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big-ben
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the guy is simply been cautious  he's scared of been jazzed  you have to convince him beyond reasonable doubt that with your food in is stomach,he is safe.best of luck  |
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Siena (m)
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the guy is simply been cautious he's scared of been jazzed you have to convince him beyond reasonable doubt that with your food in is stomach,he is safe.best of luck People still believe in that sort of thing?   Seems pretty backward, if that's what he's scared of. |
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chiegemba (f)
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hahahahaha! "eya"!!!  |
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cgift (m)
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Are you sure the guy is not always fasting when coming to your place? Just a thought though!
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chi101
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If he doesn't want to eat your food, please allow him to cook for you then. It works both ways since he is afraid of love portion and you are not scared of falling in love, eat what he presents to you! Guy you too mush ooo |
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popsonbabs (m)
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I Never cook for my Boyfriend whenever he comes to my place
cause I know he comes to have Sex with me and nothing else, full stop.
for your mind you are his girl ohhhhhhhhhh, don't you know u are just a bed mate. If you are serious about this be careful and think now before it will be late for u.
Well, i don't like eating just anyhow or anywhere maybe because i don't use to eat too much,
but when it comes to girl matter, i always like to taste her food even if its just 2 spoons, because i cannt marry a wife that wldnt be able to cook a good food for me. For me sha, i don't believe any lady can charm me. You better call your guy and talk to him or 2 of u don't have plan for future? Because, if he eventually marry u, u will not be cooking for him ooooooo and then u will now remember me. ACT FAST
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dragnet (m)
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many people still believe that "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach" well I don't as in it wuldnt work with me! Maybe that's your mentality also & thats why u culd be so bothered but I guess he has cleared the air! Similar to someone I know. . . If this person takes in the wrong stuff there's gona be a crisis inside! So selective with fo0ds Even water!
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tearface (f)
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One advice,DONT BOTHER COOKING ANYMORE.Forget about him and he will ask.If anything happens to him now, it will be your fault. I've been dating for almost 3yrs before I ate anything my fiance brought.Now my family is saying that he has put love portion in the food he brings over.Can you imagine?-And they are threatening our relationship.  People cn be stupid.Not necessarily him,but you can experience something from his family, friends,anybody. Take care. |
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skype
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better, u don't have the work to cook |
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moses-hola (m)
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Its easy! find out if he does the same thing at home or when he goes visiting his male friends. find out, interact with his friends and know if truely he eats only what he alone prepares. if your finding is positive then just see it as his way of life. but it is the other way round, then my sister shine your eye. He could realy be in a setting (cult)
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Dalby (m)
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If your cooking is tasty, then there is a lack of trust. If he is a superstitious guy the relationship is leading no where. I won't be surprised if he does not have a fiance already or is even married and still loves his wife to a fault:o
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Phemzy (m)
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May be the guy's is very sensitive and he his trying to be himself, so don't think he dosen't love you because of that.
@Caradona
I Never cook for my Boyfriend whenever he comes to my place
cause I know he comes to have Sex with me and nothing else, full stop.
You are nothing but a sexy machine, so the guy did not love you but take you as his sex partner.
Wish you luck
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software (m)
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ahhhhhhah ah ahahah ah a thats really funny, there must be something fishing. most guys are very carefull these days, Statistics, shows that over 40% of Nigeria women and girls, Use Charms to HOOK a MAN, especially those that are finicially okay, so the guy might just be trying to protect himself,
But try and find out why, or perhaps, try and cook and make sure he is there and see if he will eat or not,
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elizabetta (f)
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give him time.
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aisida
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that your boyfriend may have be in a cat tern that they have wash and put there for him that he will continue to buy food outside that yours. just try and take him to a pastor so they can pray for him. he will change and start eating your food have a nice day
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Mugabe (m)
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COMY4EVA NOMATTER HOW MUCH PHILOSOPHY ONE REELS OUT IN REGARDS TO THIS,IT'S NOT HEALTHY.IN AFRICA WE SHARE THIS SCHOOL OF THOUGT THAT THE WAY TO A MANS HEART IS HIS STOMACH.SO YOU JUST HAVE TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT,
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rancetech (m)
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Hey dude, do u have to wash your dirty underwears outside. There are many reasons why a man would avoid eating his woman's food. The most common of them is "Bad Cook". Trying spicing your meal a little bit. You can learn from your mum too and friends as well. www.evermigerian.blogpost.com |
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kaypound (m)
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well, talk to him about it and send a reply of his excuse on this same site. so we can get a real insight to your problem.
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EnnyP
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May be the guy's is very sensitive and he his trying to be himself, so don't think he dosen't love you because of that.
be patient. he'l com around. if the relationship is defined, he doesnt have a choice. dnt push too far. |
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macgozy (m)
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I personally don't eat outside no matter who the person in question is. I prefer to cook and she will join in the meal.
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Seun (m)
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If you can sleep with her, eating her food should not be such a big deal.
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addy2much
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don't you think its wierd when your boy friend refuses to eat your food.probably he doesn't trust you.for how long have you guys been together?or maybe you are not so much of a good cook.take your time to find out wats up. cheers
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onyinye2 (f)
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i would make him cook and see how good he is. Trust me after seeing that he can't cook if his life depended on it then he will come around  |
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realcele
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Hi,
I think personally you worry about what is nought and i in my own opinion i will say you are better off asking him why he does not want to eat is your food or to put it more politely eat outside. As @yinkuso08 her husband case was to do with upbringing so in your case you need to hear from the horse's mouth.
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Bell32 (m)
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well, well, well, maybe he is afraid of pioson you no love poison. or he doesnt trust you |
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mona83
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You know how desperate Naija girls have become. Sistas resort to any means possible these days to 'tie' a guy down- diabolical means inclusive, especially if the guy in question is has a fat pocket.
The greed angle apart, there are also some women out there who 'use' a guy's "good fortune" to make wealth for themselves. So, by and large, your guy's only being cautious. You're not married yet, are you?
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dezman77 (m)
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SIMPLY FOR CARDONA, CAN I BE YOUR BOYFRIEND TOO, LOL
SO WHEN AM COMING I WONT EXPECT FOOD FOR THE STOMACH BUT JUST SOUL FOOD, YOU ARE JUST TOO DIRECT
ARE YOU FROM BENIN? VERY DIRECT, SORRY YOU FROM BENIN COME?
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fellybabe (f)
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then, don't even entertain him again.
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timmfikk (m)
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As for me i think the guy is only having a little time of himself , and also don't think he do not love you for that reason and also you never knew what he already heard or saw, so kindly give him a chance and hold on to yourself for a bit more and see but if he continues such way kindly ask him why he is really doing that, okay.
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