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annamaria
Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« on: April 27, 2008, 11:58 PM »

I like Keith Urban's You'll think of me. I listened to it a lot when my last relationship ended. It's a kind of "bold face" song as if the other person didn't matter and it got me through many dark days. What's your take? What songs give you that whole "I'm doing fine now, without you baby' feeling? What songs kept you going when you broke up with someone?

Keith Urban's You'll think of me lyrics

I woke up early this morning around 4am
With the moon shining bright as headlights on the interstate
I pulled the covers over my head and tried to catch some sleep
But thoughts of us kept keeping me awake
Ever since you found yourself in someone else's arms
I've been tryin' my best to get along
But that's OK
There's nothing left to say, but

Chorus
Take your records, take your freedom
Take your memories I don't need'em
Take your space and take your reasons
But you'll think of me
And take your cap and leave my sweater
'Cause we have nothing left to weather
In fact I'll feel a whole lot better
But you'll think of me, you'll think of me

I went out driving trying to clear my head
I tried to sweep out all the ruins that my emotions left
I guess I'm feeling just a little tired of this
And all the baggage that seems to still exist
It seems the only blessing I have left to my name
Is not knowing what we could have been
What we should have been
So

Chorus
Someday I'm going to run across your mind
Don't worry, I'll be fine
I'm going to be alright
While you're sleeping with your pride
Wishing I could hold you tight
I'll be over you
And on with my life

Chorus

And you're going to think of me
Oh someday baby, someday
cute-ass (f)
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #1 on: April 28, 2008, 12:00 AM »

It must have been love (but it's over now) Cry - Roxette
Angeleyez (f)
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #2 on: April 28, 2008, 12:04 AM »

If you die I wouldn't cry cause you never loved me any way - Mya

Mmmmmmm
Oh you hurt me so bad
It started out so perfect
Something God could only create
a union of both me and you on this special day
Never once did I take for granted
That you've been hurt before
So you treated me like a lady and even more
So I can't understand why you brought the storms into my life
Tell me why?
You destroyed every part of me
Now what once a beautiful lady
That you showered with your love
Must live with a heart that bleeds

[Chorus Dru Hill (Mya)]
I hope you never have to come this way again (This way again)
You used to be my lover and my friend (That was the end)
[Mya: ]
So please don't take offense when I say what I have to say
Cause if you died I wouldn't cry cause you never loved me any way

[Verse 2]
Promises made and secrets told
late nights spent in ecstasy
We made love in a bed of roses
For the universe to see
There was no holding back from each other
Both of our minds were free
whenever we spent time apart
Boy it seems like eternity

So I can't understand why you brought this pain into my life
Oh tell me why
I gave you a reason to live
And you used my love in vain
So go on by yourself to survive this alone
You know you can't come back home

[Chorus]
I hope you never have to come this way again (I hope you never to come this way again)
You used to be my lover and my friend (You did you did)
[Mya: ]
So please don't take offense when I say what I have to say
If you died I wouldn't cry cause you never love me anyway
No way no way no way

[Verse 3:]
How could this be
After all the love you said we shared
You turn around and leave
Boy you know you were my heart and soul
But I can't be hurt I gotta let you go
Together forever that's what we both said
I didn't know that life could be so unfair

I hope you never have to come this way again (Baby you did this to me)
You used to be my lover and my friend (You were my lover)
[Mya:]
So please don't take offense when I say what I have to say
I hope you die, I hope you die
cause you never love me anyway(Cause you never loved me anyway)

I hope you never have to come this way again (you never never never never never never never never)
You used to be my lover and my friend (You use to be my best friend)
You can get struck by lighting
Washed away by the sea
Burned in a fire just don't bring it back to me Cause
Cause if you died I wouldn't cry cause you never love me anyway (Cause you never loved me anyway)

Okay, maybe not that far, 
Cadet (f)
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #3 on: April 28, 2008, 12:05 AM »

Think of me- soundtrack from THE PHANTOM OF THE OPERA
annamaria
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #4 on: April 28, 2008, 12:14 AM »

@angeleyz, I love that Mya lyrics. It puts it so aptly. Isn't heartbreak a bitch?
@cuteass, don't you wonder if it was really love when someone breaks your heart or acts contrary after everything you shared?

