|
albridge (m)
|
well i think its a big risk. in five years time you will be older, probably less pretty, have less options in the market place of love ( i mean suitors) and really be putting all your eggs in one basket. think its better you settle for someone else who is ready to do it now and whom you love.
|
|
|
|
|
|
origina9ja (f)
|
allow this people
5 years weiting
abeg its a lng tymeooo
u kno say 4 men its not bad bt women hahaha
abeg ma sista make dey kno decieve u ooo
so think it through proper
|
|
|
|
|
|
vivaladiva (f)
|
all this talk about marriage makes my blood run cold. why are nigerian girls so obsessed with marriage? so what if he wants to get married in 5 years time so what if u are goin 2 be 32? tis all this shit about marriage that make nigerian men think the sun shines out of their arses. mess him mess marriage and enjoy your youth
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
vivaladiva (f)
|
mess means fucking without the ing please take note
|
|
|
|
|
|
vivaladiva (f)
|
am sorry is he nigerian
|
|
|
|
|
|
bakre (m)
|
please,tell him to give a conrcete reason behind that.Bcos,for a lady,its not medically alright to get married late.So,kindly ask him to give u the main reason behind that
|
|
|
|
|
|
Signor Zax
|
For a moment, please consider this.
Who toasted who for the relationship to start? The guy.
Who is now asking of marriage? The Girl.
hmmmmmm!
Someone is very desperate here. and we all know guys don't like that.
Haba she for wait make im ask her now.
|
|
|
|
|
|
JoyceAgim (f)
|
 osanobuaaa,come u want make your papa marry u as second wife?u no kw say @ 27 sef u done old talk less of 32?girl abeg that guy no value u @ all.he no mean well for u.better leave am before him go leave u.
|
|
|
|
|
|
naijabelle
|
i can see disaster everywhere. becareful he might leave u and age 32 your old for a women. If he leaves you, it will be hard to find someone else.
|
|
|
|
|
|
keney (f)
|
whats all this rush about marriage, what happens if u get married to him and eventually the marriage hits the rock after a yr or two, i suggest u wait for the rite time and God's appointed time too, if u love him, 32 is not too much of an age, after all the american says life begins at 30 for ladies so why the RUSH, and don't forget a man cld be 30 and still not ready and matured for marriage, so if your man thinks he will be ready to handle marrige at 32, let it be  |
|
|
|
|
|
Akinagirl (f)
|
Good point keney. If you rush in, you rush out, don't rush, enjoy being single, in charge of your own life. But, if you feel that you can't handle it, search for another lover. Never put all your eggs in one basket. But then again, don't rush him, marriage is not something to be rushed into.
|
|
|
|
|
|
acidrop (f)
|
we know there is no rush, but 25 is no rush now, 32 is pretty old for a woman 2 be getting married. did he tell u why he wants 2 wait?
|
|
|
|
|
|
LAKANYE~ (f)
|
Damn woman,, YOU LOOK "GOOD" IN YOUR PICTURE!!!
|
|
|
|
|
|
mykali (m)
|
dump the guy or get him to dump u  |
|
|
|
|
|
Cotton (m)
|
You're 27 and he is 27. How do you expect it to work? Men are generally more immature than women. Your thinking is light years ahead of his. If he was my bro, I probably wouldn't advise him to marry someone his mate. Difficulties would crop up later - by the time you're both 40 you'll be looking like his mother! Don't think that guys don't think about such things, because they do. When that time approaches, he will start looking for 22 year olds to take out with him. Listen I would honestly advise you to find someone older. I haven't bothered to ask for specifics of the relationship such as backgrounds, finances, level of education, spiritual compatibility and such. I am just giving my 2 cents based on obvious parameters. Wish you all the best!  |
|
|
|
|
|
t00 cUTE (f)
|
the question is would he still be there. what if after waiting and you are almost there he tells you, he;s not intrested. oyu knw say we get age limit when it comes to marriage, so the ball dey your court  .[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]
|
|
|
|
|
|
adconline (m)
|
most men are not immature at 27 but circumstances around them make them not to settle. The point is that this lady sees her future with this man. Ladies always envision marriage before men. Why can't she date other guys, but should let them know that she is looking for a life partner.
