I Love Him Too Much

Why is it that if you show a man that you love him too much, he'll always take advantage of that and tend to use you? Is it not advisable for women to control their emotions more and show him an average sensible love? Most men only act that way when they want to get some, else, they control this love thing way better than women.
I've seen smart and professional women complain over and over again how a man used them just because their emotions beclouded their judgement.

Is it advisable to show a man that you love him to death?

Guys: Why do you ususally change to a fox anytime a woman is head over heels in love  with you?

'Cause they don't think too deeply. Try & understand that.

that's d mistake we always make :loving dem too much.

@ Topic,

Essentially Too much of everything is bad,  ,  . . . . . . . . ,  . . . . 

Don't think it's wise to show a guy u love him excessively,

this is one of the instances where I would certainly say. ,  ,  . 


'A little goes a long way'. . . . .  ,  . . . ,  . 

Gud Luck.

its not always true. Most times women show "too much love" by being unreasonably possessive. Men want an independent life too and dont need you around them 24/7.

as long as im married to him,y not?its not a crime to show him i love him wt my whole existense,c'mon he deserves it and a lot more

You are right and most guys see this as a kind of RED ALERT ! At least a little bit of breathing space.

and most men who dont show it,still cheat and do watever they want,as long as im a wife ,its  better to show love  wen im a wife dan showing love to a lover(boyfriend as we all know it)i dont see any big deal in putting so much in my marriage and been a good wife

sorry dearie but to me sometimes it can be a very wrong investment,i better invest on something dat changes my status dan investing on other things

@poster,

i want to say that the nightmare above is not only associated with ladies alone but also happen to guys that show too much love to his spouse.

From my own personal experience, all the girls that i really love and dying for rarely love me and they eventually turned me to mumu. can u guys bit that? countless phone calls. gifts, text messages but all in vain.

meanwhile, i give little or no attention to ladies that are dying for me. This is not wickedness but rather human nature.

in order for one not to make him/herself a slave in any relationship, just learn how to let go. A man/woman that doesn't appreciate you in return of the best love towards him or her does not deserve you.

i think at this point in time, we should change our orientation about courtship/marriage  and that it must be 50-50 from both sides and should not be left for one party alone.

so, if u are given in your 50% best to the relationship and the other party is not reciprocating, hmnnnn,  LET HIM OR HER GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

cheers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I agree with you and it's not just women who are guilty of this stifling kind of love.

A relationship is like a plant, it needs breathing room to grow. Unfortunately, some people want their plants under their skirt/pants every sec of every day. . . it is a complete turn off.  It's like enough already with the togetherness. . .don't you want to go out with your own friends? Do your own thing? Jeez!

Personally, I can't go out with a guy who doesn't have at least one friend he hangs out with

when two people have mutual feelings for each other,
but when its not mutual, the one who gives a greater percentage of love suffers

feelings can also be mutual, but because of the changes one undergo in life, a patners feeling may wear off, then the other suffers

this has got nothing to do with being a male or female
IT HAS GOT A LOT TO DO WITH BEING HUMANS

when people hurt us, we feel so victimise that we forget that at a point in time we have also hurt others

thats the way life is

it might be difficult to know if feelings are mutual at the begining of a relationship, but if you are observant you will know if the feeling is mutual or not after sometime.

yes to me o, it is advisable to reduce your love if you suspect the feeling is no longer mutual, although this may be difficult, but it has proven to sometime bring about challenge and recindle the relationship. but in most cases, one need to move on with life when a relationship is not working. that is after you try your best but be ready to make up your mind for your own good

wrong wrong wrong.

the feeling is yours and you are not just passive about it. you are very active. you can decide the amount to give or not to give at all, or how many people you want to give it to at a time. its your power, its your choice.
dont let things happen to you, make things happen the way you want it.

well, love hurts,  i guess thats why i stay away from all that emotion. men tke women 4 granted n vice versa.

Love is like a knife that cuts both ways,

i still insist,i see no wrong in loving my partner wt my whole being,for christ sake everybody has just one life and if u don't give out your emotions and love to your partner now,when will u give it out,in d next life i guess?

@topic

i will love my partner all d way,even if it means carrying him at my back everyday so that his legs wont touch d ground,i will,and if it means spoiling and pampering him like crace to show him how much i love him then i will,and if he doesnt appreciate it,then that is his business not mine,ive played my part