Forgive And Forget Or No Second Chances?

You discover your partner is a compulsive liar, and has been cheating - can you forgive and forget?

Your partner physically/emotionally abuses you can you give him/her a second chance?

You find out that the person you have been dating is a convicted felon - can you forgive him/her for not telling you (lying through omission)?

Can you give a second chance to someone in your life who abuses drugs and alcohol - or who gambles?

What about someone who is clumsy and keeps breaking stuff in your home - or someone who claims they are good at fixing things and makes matters worse?
 
What kinds of things can you forgive and forget?  When would you never give someone a second chance?

There is always a second chance no matter what.

some of the stuff is serious, others not a big deal. Someone who claims to be good at fixing things when they really arent, can always replace stuff with their own money, for instance.

And sometimes one can forgive, but it may not be easy to forget.

So it depends.

@poster
Looking at that list of possible offenses,    i will ask myself how did i get this kind of partner in the first place, ?
men am doom,   :'(because i have to forgive and forget as many times as he commits,  am DEAD MEAT!!!
There is a limit to human endurance, some genetic defects in humans are hard to live with, forgive yes because he doesnt know what he is doing but to forget, can't erase memories especially sad ones,  !!

No, I am not a masochist oh! We are all human afterall, we wrong people and people wrong us. Yes to err is human and to forgive is divine and since it's not easy to forgive and forget, it does take the bigger person to do that, I thought I'd ask about what people think about things they may never forgive people for. It would have to be really really bad, like terribly bad for me to not forgive. In fact, I don't think I even have a right not to forgive anyone afterall others have forgiven me for my errors and even the almighty forgives willingly.