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Emad (f)
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OK i think i get what it is now,
They did not expect it to turn out this way, Peter is not feeling too good about it, because he is not ready for marriage yet. She would like to settle down but does not know exactly how to get him to the altar, without looking desperate
hummmmmmmm i think she should have thought twice before dating a guy ten years younger than her See her now to mention the names of Demi Moore and Usher.
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tpia
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she's actually six years older than peter. Some people don't care about this kind of age difference. Madonna is also 10 years older than her husband. If Peter had a problem with it, then he really shouldnt have dated her in the first place. Or vice versa.  these guys just impregnating girls all over the place and then refusing to marry them. I don't know, but I think there are consequences when a man does that.They don't go scotfree, from what I heard. There's too much sadness and heartache involved. I think its worse when the girl has been led to believe the man will marry her and then he suddenly changes his mind after she's taken in.
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debosky (m)
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dang the woman is fynnneee  well done Pete, show them you don't shoot blanks  He seems committed to this woman though, not randomly having kidsthe whole 'marriage' thing is out of fashion with naija artistes these days, so I am not surprised. I wish them both and their unborn child all the best. How is he 'refusing' to marry her? He says he loves the woman, but marriage is not in the plans, she says she's not dying for marriage either, so what is the problem? Don't lump Pete with tuface (aka 7baba  ) - he's stayed with this woman for a while and wants the child, if they are not ready to marry, don't make it seem like he promised her something and changed it.
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nuzo (m)
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"I don't even know if I should feel happy or sad for her. To the best of my knowledge, she's mainly dated Naija guys, and I'm not sure why. Most of these people wont appreciate her.
Dont know why she stayed in the country either, really. Its not like she has no other choice.
oh well. I wish her and her baby the best, but I wish things could have been different as regards her partner. I think she may have given up on naija guys and marriage" - tpia.
@tpia
Questions for you:
What's the difference between the "naija guys" and other guys? What's the definition of appreciation in this context; marriage because she is pregnant or love. Which race or country do you think would have appreciated her more? When did it become mandatory that you must live outside Nigeria if you have the choice, even if you have a good job and holiday outside Nigeria frequently? From the interview, did it sound as if Peter was forced on her? Does being a mixed breed make her out of reach for Peter? Who among the two do you think has better chances of dating or marrying big personalities both home and abroad, black or white? What could be the consequences of two mature and financially independent beings having a baby together?
My questions are based on the paper interview and your response, and not based on personal encounter with the two adults involved.
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tpia
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@ nuzo: you seem to have some racial issues here.  rephrase your questions in a less hostile manner, if possible. How you're reading all this racial tension into my statements is amazing. check my posts on the thread below. Are you also finding some imaginary racial stuff there? http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=128562.msg2197814#msg2197814
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4 Him (m)
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that woman is really fine. wow!
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spoilt (f)
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Why is the nation pissed anytime a star falls for an older woman? The chic is banging hot can you blame peter? She is good arm candy. but seriously, She will probably be happier with a 'normal' man as a husband . Without the drama of groupies and an absentee husband. All those tours they go on. next thing other kids will start popping out from different women. 
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tai2 (m)
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See dead dead babes, dry dry fish for Nairaland wey dey beef better thing. The babe is older than the chap and they come from two different social classes fine, so if she like am nko na bad thing? No be like say she no get choice, fine babe like that for that matter. At least no be Nike Osinowo wey dey find other people them husband. Na the guy toast am after all.
At least she's independent and dating the guy on her own terms, not to mention making her own money, if he doesn't want to marry she surely won't kill herself over it, some Nigerian chicks here are holding their boyfriends to ransom because they don't want to get married now, una too do abeg, leave the fine babe and fine guy alone. All these hungry Nigerian girls are ready to sleep with the same chap they are calling ugly should he just snap his fingers, after all you are the ones screaming at the P2 Square shows and in their videos.
I respect both of them for the courage to make their own decisions. Make una go find work abeg, bad belle people and gold diggers.
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Radiant (f)
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Bla bla bla. . . . Whatever they choose to do is all for their happiness. Do your shitz guys while some people remain in limbo The reason I defy the tyranny of precedent. 
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onyeka_ng (f)
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i jus feel so sorry 4 lola 
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lamidebaby (f)
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Peter's a jerk. T's why i've always preferred Paul. 
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clemcykul
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the after effects of good bla bla bla.
she should bear the baby who knoes he/she might be her pillar 2morrw.
as for peter he has more wild oats to sow.
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prince_onx
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I still don't get why almost all the girls in the house feel pity or sorry for Lola! them force her date the guy? abi na me open her leg for the guy? whenever gist get to do with guys and babe e don be must say you must marry her even if na one day you date her!
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angeleses
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so what? over rated musicians - over rated pu ssies - over rated di cks - who cares who impregnates her?
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prince_onx
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I taya Ohhhhhh help me ask them 
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Anuli ph (f)
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Why all the negative comments? I hope 3 things for her; Its what she really wants, she's really happy and it works out well for them.
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uchetobi (f)
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I hope it all works out 4 them…being a single mama is hard…, she is so pretty tho….Munachi doesn’t even come close
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