I also like Kellis' I hate you so much right now. I used to even sing it to my ex whenever we quarrelled then. Gosh, was she crazy in that song, there was so much emotion in it.
cute-ass (f)
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #5 on: April 28, 2008, 12:26 AM »

@ annamaria

Its almost impossible not to wonder, but be it as it may, the love might have been there.

I can't vouch that i'D take a heartbreak lying down, and i know its always easier seeing it from the other side of the room, but honey the fact that someone loves you doesn't make them above the act of hurting you, and no matter how we try not to hurt the ones we love, sometimes its inevitable because we're human. Its only saddening that some mistakes are too costly that our hearts are too heavy to forgive them . . (too late to apologise - one republic)

Just being curious, was your heart just broken? If yes, please do take heart. It hurts as hell, but you'll be fine. You might never be able to go deep into his heart to confirm if for sure if he truly loved you, or whether he loved you for the right reasons, . . one thing you could do though is appreciate the good happy moments, look past the ugly awkward ones and try to move on. Easier said, but not impossible!
tRoOE (f)
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #6 on: April 28, 2008, 12:28 AM »

Am a fan of Keith Urban love all his song, even went to his concert earlier this year, it was marvelous

@topic
 His mine - SWV
We can't be friend - Deborah Cox
There is no me without you - Toni Braxton

~Antidote~ (f)
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #7 on: April 28, 2008, 12:30 AM »

"Mama's going to knock you out", NBN Cheesy
tpia
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #8 on: April 28, 2008, 02:29 AM »

great songs all round.

@Cadet:

 Think of me is my personal song from Phantom of the Opera. Grin Grin


Blue Eyes Blue by Eric Clapton

I thought that you'D be loving me
I thought you were the one who'D stay forever
But now forever's come and gone
And I'm still here alone

'Cause you were only playing,
You were only playing with my heart
I was never waiting,
I was never waiting for the tears to start

It was you who put the clouds around me
It was you who made the tears fall down
It was you who broke my heart in pieces
It was you, it was you who made my blue eyes blue
Oh, I never should have trusted you

I thought that I'D be all you need
In your eyes I thought I saw my heaven
And now my heaven's gone away
And I'm out in the cold

'Cause you had me believing,
You had me believing in a lie
Guess I couldn't see it,
I guess I couldn't see it till I saw goodbye

It was you who put the clouds around me
It was you who made the tears fall down
It was you who broke my heart in pieces
It was you, it was you who made my blue eyes blue
Oh, I never should have trusted you

'Cause you were only playing,
You were only playing with my heart
I was never waiting,
I was never waiting for the tears to start

It was you who put the clouds around me
It was you

It was you who put the clouds around me
It was you who made the tears fall down
It was you who broke my heart in pieces
It was you, it was you who made my blue eyes blue
Oh, I never should have trusted you

Oh, I never should have trusted you
Oh, I never should have trusted you



Always something there to remind me by Naked Eyes

Take a look at me now- Mariah Carey/Phil Collins

I Miss You So Much- TLC

One Last Cry- Brian McKnight





 Undecided Undecided


tRoOE (f)
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #9 on: April 28, 2008, 02:53 AM »

Have you ever - Brandy

I Tried - Brandy

I thought - Brandy

The one i gave my heart to -Aaliyah

Twisted - Keith Sweat

Like We Never Loved At All-Tim Mcgraw and Faith Hill(this song makes me cry)

Playas Gon' Play - 3lw
StephenP (m)
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #10 on: April 28, 2008, 03:03 AM »

Quote from: tRoOE on April 28, 2008, 02:53 AM
Have you ever - Brandy

I Tried - Brandy

I thought - Brandy


The one i gave my heart to -Aaliyah

Twisted - Keith Sweat

Like We Never Loved At All-Tim Mcgraw and Faith Hill(this song makes me cry)

Playas Gon' Play - 3lw


I love those songs.
tpia
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #11 on: April 28, 2008, 03:24 AM »

and of course

My Heart Will Go On- Celine Dion



Every night in my dreams
I see you, I feel you,
That is how I know you go on

Far across the distance
And spaces between us
You have come to show you go on

Near, far, wherever you are
I believe that the heart does go on
Once more you open the door
And you've here in my heart
And my heart will go on and on

Love can touch us one time
And last for a lifetime
And never let go 'til we're one

