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Ebonyj (f)
Women: Why Do We Get So Moody During That Time Of The Month, How Can We Control
« on: April 25, 2008, 11:16 AM »

I am just wondering why we women get so moody during our red time of the month. I for one get so moody and I have nasty mood swings, I shout at my son and smack him at any little thing. My poor husband suffers the most because I just pick up a fight for no reason, I don't know why I do it, but my anger is always directed at my hubby and child.
Does anybody else go through this? Do you have any suggestive ways of controlling these mood swings? Men are welcome to add there views as well  Angry
Cadet (f)
Re: Women: Why Do We Get So Moody During That Time Of The Month, How Can We Control
« #1 on: April 25, 2008, 02:01 PM »

I can't control it period! If a guy can't take it,too bad! He just has to be mature enough
jennykadry (f)
Re: Women: Why Do We Get So Moody During That Time Of The Month, How Can We Cont
« #2 on: April 25, 2008, 02:03 PM »

control ke?its not possible,infact my husband has to leave d house for me sometimes because he can't stand my character
ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: Women: Why Do We Get So Moody During That Time Of The Month, How Can We Cont
« #3 on: April 25, 2008, 02:10 PM »

please, there are somethings that can't be controlled and this is one of it ohhh. he has to bear after all its only for a few days, its not plenty nahh  Grin.
D-reloaded (f)
Re: Women: Why Do We Get So Moody During That Time Of The Month, How Can We Control
« #4 on: April 25, 2008, 02:12 PM »

I fear some of you people
OMO IBO (m)
Re: Women: Why Do We Get So Moody During That Time Of The Month, How Can We Cont
« #5 on: April 25, 2008, 06:40 PM »

i know my girlfriends date. i make sure i stay away from her when its that time of the month. she snaps at the slightest instance
ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: Women: Why Do We Get So Moody During That Time Of The Month, How Can We Cont
« #6 on: April 25, 2008, 06:43 PM »

hey yah, kpele,  Grin
tRoOE (f)
Re: Women: Why Do We Get So Moody During That Time Of The Month, How Can We Control
« #7 on: April 25, 2008, 06:46 PM »

Have ask myself the same question but I haven't gotten an answer yet Sad

My man calls mine 15min of madness, but he use to it now



Quote from: OMO IBO on April 25, 2008, 06:40 PM
i know my girlfriends date. i make sure i stay away from her when its that time of the month. she snaps at the slightest instance
hmmmmm does your other girlfriends know you are dating more than one  Lips sealed Lips sealed
OMO IBO (m)
Re: Women: Why Do We Get So Moody During That Time Of The Month, How Can We Cont
« #8 on: April 25, 2008, 09:46 PM »

Quote from: tRoOE on April 25, 2008, 06:46 PM
Have ask myself the same question but I haven't gotten an answer yet Sad

My man calls mine 15min of madness, but he use to it now


hmmmmm does your other girlfriends know you are dating more than one  Lips sealed Lips sealed

i expect u to know what i meant. i couldnt be bothered with punctuation
uspry1 (f)
Re: Women: Why Do We Get So Moody During That Time Of The Month, How Can We Control
« #9 on: April 25, 2008, 09:47 PM »

@poster

I do not have PMS or moody swing myself. However read this helpful info from source cite link provided below:
http://yourtotalhealth.ivillage.com/pms-can-control-mood-swings.html

PMS: How Can I Control Mood Swings?
By: Kelly Shanahan

Question :
I have terrible mood swings about four or five days before my period starts. Is there anything I can do to control these mood swings? I don't have any control over my emotions on those days, and it causes great stress at home and at work. Please help!

--Cathie

Answer :
This sounds like classic premenstrual syndrome (PMS), now called Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD) by my psychiatrist colleagues. PMS affects about a third of all women and can cause a variety of physical, psychological and behavioral changes, including mood swings. We don't completely understand PMS, so effective treatment can be difficult. Still, many women find relief with a variety of therapies. Some of these therapies (such as calcium, magnesium, St. John's wort, and Prozac) are supported by scientific research; others are merely supported by anecdotal evidence based upon the experience of many women and physicians.

Some vitamins and minerals that appear to be helpful are B-6 (50 mg, one to two times per day); calcium (1,000-1,500 mg per day); magnesium (325-750 mg per day); zinc (15-25 mg daily); and vitamin E (400-800 IU daily). As for herbs, evening primrose, flaxseed or borage oil capsules provide essential fatty acids that can help with both physical and emotional symptoms. Evening primrose oil is widely used to alleviate premenstrual breast tenderness. Herbs such as chamomile or valerian root can ease tension, but take valerian only at bedtime as it can be pretty sedating. Dandelion leaf is a good diuretic and can be used for severe fluid retention.

