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babree (m)
My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« on: April 25, 2008, 01:04 PM »

I use to be ashame of talking about them, i guess am talking about them because am some steps up the ladder now.

The first was immediately after my service year it was a big one the pay figure (like i gathered)  was  mouth watering and i was already calculating what i will do with the money and at that time i needed money bad.
on the D-day i was ask to read a paragraph from a book and your truly was shaking all over like a leave on water it was so embarrassing, it never happened to me before. Believe me am a very bold person and am use to presentation before crowds.

The cause
 My head was calculating the pay and suddenly a fear of what will happen if i don't get the job gripped me

Lessons
 1. Never count your chicks before they harsh
 2. Go to the interview with a sport mind set  i.e you either win or loss
 3. Don't  place all your value on the monetary aspect alone

My second experience was with a bank, i was just not prepared. I got the invitation  a day before the interview
 and a dress code was specified.  I went in an oversized suit the top different from the bottom. The first thing the interviewer asked me was if am for the interview Embarrassed 

Lessons
1. Always be prepared, do all you can and leave the rest to God
2. Get all the tips on dress code here;   http://mynybhood.com/forum/index.php?topic=74.msg117;topicseen#msg117 
     

duxxmann (m)
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #1 on: April 25, 2008, 02:27 PM »

Nice one.
chipeter (f)
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #2 on: April 25, 2008, 02:58 PM »

men, the thought of your oversized suit made me laugh all day. i have also learnt from it.
dove24u (m)
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #3 on: April 25, 2008, 03:04 PM »

quote author=chipeter link=topic=129847.msg2192648#msg2192648 date=1209131917]
men, the thought of your oversized suit made me laugh all day. i have also learnt from it.
Quote
Thanks 4 d tips.[
Angle J
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #4 on: April 29, 2008, 11:08 AM »

That your over sized suit made me laugh, you are funny. Though I learnt from it.
onyenkem
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #5 on: April 29, 2008, 11:48 AM »

       
My dear, thanks 4 d message and d oversize suit
ezeizu
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #6 on: April 29, 2008, 12:58 PM »

omo na waoooooo. as 4 me i don't want to learn iwant to prevent, that's why i'm hustling to get my own suit
earthrealm (m)
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #7 on: April 29, 2008, 03:29 PM »

lol, the  suit  brouhahah, is  sure  embarrasing!!

just  being  asked  that  question  alone  is  enough  to  make  u  embarrased!!,
thats  my  advice  to  all would  be  job  seekers.
save  up  n  buy  a  suit.
it  mustnt  b  too expensive, just  go  to cms/obalende, if u can't  afford  the  10k  suits, n  buy  the  fairly  used  ones, between  3k  n  5k  depending  on  its  condition.

wear  it  with  a  good  shirt/tie, n  u would  be  presentable,
mine  happened  sometime  ago,

my  first  real  interview, when  i finished  service.

i had  gone  through  the  first  stage  with  flying  colours.

a  panel  of  5  including  the  executive  director.

then  i  was  invited  4  the  final  chat  the  the  director  alone.

n  guess what  i  just  cudnt  maintain  eye  contact   with  the  director!!!!,

kept  staring  everywhere  n anywhere  except  the  directors  face!!.

the  least  i  cud  muster  was  an  occasional  furtive  look!!!.

damnnnnnnnnnnnn!, remembering  that  day  alone, just  makes   me  laugh  now!!
babree (m)
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #8 on: April 29, 2008, 05:17 PM »

it so so nice to know u guys are learning from my mistakes
xammy (m)
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #9 on: April 29, 2008, 05:51 PM »

there's alwayz 1st time 4 everything but yours was funny. it's coooooool u have the courage 2 share because it's better late than never.
marosky
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #10 on: April 30, 2008, 08:12 AM »

nice post
Dey,oh,yeh
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #11 on: April 30, 2008, 01:12 PM »

hi,guess that was a good tip,hp we all don't fall into d same situation Lips sealed Lips sealed Lips sealed
akinlayo
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #12 on: April 30, 2008, 04:43 PM »

a good lesson to learn from but must it always be suit doesnt a shirt and trousers do? a new suit for 10k is quit cheap maybe in lagos sha
oruru (f)
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #13 on: May 02, 2008, 11:01 AM »

good post,u are funny,  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
chummex
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #14 on: May 03, 2008, 11:41 AM »

Hi Babree,
I liked your comment about carrying a sports mindset to interviews. It sure can help 'because I hv bn in a similar position boyfriend. Mine was not bc I wz imagining how much I would get but bc I wz scared of failure. Also, my interviewer said I wz not maintaining eye contact!

