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babree (m)
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I use to be ashame of talking about them, i guess am talking about them because am some steps up the ladder now. The first was immediately after my service year it was a big one the pay figure (like i gathered) was mouth watering and i was already calculating what i will do with the money and at that time i needed money bad. on the D-day i was ask to read a paragraph from a book and your truly was shaking all over like a leave on water it was so embarrassing, it never happened to me before. Believe me am a very bold person and am use to presentation before crowds. The cause My head was calculating the pay and suddenly a fear of what will happen if i don't get the job gripped me Lessons 1. Never count your chicks before they harsh 2. Go to the interview with a sport mind set i.e you either win or loss 3. Don't place all your value on the monetary aspect alone My second experience was with a bank, i was just not prepared. I got the invitation a day before the interview and a dress code was specified. I went in an oversized suit the top different from the bottom. The first thing the interviewer asked me was if am for the interview Lessons1. Always be prepared, do all you can and leave the rest to God 2. Get all the tips on dress code here; http://mynybhood.com/forum/index.php?topic=74.msg117;topicseen#msg117
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chipeter (f)
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men, the thought of your oversized suit made me laugh all day. i have also learnt from it.
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dove24u (m)
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quote author=chipeter link=topic=129847.msg2192648#msg2192648 date=1209131917] men, the thought of your oversized suit made me laugh all day. i have also learnt from it. Thanks 4 d tips.[
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Angle J
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That your over sized suit made me laugh, you are funny. Though I learnt from it.
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onyenkem
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My dear, thanks 4 d message and d oversize suit
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ezeizu
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omo na waoooooo. as 4 me i don't want to learn iwant to prevent, that's why i'm hustling to get my own suit
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earthrealm (m)
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lol, the suit brouhahah, is sure embarrasing!!
just being asked that question alone is enough to make u embarrased!!, thats my advice to all would be job seekers. save up n buy a suit. it mustnt b too expensive, just go to cms/obalende, if u can't afford the 10k suits, n buy the fairly used ones, between 3k n 5k depending on its condition.
wear it with a good shirt/tie, n u would be presentable, mine happened sometime ago,
my first real interview, when i finished service.
i had gone through the first stage with flying colours.
a panel of 5 including the executive director.
then i was invited 4 the final chat the the director alone.
n guess what i just cudnt maintain eye contact with the director!!!!,
kept staring everywhere n anywhere except the directors face!!.
the least i cud muster was an occasional furtive look!!!.
damnnnnnnnnnnnn!, remembering that day alone, just makes me laugh now!!
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babree (m)
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it so so nice to know u guys are learning from my mistakes
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xammy (m)
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there's alwayz 1st time 4 everything but yours was funny. it's coooooool u have the courage 2 share because it's better late than never.
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akinlayo
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a good lesson to learn from but must it always be suit doesnt a shirt and trousers do? a new suit for 10k is quit cheap maybe in lagos sha
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chummex
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Hi Babree, I liked your comment about carrying a sports mindset to interviews. It sure can help 'because I hv bn in a similar position boyfriend. Mine was not bc I wz imagining how much I would get but bc I wz scared of failure. Also, my interviewer said I wz not maintaining eye contact!
Earthrealm, that brings me to your post. Why do u think u were not able to look at the director's face. Were u scared or u didn't consider it important. Please we can also learn from u. For now, I 've resolved to even stare at my interviewer if it's what it means 'because the other time I spoke about I thought I wz maintaining eye contact 'because I had it in mind, but at the end of the day, my interviewer complained!
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princewajo
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DAT IS COOL WHEN You LEARN FROM OTHERS BUT IT HAPPENS You MEN You ARE ON UR OWN. THANKS 4 D TIPS.GOING 2 GET MY OWN RIGHT AWAY. 
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laidback (m)
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LOOK guys i'm really finding it hard to laugh over my interview mishaps. The few interviews i've had have been with multinationals (P&G twice, and Cisco Systems US & Amsterdam). I'm talking stricly six figures and wicked benefits. Usually i get to the last stage before somehow i'm dropped!!! I need help Oh! I will laugh from now till infinity when i land the position not before! GRRRRRRRR!!!!!!
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akyns (m)
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I sure feel u babree. Now laff @ mine, Got shortlisted for a job with mtn, was doing pretty well in the interviw until i was asked to describe myself and my relevance to the job, I just opened my mouth and no word came out for about 30 secs. Men! even Dumb & Dumber will be proud of me.lol.
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barry06 (m)
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I tell u friends if there's PHD in Job hunting and all thats invovled. then i ve got it.
yeah, babre is right : 'don't count your chicks before they re hashed'.
again, in interviews , make sure u eat very well before your presentation. its rule number one. i had that experience that nearly cost me my confirmation in the organisation i work for.
in interviews you that i ve to look weak. u must display high level of energy.
for more tips feel free to mail me:amechi.charles@yahoo.com
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abatcha (m)
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''Believe me am a very bold person and am use to presentation before crowds''
THE GRAMMER TOO.
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hanen
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@ abatcha
omg, i thought i was the only one that noticed.
@poster u really need to brush up on your grammar.
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earthrealm (m)
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yeah back to the issue about feeding well
one dude came 4 an interview in my coy, after passing tru the written tests in flying colours,
as he was finalizing issues with the GM, he collapsed n fainted!!!,
my
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earthrealm (m)
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sry i got cut off, my GM nearly heart a coronary that day. fortunately the dude was revived n a tin of peak milk was administered 2 him, he then confessed that he was on 7days fasting in his local church.[not sure if he said that 2 save face, or he was serious]
but at the end of the day,,,,he failed to snag the job!!, guess his fainting spell played a major role 2wards his failure,
so guys please please eat well n dree properly before an interview.
4 the dude asking about suits,
yes suits are a must if u are going 4 a banking/fin house interview.
4 oil n gas, it aint mandatory,
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Cecegrace (f)
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Whoa, earthrealm I couldn't hold me self from laughing out loud, after reading your post. It is quite hilarious but though it is a serious thing. Is good at least I have learnt from you.
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kazeem4t
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I must commend you 4 sharing this with d house. I picked few points. 10X
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Kemjisuper (m)
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thanks for the tips all, I'm almost at the end of my servive yr & i'll be hitting the interview stands pretty soon.
Cheers
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franko21
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i almost laughed to death about da guy da fainted, all tanks to his fastin but anyway i must commend u guys 4 your tips.keep up da good work
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ogabo
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tx same happened to me at aso intervw. 
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deyesborn
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your oversize suit make me laugh for long time. It is funny honestly and this can be humiliating. Thanks
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coi
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my experience was out of excitement that i will land a good job with a bank. i was invited for a chat with the Head of HR. Immediately I got to the bank premises, I decided to put my handsets in one beep ring in order to avoid embarrassment. I had to hear it beep because my boss could be trying to reach me as I left the office without permission. Out of excitement, I left it in one ring instead of beep. While in the middle of the chat with the Head of the HR, one of the sets started to ring; I was confused and the guy asked me to pick my call, as I quickly snatched and switched off the phone, I was still saying my apologies when the second one started to ring. Oooh, you can imagine the face of my interviewer. I think that was when he took his decisions
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buzortech (m)
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please I'd like to ask this question, What does a prolonged stare without words from a prospective employer signify?
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