I am sure you have all received this before. I received this a few years ago, but judging from some of the questions I see in Nairaland, here they are again. I am sure it will help a few people.
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. so for those who say they want you but are not with you its just talk!!
If he doesn't want you, nothing you do or say can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. why would you want him as a friend anyway??? it don't make no sense
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry any of them when he got them pregnant, so Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are, even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
If a man cheated on his girl with you then Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending, compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships, there is nothing cute about baggage, deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you, a relationship
consists of two WHOLE individuals, look for someone complimentary, not
supplementary.
Dating is fun, even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes, when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Share this with other ladies, You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
and on a final note,
if a man has ever strung you along and then dissed you big time then he isn't even worth your time, why should you still run around behind him like a lap dog or even talk to him when he has dissed you, remember, he will be having the last laugh at your expense!!
Don't have a man and then keep countless men friends, it makes you look like a whore!! and remember no-one will actually know he is just a friend, people will automatically assume you are sleeping with them if they see you at the movies, in a restaurant etc, if you have a man why do you need to go places with other men?
it just doesn't figure!!!
THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE THE HINT LADIES,
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women take note
why didn't you just come back later? lmao