Earthrealm,
that brings me to your post. Why do u think u were not able to look at the director's face. Were u scared or u didn't consider it important. Please we can also learn from u. For now, I 've resolved  to even stare at my interviewer if it's what it means 'because the other time I spoke about I thought I wz maintaining eye contact 'because I had it in mind, but at the end of the day, my interviewer complained!
princewajo
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #15 on: May 03, 2008, 08:49 PM »

DAT IS COOL WHEN You LEARN FROM OTHERS BUT IT HAPPENS You  MEN You ARE ON UR OWN. THANKS 4 D TIPS.GOING 2 GET MY OWN RIGHT AWAY. Grin
laidback (m)
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #16 on: May 04, 2008, 03:25 PM »

LOOK guys i'm really finding it hard to laugh over my interview mishaps. The few interviews i've had have been with multinationals (P&G twice, and Cisco Systems US & Amsterdam). I'm talking stricly six figures and wicked benefits. Usually i get to the last stage before somehow i'm dropped!!!  I need help Oh! I will laugh from now till infinity when i land the position not before! GRRRRRRRR!!!!!!
akyns (m)
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #17 on: May 05, 2008, 11:24 AM »

I sure feel u babree. Now laff @ mine,
Got shortlisted for a job with mtn, was doing pretty well in the interviw until i was asked to describe myself and my relevance to the job, I just opened my  mouth and no word came out for about 30 secs.
Men! even Dumb &  Dumber will be proud of me.lol.
barry06 (m)
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #18 on: May 05, 2008, 12:06 PM »

 I tell u friends if there's PHD in Job hunting and all thats invovled. then i ve got it.

yeah, babre is right : 'don't count your chicks before they re hashed'.

again, in interviews , make sure u eat very well before your presentation. its rule number one. i had that experience that nearly cost me my confirmation in the organisation i work for.

in interviews you that i ve to look weak. u must display high level of energy.

for more tips feel free to mail me:amechi.charles@yahoo.com
abatcha (m)
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #19 on: May 05, 2008, 04:35 PM »

''Believe me am a very bold person and am use to presentation before crowds''

THE GRAMMER TOO.
hanen
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #20 on: May 06, 2008, 08:33 AM »

@ abatcha

omg, i thought i was the only one that noticed.

@poster
  u really need to brush up on your grammar.
earthrealm (m)
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #21 on: May 06, 2008, 12:29 PM »

yeah  back to the issue  about   feeding  well

one  dude  came  4  an  interview  in  my  coy, after  passing  tru the  written  tests  in  flying  colours,

as  he  was  finalizing  issues  with  the  GM, he  collapsed  n  fainted!!!,

my 
earthrealm (m)
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #22 on: May 06, 2008, 03:34 PM »

sry  i  got  cut  off, my  GM    nearly  heart  a  coronary  that  day.
fortunately  the  dude  was  revived  n   a  tin  of  peak  milk  was  administered  2  him,
he  then  confessed  that  he  was  on  7days  fasting  in  his  local  church.[not  sure  if  he  said  that  2  save  face, or  he  was  serious]

but  at  the  end  of  the  day,,,,he  failed  to  snag  the  job!!, guess  his  fainting  spell  played  a  major  role  2wards  his  failure,

so  guys  please  please  eat  well n dree properly  before  an  interview.

4  the  dude  asking  about  suits,

yes  suits  are  a  must  if  u  are  going  4  a  banking/fin  house  interview.


4  oil  n  gas, it  aint  mandatory,
Cecegrace (f)
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #23 on: May 07, 2008, 09:28 AM »

Whoa, earthrealm I couldn't hold me self from laughing out loud, after reading your post. It is quite hilarious but though it is a serious thing. Is good at least I have learnt from you.
kazeem4t
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #24 on: May 07, 2008, 02:32 PM »

I must commend you 4 sharing this with d house.
I picked few points.
10X
Kemjisuper (m)
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #25 on: May 07, 2008, 05:38 PM »

thanks for the tips all, I'm almost at the end of my servive yr & i'll be hitting the interview stands pretty soon.

Cheers
franko21
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #26 on: May 07, 2008, 08:44 PM »

i almost laughed to death about da guy da fainted,  all tanks to his fastin but anyway i must commend u guys 4 your tips.keep up da good work
ogabo
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #27 on: May 08, 2008, 05:47 PM »

tx same happened to me at aso intervw. Huh
deyesborn
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #28 on: May 08, 2008, 06:31 PM »

your oversize suit make me laugh for  long time. It is funny honestly and this can be humiliating. Thanks
shibra
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #29 on: May 08, 2008, 07:05 PM »

good lesson to learn from your exprience man Smiley Smiley Smiley
coi
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #30 on: May 09, 2008, 02:10 PM »

my experience was out of excitement that i will land a good job with a bank. 
i was invited for a chat with the Head of HR.
Immediately I got to the bank premises, I decided to put my handsets in one beep ring in order to avoid embarrassment.  I had to hear it beep because my boss could be trying to reach me as I left the office without permission.
Out of excitement, I left it in one ring instead of beep.
While in the middle of the chat with the Head of the HR, one of the sets started to ring; I was confused and the guy asked me to pick my call, as I quickly snatched and switched off the phone, I was still saying my apologies when the second one started to ring.
Oooh, you can imagine the face of my interviewer.  I think that was when he took his decisions
buzortech (m)
Re: My Embarrassing Interview Situations You Need To Learn From
« #31 on: Yesterday at 07:43:45 PM »

please I'd like to ask this question, What does a prolonged stare without words from a prospective employer signify?
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