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Chookym (m)
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Dont worry. He is just being cautious . Be patient with him . Dont hurry things up , With time he will build enough trust to eat without blinking an eye. Wetin enter belle no dey cure easily ooo.  |
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enitan2002 (m)
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@ poster,
maybe the type of maggi u are using may contribute to this, are u the 'white maggi' user type? if u are, then that might be the problem, some people are not use to eating food that contains white maggi, like V***N, A******TO, u should understand what am saying.
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Sholeyb
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My advice is to speak to him about it. Ask for his reasons and choose your words carefully, do not be aggressive or confrontational. Say things like "I'd like to practice my newly acquired cooking skills on you but they seem to be going to waste" and jokingly add that you would taste the food before he does.
If you end up marrying this chap, u would ave to cook for him so this is something that needs to be resolved. On the other hand, if it is not so important for you to cook for your man, let sleeping dogs lie, but make sure u get to know him well as someone commented about some people in cults, do not eat food cooked by women. I am not asserting anything just picking up from an earlier comment.
I don't know how long u've known each other, if recently please give it some time.
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Didicee
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Well, i would say there are different dimensions to this. It could be one of what everybody else has said.But since you say he doesn't also eat outside, then just maybe you are not a good enough cook for the guy. You know, guys like that are so used to doing their own thing that nothing or no-one is good enough for them. I once had a friend who was so good a cook that he was known among our friendly circles. I tried to impress him with my cooking(which i think and i've been told is very good) until another friend of ours told me that after the guy ate my food, all he could say, (of course behind my back ) was "she try, but she no reach me".
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spoilt (f)
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When you go to see him, don't eat his food. Tell him it wont be as nice as you like it to be.
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TCUBE (m)
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harsh but true, your food sucks!
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ima1 (f)
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he might be scared. because you know how women wash toto put for them guy food. just to hook them
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outlaws (m)
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 Hey poster:Who wants to get hurt these days? Not every one can afford it
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nobilia
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If you are so much interested in this cooking thing, why not get a job at pizza hut or Kenny roasters?
If he doesn't eat your food then do not cook for him. Some of us come here to this forum to relax and not to turn ourselves to idiots. We ain't all teenagers here.
Next time boil water for am.
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babyx (f)
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nairaland chicks, your guy don't eat your food or avoids your cookin? well that goes to show u can't cook, lets not pretend we are Africans for crying out loud, our culture says a woman should know how to cook, decent meals, u don't hv to be a chef, Nigeria women who live american lives with their Nigeria men will experience a downside in their relationships especially if that black man finds he can get that elsewhere, so learn how to cook, not just for a man but for yourself, it will boost your confidence as a complete woman, a complete black woman,  |
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Real Man (m)
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The thing is very clear. THE GUY IS SCARED THAT YOU WILL PUT A LOVE PORTION IN THE FOOD.  There is no two way about that. It is a pity of him to think something like that.  |
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Rhea (m)
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It's either he doesn't like your cooking and doesn't have the guts to tell you;
Or he's scared you'll add some cognomi (I hope I got the spelling right) inside his food.
Tell him to his face that this is what you think, and watch him wriggle out with some other excuse
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amaechijay
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l have a friend it happened to and recently the guy gave her the boots after she tried to sit him down and have them figure out what the matter was. It might be a sign that he isn't going ahead but didn't know how to go about it.
Maybe the guy has his reservations about the whole thing and will soon bolt out, so be on your guard and fence your heart to receive the "bomb"
A word is enough for the wise , .
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ritapearl (f)
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How long have you two dated? I think he is not close to you and he is not ready to have any serious relationship with you.
Why bother yourself?
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spicy v (f)
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[i] I Never cook for my Boyfriend whenever he comes to my place
cause I know he comes to have Sex with me and nothing else, full stop.[/i]
So wats your point exactly, u want nairalanders to know that your nothing but a tool used in satisfying someones sexual desires? i don't get it. Please go get a life n try to make meaningful contributions next time.
