Romance And Social Class

A man below your level can still move higher with time as long as he has prospects, can't he? Are you suggesting that those men that married women that are lower in their social class made a big mistake?

in as much as i believe there is absolutely nothing wrong is marrying someone below your social class i think the person in the lower class bracket stands a chance of being insulted (by a buffoon) when there's disagreement.
ever heard of 'who do u think you're?' or 'i brought u out of the slums'.

in my opinion those are the things anyone would need to watch out for. forget gold-diggers. i believe putting someone down because of their social standing hurts more than a gold-digging asswipe

WELL SAID TROOE,

A MAN THAT CAN NOT PROVIDE 4 HIS ENTIRE HOUSEHOLD IS WORSE THAN AN INFIDEL. HOLY BIBLE.

HOW ON EARTH WOULD A MAN GO FOR SOMEBODY THAT IS ABOVE HIS SOCIAL AND ROMANCE CLASS? THE MARRIAGE WILL CERTAINLY CRASH.

WE MEN, WE LIKE TO BE IN CONTROL AND ONLY FEW WOMEN IF NOT NONE WILL SUCCUMB TO A MAN THAT CAN'T OUTSTAND HER FINANCIALLY AND EVEN ROMANCE WISE.

THAT IS Y I DON'T DEPEND ON LADIES CASH. WHO CARES HOW MUCH SHE TAKES HOME PER WEEK/MONTH.

GUYS PLS LEARN HOW TO BE ON TOP IN UR RELATIONSHIP. I HATE MEN THAT FEED FROM WOMEN. OH MA GOD. I CAN'T STAND THEM. I CALL THEM 'OLE AND OLE'
THEIF AND LAZYMAN.

Word!

Let's not be quick in saying social class doesn't matter because it does. Relationship is not a one player-game. There are two people involved. You may be of the opinion that it's irreleveant when choosing a partner, but are you sure your partner thinks the same?

When you are the one on top, you may feel that's somehow a privilege for your partner to have found someone like you who is very well comfortable but yet doesn't care if s/he can't provide for both. Try and put yourself in your partner's shoes. As much as we try to deny it no one likes being under, whether man or woman. If s/he had the opportunity of getting where you are, well don't be surprised s/he won't miss it. Everybody likes the comfort of the last floor of a tall building.

Going to what someone affirmed earlier. Women going for more comfortable men has nothing materialistic. Contrary to men, we don't mind being the tail simply because things have been like this for a long time. What are we supposed to do? Go for a less privileged man and have us being frowned at all the time? Do you really think a man is always confortable with a woman who earns more than him? Let's not fool ourselves. Love isn't all in a relationship. Other factors play important role. Let's not neglect them by trying to play correct.

who ever said marriage between people of different social class don't exist or is doomed to fail need to wake up. only the stuck up, lazy and people who munch off papa and mama do and think like that. _{well most of them}

True! 

some of u ladies need to get off the horses you're riding. whatever happened to humility.

Truth.

If you're ready to get married, then this is for you. If you're just having fun, then it's not for you.

The man is the head of the house, full stop. He needs to be able to take care of the woman and children. The woman shouldn't be the one doing that.
If there is a situation where they were together and things were well and he looses it, then she needs to know that it's for better or for worse. If she has the means she needs to step in and take care fo the family, until the man can get on his feet, he better not take long sha. Providing for the family is his place.

Attagirl!!!

Lol, attagirl!!!

it's funny the women so hung up on equality have no problem spewing gender roles about men being providers and protectors when it suits them. 

another useless Naija men. So sad Nigeria is overbudden with them. Oga o