, where's her father?? A lot of things could have sparked up the current behavior of this female. So, i need answers to these questions before givin' my suggestion.
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kolette (f)
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People will never cease to amaze me ! a child beating up her own mother ? Na wa oh!
Ammageddon decides!
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Mosetra (f)
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It is not the girl beating up her mother. It is someone using the image of the girl to cause the woman sadness and sorrow. I mean what kind of person would be happy that her own child beats her up. This is clearly a spiritual case and should be treated as such. It defies all scientific and social remedies. The girl/lady should make conscious effort to help herself and be helped - spiritually. But if like the poster said she has turned to a professional thug, maybe she should be sent back home where she will meet her match who will deal with her physically before she seeks spiritual help. My heart goes out to the mum and the daughter too because i am very SURE she knows not what she does.
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jamah (m)
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she,s stupid is all i can say! she doesnt know the worth of what she has until she looses it.
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