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spicy v (f)
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There are certain occult male groups that do not eat food cooked by women; because it either violates their oath or deceases their powers. Spiritual things are deep my friend. I wouldn't know whether your boyfriend belongs to one but if he does, he will probably never eat your food no matter how good a cook you are. Shine your eye girl! Shocked Shocked Shocked And don't ever confront him on this. [/i] NA wa!nairaland! what wont i hear?  |
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eudio (f)
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if he doesnt trust u enough to cook his meal, no wahala. tell am to
always branch munchies, tasty fried etc whenever he is visiting u.
that makes your life easy. shikina
why bother your self?
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eudio (f)
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wait oh, na by force to cook for am sef? abi na food u come cook for man for lagos?
abeg blank scope
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Abbey_city (f)
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If you are so much interested in this cooking thing, why not get a job at pizza hut or Kenny roasters?
If he doesn't eat your food then do not cook for him. Some of us come here to this forum to relax and not to turn ourselves to idiots. We ain't all teenagers here.
Next time boil water for am.
 lol na d same thing na, no bi woman still boil d water? u're funny @poster Stp bordring yourself, u shld b happy nw it seems he does'nt want to give u prob or (strees) u. that's y he love doing d cooking by himself, if i where u, i'll really love it in that way (no wahala) |
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Abbey_city (f)
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wait oh, na by force to cook for am sef? abi na food u come cook for man for lagos?
abeg blank scope
reality |
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osobajay (m)
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lol, what a funny post and even funnier replies.
for u whose boyfriend comes only for sex, its harsh but girls your type are called sarewa (emergency T*T*) i have an ATM (advance T*T* Manager friend who can help u get more "boyfriends", lol
@Poster, only be patient, there are so many ways to it. could be that he's still sizing u up to see if he can trust u. could be that he doesnt like eating out(like me). and could be that he belongs like someone suggested. please don't confront him o, it could be catastrophic,
anyways just keep your eyes open and guard your heart well, ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN.
and to those who say its african mentality to think of girls that put otomokpo in food. u never jam and may u never jam. this ajeh people sef, una no know wetin street dey talk,
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donchigo1
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Hello.
Sister is a pity, that the guy man whom you called your boyfriend is not eating your food. well take heart . the young want to devoid himself of food poison, But come to think of it . the first date you had what do you prepare for him. who knows, just check your cooking,
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Akpeno
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I Never cook for my Boyfriend whenever he comes to my place
cause I know he comes to have Sex with me and nothing else, full stop.
Ah! That's not a boyfriend that's a walking talking Dildo!  |
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Echidime (m)
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he does not TRUST you, he think you will put JASS into his food so as to force him marry you and later control his life for him, is simple.
I want mine to cook for me but she refuse saying she has no time. What a funny WORLD?
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The Sly
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How long have u been together here and there. . . . . . .Address the damn issue and you lot are asking the same ?? ---------->Poster The dude is just being cautious. . . . . He thought that he would end up washing undies later on. . . . . .Blame it on too much Nollywood movies |
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kjott (f)
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l have a friend it happened to and recently the guy gave her the boots after she tried to sit him down and have them figure out what the matter was. It might be a sign that he isn't going ahead but didn't know how to go about it.
Maybe the guy has his reservations about the whole thing and will soon bolt out, so be on your guard and fence your heart to receive the "bomb"
A word is enough for the wise , .
True talk!at last someone is saying something different.The guy probably dosent want you to owe him to anythin when hes leavin.like some ladies will Say ''after all i did for u''.For where?d guy wake up no be small. |
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bawomolo (m)
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he might be scared. because you know how women wash toto put for them guy food. just to hook them wow wow |
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TCUBE (m)
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I sometimes wonder why people bring their problems here hoping to get sane answers, most people in here just post stupid and senseless stuff, You better talk to a friend or sister because these people aint got nothing good to offer,
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