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gregg2
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Please tell me, would you continue a relationship with someone who cheated on you?
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jhibola
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plz explain ur self better
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ibkaye (f)
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plz explain your self better
He means If your lover cheated on you, would you forgive her/him and carry on with the relationship  @Poster No I wouldn't continue on with the relationship  |
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jhibola
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He means If your lover cheated on you, would you forgive her/him and carry on with the relationship @Poster No I wouldn't continue on with the relationship well i agreed wt u but don't u think love culd be sometimes funny? |
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ibkaye (f)
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well i agreed wt u but don't u think love culd be sometimes funny?
Could be anything from funny to annoying to wonderful! |
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Raymond88
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Nah, once she cheated it's over. . .
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ztyle (m)
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Its Yes & No Question?  |
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jennykadry (f)
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lover:yes i will leave d relationship before u say jack not to talk of robinson husband:no,i wont,that is y marriage is for better for worst  |
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Oh Jayzy
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Some questions are so weird. Why would you continue a relationship with someone who didn't respect you enough, to stay faithful to you? Why would you want to continue in a relationship where the other party didn't have enough discipline or principles to keep his or her passions (or lust) in check, while they were actively dating you? Why on earth would you want to continue in a relationship, with someone who doesn't value his or her body enough to reserve it exclusively for you, but prefers to share its' carnal delights with others due to a lack of self-control?  Why would you want to stay in a relationship where someone didn't care enough about your feelings, to restrain herself or himself from fooling around behind your back with another party, while dating you?  Does that act of cheating show respect, love or understanding? When infidelity occurs, it breaks down trust, loyalty, respect, and honesty, as well as all the essential ingredients that are necessary for a good relationship to thrive. It also promotes lies, treachery and deceit. Is that what you want? Rebuilding trust in a relationship that has been cracked by cheating, lies and unfaithfulness is sheer, hard work. Both partners need to strip down their defences and be as transparent as possible in their dealings with each other, especially the cheating partner. And unless that cheating partner is prepared to forsake all others and cleave only to you in deed and in truth, it really isn't worth it. Simply because there is no guarantee that it will not happen again. A lot of those who cheat often feel sad, when their antics are revealed. But if you dig deep enough, you'll discover that they are only ever 'sorry' that they got caught, but are not sorry they ever ventured into the act in the first place!  Too many people are living a lie, and pretending to be in a 'solid' relationship. Who do they think they are fooling? Those who are married may not have much of a choice, but to stay in the union with their cheating partner and pray for such a spouse to have a change of heart and a change of habit. But those who are not married are far more lucky! They have loads of choices. They should get down on their knees and thank the Lord for revealing their partner's cheating traits to them, and bale out as fast as they can. Morning shows the day. . . |
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osobajay (m)
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it all depnds on the status of the relationship and the after reaction of the culprit
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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hhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmm. . . . . . . . it all depends o. First reaction is to finish it offffff instantly but then it all depends on the communication afterwards |
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TOYOSI20 (f)
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He has definitely proved to me that he can't be trusted, by cheating
Why waste my time and his?. . , . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
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Mc Omo (m)
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its not always easy to say goodbye to yesterday . . . . just pray it doesnt happen to u . . .IF IT DOES PRAY U RECOVER IN TIME TO GET yourself TOGETHER AGAIN !!! the truth of the matter is; no matter what the adulterous scenes ur lover has played will always be on ur mind forever . . .WHATS THE POINT LIVING IN PERPETUAL ULCER OF THE MIND |
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spoilt (f)
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I am merciless. No!
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info (m)
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YES i will continue provided am still getting the attention
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Mc Omo (m)
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E BE LIKE SAY NA ATTENTION U ENTER THE RELATIONSHIP FOR 
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info (m)
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@ Mc Omo You no just understand my 411 must i use fu<k ? |
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ztyle (m)
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Na Wa?  |
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Nella (f)
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@ topic:
Hell No!
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gregg2
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Those who are married may not have much of a choice, but to stay in the union with their cheating partner and pray for such a spouse to have a change of heart and a change of habit.
But those who are not married are far more lucky! They have loads of choices. They should get down on their knees and thank the Lord for revealing their partner's cheating traits to them, and bale out as fast as they can. Morning shows the day. . .
May God give us faithful partners |
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Busta (f)
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@topic,
Hell to da NO!!
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gregg2
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So far, 97% of Ladies have replied "NO".
This statistics is surprising to me because as a guy
I used to think it hurts us more.
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LadyT (f)
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We can all scream no. But I'm sure if it really happened it would be a different story. So I say yes I can forgive, depends I can't be sure, |
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Dr lamin
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i t over. no point ,but its rational 2 remain friends
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spoilt (f)
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We can all scream no. But I'm sure if it really happened it would be a different story. So I say yes I can forgive, depends I can't be sure, I know myself. Merciless me. one strike and you're out. I don't have time for trifling cheats! |
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ima1 (f)
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why would i give him the satisfaction of cheating on me again.
my rule is if you cheat, we are done because if you can't keep it in ur pants, then you will never be able to.
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bluehorizo (m)
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We all deserve a second chance.
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