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4shyzzy
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chicks confuse me sometimes, y do you ladies always ask a guy for marriage? don't u know that's sure fire to get rid of him? wait till his ready, if after 3 years he's not down with you, move on. Better ask God for guidance, ask Him for a partner, and cliche as it may sound, He always answers our prayers. Otherwys forget. You screwed up with the big question. A guy is ready when he is ready, no pressure. Good luck!
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Dalby (m)
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Just leave  Forget about all the sweet things he tells you  |
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Da Junta (m)
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@Poster, I'm surprised u are yet 2 decide on this after all these while.  |
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OlowoTee (f)
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darling,dnt u think a lot could happen in 5yrs. O dikwa risky!  O dikwa very very risky. . . except you're really sure of God's directive and plan for your life. |
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1Music2luv (m)
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HMMM!!!! 32 years
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dee02 (m)
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If it is 40 he wants u to wait till, KO SI BIG DEAL!
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prettyuc
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i can only advice you to think deeply and know what is right for u, since both of you are the same age now his a man and your a woman waiting for more five years is not a small thing.
think wisely.
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Arielle
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The guy says he's not ready and thats the truth. It may not have anything to do with money.
Please don't put undue pressure on this young man you've only dated for 4 months.
You're only 27. Enjoy your single life. There are tons of things to do and achieve before you settle down.
Leave him or wait, its up to you. Life is never a sure thing. But what I will say is that men can smell desperation a mile away. And there's nothing that puts a guy off faster than a desperate woman.
Marriage will come when you least expect it. When you lead a genuinely full life with varied interests, and probably not even thinking of settling down, you will meet a guy who will beg to put a ring on your finger. It may be your current guy, it may not be. Life can be funny that way, I'm speaking from experience. It may not happen the same way for you, but my point is there are no guarantees in life. We cannot base our life decisions on what-ifs. What if you wait till 32 and he doesn't marry you? On the other hand, what if he agrees to marry you now, and chickens out at the last minute? Like, say, your wedding day? It happens! What if he does marry you and proceeds to spend all his time outside the home at clubs or hanging with the boys in a bid to recapture his freedom? Or ends up resenting you?
In the meantime you will have deprived yourself of a wealth of enriching experiences you could have had by further education, career advancement or meeting new people, that could help to make you a well-rounded, respectable and self-sufficient lady any guy would be proud to bear his name.
Please concentrate on making yourself a better person. That is what you should bring to a marriage.
Sorry for going on!
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sweetk (f)
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My best advice for you is continue to date him he might be the one. But also remember to keep your options open because he might not be the one for you when you turn 32. Women change with age and maturity, so the things we look for in a man aren't the same at 27 as it is at 32. Open your eyes waiting may very well benefit you.
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mosyb
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IF ANY AVAILABLE MAN DEY, 4GET THAT GUY, HIM WAN PLAY 4 TIME
BE REAL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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nike4luv (f)
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thats his own way of saying my career comes first before you. what if when he is boasting his career someone comes and take him away. 5 years of your life worth that!, its either your way or the motorway, dump his a$$
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adex285 (m)
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i would rather advice the duo to get engage first if the guy is really serious bout the lady.i think with this,the girl can be rest assure the guy in particular is not trying to toy with her.But if the guy can engage her, then E better make you Quit the relationship.
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aj_tunde
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if truely u love him u can wait,i will encourage u to get engaged.
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misssexy u (f)
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color=#990000][/color][u beta move on with your lyf girl as u cn c marriage is nt a do or die affair
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femity
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what the f**kis he gay? hes got a fabulous chic and wants 2 wait 5 more years 4 wot?!!![size=8pt][/size] [/b][b][b][/b] |
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LAKANYE~ (f)
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You really don't need to take any body's advice if you want.
Let TIME decide for you.
You can decide for yourself when you begin to see traces of gray hair growing on your head.
If you keep waiting FOR A MAN TO DECIDE TO MARRY YOU on or before you turn 32, and God forbid he decides at that time that, "HMMNN, YOU ARE "looking" TOO OLD, I DON'T THINK I WANNA BE WITH YOU ANY MORE" I wonder what you going to do then.
EVERY WOMAN HAVE ONLY ONE GOOD CHANCE OF BEING WITH ONE GOOD MAN,
all other chances afterwards are just mess buddies.
THE BALL IS ABSOLUTELY IN YOUR COURT
WHEN YOU DECIDE TO START DATING HIM, HOW MANY PEOPLE IN NAIRALAND ADVICE YOU TO PICK HIM?
AND IF YOU ARE STILL WITH THIS DUDE AFTER ALL THIS ADVICE NAIRALAND MEMBERS HAD OFFERED YOU FOR FREE WITHOUT PAYING CONSULTATION FEES TO ANYONE,
O WELL,
YOUR DESTINY IS IN YOUR HANDS.
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ibkaye (f)
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that is terrible |
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saucekid (m)
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i comment my reserve  |
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