Love was when I loved you
One true time I hold to
In my life we'll always go on

Near, far, wherever you are
I believe that the heart does go on
Once more you open the door
And you've here in my heart
And my heart will go on and on

There is some love that will not go away

You're here, there's nothing I fear,
And I know that my heart will go on
We'll stay forever this way
You are safe in my heart
And my heart will go on and on

4 Him (m)
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #12 on: April 28, 2008, 03:41 AM »

too many sad people here.  Grin
tpia
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #13 on: April 28, 2008, 05:01 AM »

okay, here's a more cheerful one:

If Drinking Don't Kill Me (Her Memory Will) - George Jones
tRoOE (f)
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #14 on: April 28, 2008, 05:53 AM »

Liked this song during my high sch dayz

It's over - Kurupt ft Natina Reed

[CHORUS]
It's over, it's over now,
Move over, it's my turn now,
It's over, the game's shut down,
Sorry.


tRoOE (f)
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #15 on: April 28, 2008, 05:59 AM »

I Belong To Me-Jessica Simpson

This song just is so touching Cry Cry Cry, am glad she's okay after the whole divorce

And I won't give up me to be part of you
It's not that I don't want to have you in my life baby
It's just you gotta know that its got to be right baby
Before I open up my heart to you
I don't need somebody to complete me
I complete myslef
Nobody has got to belong to somebody else

I belong to me
I don't belong to you
My heart is my posession
I'll be my own reflection
I belong to me
I'm one not half of two
And if you're going to love me
You should know this baby
I belong to me

I gota let you know before I let you in baby
That who I am is not about who I am with baby
That don't mean I don't want to be here with you
I do

I don't need somebody to complete me
I want you to know I give all my love but
I'm not givin' all my soul

I belong to me
I don't belong to you
My heart is my posession
I'll be my own reflection
I belong to me
I'm one not half of two
And if you're going to love me
You should know this baby
I belong to me

Oh yeah

Love don't mean changin who you are to be
Who somebody wants you to be
Nobody has got to belong to nobody

I belong to me
I don't belong to you
My heart is my posession
I'll be my own reflection

I belong to me
I don't belong to you
My heart is my posession
I'll be my own reflection

I belong to me
I'm one not half of two,
And if your going to love me
You should know this baby
I belong to me




Quote from: StephenP on April 28, 2008, 03:03 AM
I love those songs.
Yea me too especially I tried, I think it was on her last album
ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #16 on: April 28, 2008, 10:28 AM »

Irreplaceable - Beyonce
Too Late to apologize - One republic.  Cool
annamaria
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #17 on: April 28, 2008, 10:30 AM »

@4Him, that's why it's called pity party songs, innit?  Grin. Come join the party, don't tell me you don't have some bitchy songs that you know about that guys like to sing or listen to when they've had some bad outings with babes. I know my male friends liked Maroon 5's This Love

Whitney Houston's It's not right, but it's ok. I particularly liked the video, with all the women in black. Gives the picture of the liberated woman who has just kicked out her cheating boyfriend and bitchily shares all the dirty details with her girlfriends  Wink

Unbreak my heart - Toni Braxton.

Lyrics to This Love by Maroon 5. I know guys like this one.
I was so high I did not recognize
The fire burning in her eyes
The chaos that controlled my mind
Whispered goodbye as she got on a plane
Never to return again
But always in my heart
Oh!

This love has taken its toll on me
She said goodbye too many times before
And her heart is breaking in front of me
And I have no choice, cause I won't say goodbye anymore
ooo! ooo! ooo!

I tried my best to feed her appetite
Keep her coming every night
So hard to keep her satisfied Oh!
Kept playing love like it was just a game
Pretending to feel the same
Then turn around and leave again


liftedone (f)
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #18 on: April 28, 2008, 04:19 PM »

I can't make you love me by George Michael.
StephenP (m)
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #19 on: April 28, 2008, 04:44 PM »

Quote from: tRoOE on April 28, 2008, 05:59 AM


Yea me too especially I tried, I think it was on her last album

Yeah it was on Afrodisiac.
LASIEFAIRE (m)
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #20 on: April 28, 2008, 07:37 PM »

Time to Grow by lemar is a good one
HR.hotness (f)
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #21 on: April 29, 2008, 12:54 AM »

