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comfy4eva
My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« on: April 21, 2008, 10:02 AM »

Mine is different, he does not like people cooking for him neither does he eat when he come visiting at my place.
i keep asking y but he keeps giving excuses that it wudnt be as nice as he wants!( or maybe something else is involved, what do you think?) Undecided
SENATOR JD (m)
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #1 on: April 21, 2008, 11:20 AM »

food posion concious Grin
OMO IBO (m)
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #2 on: April 21, 2008, 11:38 AM »

how long have you to been together?
real_demi (f)
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #3 on: April 21, 2008, 11:48 AM »

Quote from: OMO IBO on April 21, 2008, 11:38 AM
how long have you to been together?

You took the words right out of my mouth. Pro'lly a week!
oghogho4
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #4 on: April 21, 2008, 11:50 AM »

good question. how long hav u guys been goin out? der seems 2 b smthin fishin smwhere.
savesoul (m)
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #5 on: April 21, 2008, 11:58 AM »

The poor Guy is Scared, so u wont put Love portion  Grin
Chie!!  African Mentality! Grin
oYaTo (m)
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #6 on: April 21, 2008, 12:01 PM »

How long have you known each otha? It's hard to gobble sumthin' up unless you're absolutely sure you can trust the source Grin  Grin
Adaugo01 (f)
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #7 on: April 21, 2008, 12:05 PM »

Quote from: savesoul on April 21, 2008, 11:58 AM
The poor Guy is Scared, so u wont put Love portion Grin
Chie!! African Mentality! Grin

i second u!

real african mentality
kalmebad (f)
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #8 on: April 21, 2008, 12:08 PM »

@ Poster
Just like someone has asked, how long have u known this guy?

The reason i know could be fear of love portion, though not so sure if people still go that extra mile
Secondly, your guy is yet to build enough trust in you, am sure once he conquers that fear of insecurity, things might turn out better.
Let him open up more.  
savesoul (m)
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #9 on: April 21, 2008, 12:18 PM »

Quote from: oYaTo on April 21, 2008, 12:01 PM
How long have you known each otha? It's hard to gobble sumthin' up unless you're absolutely sure you can trust the source Grin  Grin

It took  6 months before i allowed my girlfriend cook for me, not that i am scared, but i don't want her to get the impression that she is dating a food athirst
amaechijay
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #10 on: April 21, 2008, 12:43 PM »

The guy is simply being meticulous. He wants to fall in love with his heart not his head. Do u blame him?

Just chill ! I guess he is still getting to now u so, give him some time to come around

Otherwise, he wants to keep u on your toes in other to keep u trying to win him completely, lol!

Grin Grin Grin


menix (m)
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #11 on: April 21, 2008, 12:44 PM »

Hmmmmm,  Everybody saying same,
       @poster,
           The guy in question might just be like a friend. He hardly eat what someone else cooks cous he has a sensitive stomach, he prefers eating what he prepared with his own hand.  May be that could be his reason.
dee02 (m)
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #12 on: April 21, 2008, 12:50 PM »

your cooking may be atrocious or maybe hez scared u might poison him!
emmeno (m)
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #13 on: April 21, 2008, 12:52 PM »

love portion, lol
Caradona (f)
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #14 on: April 21, 2008, 01:04 PM »

 I Never cook for my Boyfriend whenever he comes to my place
cause I know he comes to have Sex with me and nothing else, full stop.
Riskie (f)
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #15 on: April 21, 2008, 01:08 PM »

I Never cook for my Boyfriend whenever he comes to my place
cause I know he comes to have Sex with me and nothing else, full stop.

Wow your so brutally honest. lol at least your being for real  Tongue
pappilo (m)
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #16 on: April 21, 2008, 01:15 PM »

It is either your food no sweet or the guy dey fear say you go don wash obrima water put inside vegetable for am
prince_onx
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #17 on: April 21, 2008, 01:17 PM »

Come to think of it, Is love portion an African mentality or fact that happen in Africa? I see alot of sh**t like that in naija movies!
If you guys just started dating eachother, I won't blame the guy.
SENATOR JD (m)
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #18 on: April 21, 2008, 01:37 PM »

it aint just in africa and aint an african tingy dude Angry, airforce operates everywhere Grin
Busta (f)
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #19 on: April 21, 2008, 01:43 PM »

Quote from: Caradona on April 21, 2008, 01:04 PM
I Never cook for my Boyfriend whenever he comes to my place
cause I know he comes to have Sex with me and nothing else, full stop.

lol . . . not time for food. just straight to the main deal!
bawomolo (m)
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #20 on: April 21, 2008, 02:03 PM »

Quote
I Never cook for my Boyfriend whenever he comes to my place
cause I know he comes to have Sex with me and nothing else, full stop.

you are not really a girlfriend, Americans refer to u as a bootycall, jumpoff, cumbucket etc.
kayzee (m)
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #21 on: April 21, 2008, 02:05 PM »

@ Caradona
I Never cook for my Boyfriend whenever he comes to my place
cause I know he comes to have Sex with me and nothing else, full stop.