|
|
|
|
|
|
t00 cUTE (f)
|
adconline i some how don't agree with u, if she dates other guys and probably has sex with them, would u want 2 marry her again, what if she dates someone and he propose marriage 2 her and the guy is actually waiting.
|
|
|
|
|
|
ogbenyeanu (f)
|
darling,dnt u think a lot could happen in 5yrs. O dikwa risky! |
|
|
|
|
|
t00 cUTE (f)
|
darling,dnt u think a lot could happen in 5yrs. O dikwa risky! I AGREE 101% WITH You |
|
|
|
|
|
morayosola
|
Hey girl, u have got to be smart because it almost happened to me. Keep your eyes open for other responsible options while still going on with the relationship. However let him know before hand that you are keeping your options open, if that still doesnt make him come to a compromise with you, girl you don't need to be told to start looking else where. You can't blame men because at that age their whole concentration is on being financially stable to be able to take care of their future wives and kids, while all we have in mind is how to build the home. So its usually safer to date a guy that is perhaps three to four years older so that by the time you are ready to settle down, he is also thinking same. It is well with you, but mean while don't stay redundant, make yourself better intellectually,career wise, spiritually and emotionally because no man wants a pest . Men are attracted to subtle positive challenges and women that would stimulate them . Give any man that you would date again a 'chase for his money' and you would be sure he would be the one begging you for marriage.
|
|
|
|
|
|
adconline (m)
|
too Cute,
then miss lady should wait for 5 years or pay for the marriage. the only her guy has never thought of marriage is that he is not ready financially.
|
|
|
|
|
|
Tonyblu (m)
|
If I count right, it's already about 2 months down this topic.
So You hav roughly 58months more to go, !!
And from all the valuable (?) advice u hav gotten on this forum, what hav u decided?
|
|
|
|
|
|
kaypound (m)
|
this is hilarious, madam, i don't think you need an advice for this one. the patient dog never eats any bone in this generation. it will die waiting in hunger, run run run, if he has a job now and he his not ready he will never be ready because he will always have excuses not to be.
|
|
|
|
|
|
bunmii (f)
|
hmmmm that is what happens when you date your agemate---- what after the five years he decides to go for a younger girl your situation is risky
good luck sha whatever u do
|
|
|
|
|
|
kaypound (m)
|
this is hilarious, madam, i don't think you need an advice for this one. the patient dog never eats any bone in this generation. it will die waiting in hunger, run run run, if he has a job now and he his not ready he will never be ready because he will always have excuses not to be.
|
|
|
|
|
|
divine2k
|
hi, well i just want to say that if he is your dream guy then stick to him that is if u are well sure he will not dump you. not how long but how well.and better still you can give each other a break to know if that is what u really want and also to lounge into some other oceans bt plss. be careful and always remember to pray about each step u want to take Maariage is a life experience that last 4ever so please put God into it and let him guide u. best of luck.
|
|
|
|
|
|
mimketty
|
i don't think the guy is serious. the best thing for you to do is to leave the guy alone.
|
|
|
|
|
|
OgaMadam (f)
|
DONT MAKE YOURSELF AVAILABLE FOR A MAN. HE WILL TAKE ADVANTAGE.
BREAK UP WITH HIM. MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. HE MAY THINK TWICE AND THEN FOLLOW YOU.
MEN LIKE NOTHING 2 COME EASY.
|
|
|
|
|
|
asas (f)
|
hmmm at 27 still single den 32 u don becom old cargo girl u had better move on what if u wait and he says he doesnt want u no more
|
|
|
|
|
|
![Nairaland [Nigerian Forum] Home](http://www.nairaland.com/Themes/default/images/english/home.gif)
Author