St. John's wort (Hypericum) is widely used in Europe for the treatment of PMS, and it has been shown to be effective. I recommend 300 mg of a standardized preparation daily, increasing to 300 mg three times per day from about cycle day 10 until the start of your period. (The first day of a period counts as Day 1 of a new cycle.) This seems to be the most effective regimen in my patients, although some women need to use the higher amounts every day, and others only need to use the higher dosage from just before ovulation (which occurs about Day 14) until menses.

Exercise and diet are also essential in treating PMS. Regular aerobic exercise improves moods and relieves depression; it also helps with bloating and cramps. Frequent, small high-carbohydrate meals also improve mood by elevating serotonin levels in the brain. It is important to eat complex carbohydrates such as vegetables and whole grains rather than simple carbohydrates such as cookies and candy. Available over-the-counter is a special carbohydrate drink called "PMS Escape"; it is effective and convenient, but it is also more expensive than eating a whole-wheat bagel. Avoid alcohol, simple sugars and excess fat.

If these measures fail, or if your emotional symptoms are especially severe, talk to your doctor about whether you might benefit from one of the SSRI antidepressants. Medications such as Prozac and Zoloft are very effective in treating PMS. In fact, in most studies, they are one of the very few treatments shown over and over again to provide statistically significant improvement.


A final important point -- not all moodiness in women is PMS. Medical conditions (such as thyroid problems and diabetes) and psychiatric illnesses (such as depression) can share many of the same symptoms. If your symptoms continue to be bothersome, you may want to discuss the options that I have mentioned with your doctor. Otherwise, please see your doctor.
Zandra1 (f)
Re: Women: Why Do We Get So Moody During That Time Of The Month, How Can We Cont
« #10 on: April 26, 2008, 02:16 AM »


Honestly, I don't get moody when I have my PMS. It hurts sometimes while at other times it seems like nothing is going on down there. . . . no pain at all. But am usually horny when I have it  Cheesy.
~Lady~ (f)
Re: Women: Why Do We Get So Moody During That Time Of The Month, How Can We Control
« #11 on: April 26, 2008, 02:42 AM »

Exercise is good, particularly boxing or anything to do with hitting   Grin

LET IT OUT.

My boyfriend calls it "acting funny"

Everytime I snap, he asks me why I'm acting funny. I know he knows why I'm "acting funny" but he dare not mention it.
big father (m)
Re: Women: Why Do We Get So Moody During That Time Of The Month, How Can We Control
« #12 on: April 26, 2008, 08:47 AM »

Woman matter !
outlaws (m)
Re: Women: Why Do We Get So Moody During That Time Of The Month, How Can We Control
« #13 on: April 26, 2008, 12:19 PM »

 Cool

Wonder shall never end
Ebonyj (f)
Re: Women: Why Do We Get So Moody During That Time Of The Month, How Can We Control
« #14 on: April 26, 2008, 12:43 PM »

Thanks Upry
t-flow (m)
Re: Women: Why Do We Get So Moody During That Time Of The Month, How Can We Control
« #15 on: April 30, 2008, 01:19 AM »

ehen, mo so naaaa, So this is what has been happening to B.B. lol, thats my girlfriend. Can you believe that I never knew that it was normal for ladies to be acting like that when their period comes. My girlfrienf is always snapping and throwing things at me and when I ask, she just sulks, haha, now I know better,
tRoOE (f)
Re: Women: Why Do We Get So Moody During That Time Of The Month, How Can We Control
« #16 on: April 30, 2008, 07:17 AM »

Quote from: OMO IBO on April 25, 2008, 09:46 PM
i expect u to know what i meant. i couldnt be bothered with punctuation
i was just pulling your legs
opokonwa (m)
Re: Women: Why Do We Get So Moody During That Time Of The Month, How Can We Control
« #17 on: April 30, 2008, 11:50 AM »

Nice sex education for Opoks! Cheesy
cyriluzo (m)
Re: Women: Why Do We Get So Moody During That Time Of The Month, How Can We Cont
« #18 on: April 30, 2008, 12:09 PM »

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@control ke?its not possible,infact my husband has to leave d house for me sometimes because he can't stand my character
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Sounds like some wild animal that needs to be tamed. God help the husbands!(with abundance of wisdom)
cyriluzo (m)
Re: Women: Why Do We Get So Moody During That Time Of The Month, How Can We Cont
« #19 on: April 30, 2008, 12:10 PM »


Quote from jennykadry (f)
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@control ke?its not possible,infact my husband has to leave d house for me sometimes because he can't stand my character

Sounds like some wild animal that needs to be tamed. God help the husbands!(with abundance of wisdom)
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