~ Nobody Knows - Tony Rich
~ One Last Cry - Brian Mcknight
~ Gone - Nysc
~ I Will Survive -  Gloria Gaynor
~ Not Goin' Cry -  Mary J. Blige
~ Don't Speak, by No Doubt
~ Over You - Daughtry
~ Since u've been gone - Kelly Clarkson
~ Respect - Aretha Franklin
~ Stupid by Sarah Mclachlan
~ Through the Rain - Mariah Carey

And my all time fav

~ All Cried Out- Allure & 112
pahtahkee
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #22 on: April 29, 2008, 12:56 AM »

Ordinary People . . . . . . John Legend
tRoOE (f)
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #23 on: April 29, 2008, 04:09 AM »

I love soul artists

Gotta Go, Gotta Leave - Vivian Green
Emotional Rollercoaster - Vivian Green
Seasons Change - Corrinne Bailey
Put Your Records On - Corrinne Bailey



I don't want you back (mess it)- Eamon
No more  sorrow - Linkin Park
Complicated- Avril Lavigne
doejohn
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #24 on: April 29, 2008, 04:34 AM »

SEPERATED by Usher
Cadet (f)
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #25 on: April 29, 2008, 04:36 AM »

Quote from: tRoOE on April 29, 2008, 04:09 AM

Complicated- Avril Lavigne

my song!
tpia
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #26 on: April 29, 2008, 05:41 AM »

Tina Turner- What's Love got to do with it. Grin Grin
earthrealm (m)
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #27 on: April 29, 2008, 11:32 AM »

I don't EVER WANT 2 SEE U AGAIN, uncle   sam
Cadet (f)
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #28 on: April 30, 2008, 03:05 AM »


Mario - How Could You


[Verse:]
It's kind of crazy baby,
How I remember things, (like where you came from and how you had nothin)
I went and made you fly,
Put extras on your ride, (didn't miss a birthday now u can't even remember mine)

[Hook:]
You made it clear to me (you wasn't down for me),
(Love made me blind, baby) but now I see,
(you had things up your sleeve, don't even lie to me) I even heard it from your family,

[Chorus:]
How could you let somebody lay where I layed?
How could you give him everything that we made?
How could you call him all the names that you used to call me?
How could You How Could You just forget about me?
How Could You teach him all the things I taught You?
How Could You put him up to the Ghetto Kama Sutra?
How Could You put me in the back and give him the front seat?
How Could You How Could You just forget about me?

[Verse:]
You must be out ya mind,
You got alot of nerve (to think that I'm gone chill after all the shit I heard),
I damn near carried you,
I could've married you,
Good thing I found out before I bought that 7 karat for ya,
(I kno your sick about) the way I found you out,
(GO head and pack it out) I hope he's got room in his house,
You should have thought of me before you hopped in the sheets,
Damn I can't believe that u did this to me

[Chorus]

[Bridge:]
Girl I tried to give u everything,
Can't believe the ways u repaid me,
Girl u had it all,
But I guess my all wasn't good enough for you,
Baby I've accepted it,
And I aint gone trip,
Girl I'm movin on,
Sometimes I can't help but think that another man's going to get the one I made for me

[Chorus]

How could you let somebody lay where I layed?
How could you give him everything that we made?
How could you call him all the names that you used to call me?
How could you, How could you just forget about me?
How could you teach him all the things I taught you??
How could you put him up to the Ghetto Kama Sutra??
Cadet (f)
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #29 on: April 30, 2008, 03:08 AM »

Mario - How Do I Breathe



[Verse:]
How do I breathe, yeah.
How do I breathe, yeaaaah.
It feels so different being here,
I was so next to being next to you,
Life for me is not the same,
There's no one to turn to.
I don't know why I let it go too far,
Starting over it's so hard.
Seems like everywhere I try to go,
I keep thinking of you.

[Hook:]
I just had a week of calls,
Wishing that I never let you fall,
Baby you are not blame at all.
Remember when I pushed you away?
Baby if you knew I cared,
You'D have never went nowhere,
Girl I should've been right there.

[Chorus:]
How do I breathe,
Without you here by my side?
How will I see,
When your love brought me to the light?
Where do I go,
When your heart's where I lay my head?
When you're not with me,
How do I breathe?
How do I breathe?

[Verse:]
Girl I'm losin' my mind.
Yes I made a mistake.
I thought that you would be mine.
Guess the joke was on me.
I miss you so bad I can't sleep.
I wish I knew where you could be.
Another dude is replacing me,
but this can't be happening.