I dig your style o, I wouldn't mind a pretty friend of urs with your kind of "orientation",

Me too now dey chop any how o, you have to fear the gals of today they are capable of doing what you can't imagine an educated person with western mentality
amaechijay
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #22 on: April 21, 2008, 02:14 PM »

l guess it was way to early to get to that level. You should have allowed him to long for a meal prepared by u before making that move.

l allow guys to even get close crying for it before venturing to prepare a meal for them.

lt doesn't come easy with me o.
dreamnaira (m)
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #23 on: April 21, 2008, 02:16 PM »

If the guy in question is my type of person, baby don't border yourself, when he understands you well he will surely eat. Sometimes it's how your been brought up. I doesn't like eating outside, even eating hotels, but that is not to say im afraid of anytime.

It shouldn't border you unless there is something else you have in mind
oluwdashmi
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #24 on: April 21, 2008, 02:21 PM »

Quote
I Never cook for my Boyfriend whenever he comes to my place
cause I know he comes to have Sex with me and nothing else, full stop.

If all he comes for is sex and you give him always, it defines the agreement between the 2 of u. A relationship that is defined 4 marriage purpose will not be like that because he would like 2 know more of what you can do as a wife (not only on bed).

Although you were very blunt but not interesting.
bobbteeth
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #25 on: April 21, 2008, 02:49 PM »

I guess, the guy is just trying to be conscious of food poison but then if you are very sure that, the food is poison free. good!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



I think, the guy is like me. I don't like girl that doesn't know how to prepare delicious food.
nossycheek (f)
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #26 on: April 21, 2008, 02:52 PM »

If he doesn't want to eat your food, please allow him to cook for you then. It works both ways since he is afraid of love portion and you are not scared of falling in love, eat what he presents to you!
tngtech (m)
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #27 on: April 21, 2008, 02:56 PM »

Quote from: emmeno on April 21, 2008, 12:52 PM
love portion, lol

correct.

and besides how long have u been together?
dee02 (m)
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #28 on: April 21, 2008, 03:18 PM »

Quote from: Caradona on April 21, 2008, 01:04 PM
I Never cook for my Boyfriend whenever he comes to my place
cause I know he comes to have Sex with me and nothing else, full stop.

Wow NASTY!
You just open up and let him plough into you just like that?!
Well at least he cooks u up under so u don't need to worry about cooking for him
And after cooking u up under, he fills your bucket up to the brim so u can keep going till he comes around to lay his GALA inside u again!
SENATOR JD (m)
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #29 on: April 21, 2008, 03:48 PM »

Quote from: dee02 on April 21, 2008, 03:18 PM
Wow NASTY!
You just open up and let him plough into you just like that?!
Well at least he cooks u up under so u don't need to worry about cooking for him
And after cooking u up under, he fills your bucket up to the brim so u can keep going till he comes around to lay his GALA inside u again!

wetin this guy just yarn Huh
his_grace (m)
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #30 on: April 21, 2008, 03:51 PM »

he simply is avoiding the ides of march - the potentiality of adding love portion in soup for him - ha yah.
opokonwa (m)
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking
« #31 on: April 21, 2008, 04:30 PM »

Well, I have another perspective from all yours.

If your boyfriend was afraid of eating love portion, he wouldn't bother dating you in the 1st place.
He would probably just be having sex with you, your meetings will simply be ocassional and you will just be one of his flings.
But in this scenario, you paint the picture that you both are dating; so love portion to me is out of the picture.
You are his girlfriend; abi no be so?

There are certain occult male groups that do not eat food cooked by women; because it either violates their oath or deceases their powers.
Spiritual things are deep my friend.
I wouldn't know whether your boyfriend belongs to one but if he does, he will probably never eat your food no matter how good a cook you are.
Shine your eye girl! Shocked Shocked Shocked

And don't ever confront him on this.
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