I'm In Love With My Friend's Girlfriend.

           Hi everyone,i have a problem here which i think reasonable thinkers can help me get sorted out.
           I have a friend that lives in the same area as i do for over 6 years and later moved out late 2006,he had a girlfriend whom i later got to know personally.After the guy's departure,the girl goes to see him several times because of the deep love she has for him.I later became her closest friend,we gist,we play and i keep her company most times and she told me i was not making her feel the absence of her guy which i was happy about and vice versa to me 2 as i no longer had a girlfriend but she still keeps contact with her guy always.
         But after some months,i noticed i was beginning to have some feelings inside me for her,i didn't want to be wrong if it was lust or love,but it became stronger and stronger everyday.We sometimes quarell but later get it settled.I love this girl so much and i don't know how to go about it,but 1 thing is i can't tell it to her as she still talks with her guy constantly day in day out.I don't know what to do,please help me.

be disciplined, leave your friend's girl alone and find yours. Why are you constantly hanging out with her?

Leave the girl for her man, you don't want to destroy their relationship do you? Control yourself 

abegi, please go look for your own jare, whats d world turning into

Dude, she is your friend's girlfriend! Seriously, how can you do that to a friend? That's mean. If you really respect his friendship, you'd leave his girl alone and find yours because she is out there.

Turn the table around to yourself and try to imagine how it would be if your friend says he loves your girlfriend ?
Abeg go look for ya own babe joo !

This same thing happened when i was like 18 years old but the girl i liked was my cousin's girl-they were quarelling at the time.He was not in lagos and told me to just say hello to her and from the first time i saw her, i over- liked this girl.
before we knew what we happening the feelin was mutual- and i told her how i felt which was good at the time, cus she likd the way i told her how i felt.
when she got back 2 school she hooked up back wit my cousin and by the time she got back to lagos, she totally ignored me and she was even making out wit him(just kissin) in front of me.

so i'll advise u not 2 tell her anything, just keep bein a good friend to her
BTW: when my cousin later found out, he so wanted to kick my ass but couldn't find me

In other to avoid everything get your self busy with the things of God with that you will gradually be forgetting her i know is not easy but you will make it through the rain.All the best.

Excuse me?

Your friend's girlfriend is the only girl in this world to fall in love/fall in lust with. You are a typical Nigerian so I am not surprised.  All you guys do is sit down in one place and try to commit abominations all around you.  Anywhere you see progressyou are definitely not happy.  You are the kind of guy that will wait for his friends to go to work and end up trying to sleep with their wives or better still act like your "King David" in your bibleby killing the friend or neighbour just to sleep with his wife. What will you do when they are married?

Guys like you are dangerous and plainly evil. Diabolical in short! Vermin!

Anyway, it is the bush girl I blamefor even looking in your direction. It just shows she has no scrupples.  Why in the world is she maintaining such close contact with you is what I cannot understand. She must be very stupid.

Sometimes you quarrel and make up?  Hmm! Do you live in the same house?

ABEG I DIDNT EVEN GET TO SEE THIS ALMONDJOY!!! WAT DOES DAT MEAN "YOU ARE A TYPICAL NIGERIAN" I TAKE GOD BEG YOU PLEASE IN THE NAME OF GOD WATCH YOUR TONGUE OR IN CASE YOU HAVE NOTICED THIS IS NAIRALAND AND I PERSONALLY WILL NOT TAKE IT LIKELY THAT YOU ACTUALLY HAVE THE LIVER TO COMMIT SUCH FALLACY HERE PLEASE DO ADHERE TO CORRECTIONS OR You CAN RELOCATE TO DOLLARLAND WHERE YOU AND YOUR FELOW AMERICANS WHO BEHAVE SO AMERICANS CAN REASON WELL!!

u've said it ALL

Just thank your lucky stars for moderators! Instead of concentrating on the topicyou are responding to my post.  Like I saidthank you lucky stars I am in a good mood.


That is what I mean by "the typical" Nigerian.  Who cannot see beyond his or her nostrils.  Please don't mind the village pig! Does it sound like the poster in question was raised by two legally married parents?


Don't mind all these stupid re-cycled posters who never mind their business.

Shey you again?

You have been banned sufficiently enough to realize that this your "cheerleading" activities does not serve you well. Frankly nothing to discuss with your kindface the bloody topic please and mind you own phocking business as you have never learned to do!

I hate to deal with useless, semi-educated Nigerians who think with their smelling arses most of the time so I will have to say. . . .

GOOD RIDDANCE THREAD!!!!!


Moderator, please delete all these posts from all these hungry Yar'adua cock sucking refugees based in Nigeria! Hungry, poverty-stricken useless idiots without electricity or plumbing systemswho go about looking for peoples' girlfriends and wives/boyfriends or husbands to sleep with with their filthy arses!

Admondjoy,

You have done nothing wrong to me but I'm only trying to let you know that you are taking it too far and still going far and far.  Don't say sucking Refugees in Nigeria because they have not complained against living in Nigeria.  The way I see it, I find it difficult to believe that you are better than any of them.  You were once in Nigeria too.  You don't know where I base but I tell you no place like home.

@everyone.Thank u so much everybody,i'm very grateful 4 your advices to me concerning my post,i really appreciate it.I think majority caries the vote and that is:I'll  leave her to herself,though,it wont be easy but i'll definitely do that so as to keep d relationship between my friend and i.
              Thanks a lot everyone.