[Hook:]
I just had a wake up call,
Wishing that I never let you fall,
Baby you are not blame at all.
when I was the one that pushed you away
Baby if you knew I cared,
You'D have never went nowhere,
Girl I should've been right there.

[Chorus:]
How do I breathe,
Without you here by my side?
How will I see,
When your love brought me to the light?
Where do I go,
When your heart's where I lay my head?
When you're not with me,
How do I breathe?
How do I breathe?

[Verse:]
I can't get over you no, (ooooh)
Baby I don't want to let go.
Girl you need to come home,
Back to me,
because girl you made it hard to breathe,
When you're not with me.

[Chorus:]
Tell me how do I breathe,
Without you here by my side?
How will I see,
When your love brought me to the light?
Where do I go,
When your heart's where I lay my head?
When you're not with me,
How do I breathe?
How do I breathe?
Cadet (f)
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #30 on: April 30, 2008, 03:12 AM »

I Remember- Keyshia Cole

Oh yeah (2x) member
Oh yeah I remember
And I want to know
Where were you?
When I said I loved you
And where were you?
When I cried at night
Waiting up couldn’t sleep without you
Thinking of all the times we shared

I remember when my heart broke
I remember when I gave up loving you
My heart couldn’t take no more of you
I was sad and lonely
I remember when I walked out
I remember when I screamed I hated you
But some how deep inside still loving you
I was sad and lonely

No one knew all the pain I went through
All the love I saved deep in my heart for you
didn’t know where I would go, were I would be
But you made me leave and plus my heart it just
It just kept telling me so oh

I remember when my heart broke
I remember when I gave up loving you
My heart couldn’t take no more of you
I was sad and lonely
I remember when I walked out
I remember when I said I hated you
But some how deep inside still loving you
I was sad and lonely

There was no where else to go Oh
Nobody else to turn to no
For the rest of my life I promised myself
I would love me first genuinely

I remember when my heart broke
I remember when I gave up loving you
My heart couldn’t take no more of you
I was sad and lonely
I remember when I walked out
I remember when I said I hated you
But some how deep inside still loving you
I was sad and lonely

I remember when I walked out
I remember when I gave up loving you
My heart couldn’t take no more of you
So sad and lonely eh
I remember when I stormed out
I remember when I gave up loving you
I was sad and lonely
Cadet (f)
Re: Break Up Songs/pity Party Songs
« #31 on: April 30, 2008, 03:15 AM »

Gallery- Marrio Vasquez  Kiss

God broke the mold,
When he made this one I know
She's breathtaking but so much more
She walks in the room, your loves closed
Making you never want to breathe again
Her boyfriend has got so much dough
So much ice his neck and wrist froze
Is he faithful to her? Hell no
But she chose to be with him, shorty

Tell me is the money worth your soul
Tell me what's the reason that you hold on
When you know that dude has a whole wall of 'em just like you
And girl you're just way too fine
Gotta be treated as one of a kind
Girl use your mind
Don't be just another dime

Because

I can't take
Seeing you with him
'because I know exactly what you'll be,
In his gallery
It's just not fair
And it's tearing me apart
You're just another priceless work of art
In his gallery

She's so confused
She knows she deserves more
Someone who will love and adore
But his money's hard to ignore
She really doesn't know what to do
Girl it's just a matter of time
Before he finds another more fine
After he's done dulling your shine
You're out the door and he's through with you

Tell me is the money worth your soul
Tell me what's the reason that you hold on,
When you know that dude has a whole wall of 'em just like you
And girl you're just way too fine
Gotta be treated as one of a kind
Girl use your mind
Don't be just another dime

I can't take
Seeing you with him
'because I know exactly what you'll be
In his gallery
It's just not fair
And it's tearing me apart
You're just another priceless work of art
In his gallery

You're a masterpiece
I know that he
Can't appreciate your beauty
Don't let him cheapen you
He don't see you like i do
Beautiful not just for show
Time that someone let you know

I can't take
Seeing you with him
'because I know exactly what you'll be
In his gallery
It's just not fair
And it's tearing me apart
You're just another priceless work of art

I can't take
Seeing you with him
'because I know exactly what you'll be
In his gallery
It's just not fair
And it's tearing me apart
You're just another priceless work of art
In his gallery
In his gallery

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