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ashe2 (f)
Why Do Relationships Break
« on: April 28, 2008, 04:53 PM »

am reali tired of being in and out of a relationship amalmost on the verge of giving up the  stress of getting over and startin all over is so overwhelmin d problem is i have never known why my relationships busted?
Cayon (f)
Re: Why Do Relationships Break
« #1 on: April 29, 2008, 02:07 AM »

Not pertaining to you but some people don't get to really know each other before they begin a serious relationship. They don't wait to have intercourse. Heck some people have sex on the first date and just rush everything.   Rush relationship leads 2 lack of trust.  And trust binds love and other important relationship-related things together. If you can't trust each other, then doubts will appear and soon you'll start to dislike him or his habits.
Cadet (f)
Re: Why Do Relationships Break
« #2 on: April 29, 2008, 02:14 AM »

@post
Not strong enough
Radiant (f)
Re: Why Do Relationships Break
« #3 on: April 29, 2008, 02:18 AM »

Quote from: ashe2 on April 28, 2008, 04:53 PM
d problem is i have never known why my relationships busted?

Who will know?
Cadet (f)
Re: Why Do Relationships Break
« #4 on: April 29, 2008, 02:20 AM »

Quote from: Radiant on April 29, 2008, 02:18 AM
Who will know?
Haba na! hehehe, play the role of the Nairaland Therapist. They expect us to magically know the answer.

@poster
The string was too weak, it snapped from too much stress
Cayon (f)
Re: Why Do Relationships Break
« #5 on: April 29, 2008, 02:32 AM »

Quote
Quote from: Radiant on April 29, 2008, 02:18 AM
Who will know?
Cheesy Cheesy Grin
NaJa HaJe (f)
Re: Why Do Relationships Break
« #6 on: April 29, 2008, 09:43 AM »

Quote from: ashe2 on April 28, 2008, 04:53 PM
Why Do Relationships Break

errr. ,  . . . . .  because they are made of glass? Undecided
Eclairs
Re: Why Do Relationships Break
« #7 on: April 29, 2008, 10:24 AM »

Quote from: NaJa HaJe on April 29, 2008, 09:43 AM
errr. , . . . . . because they are made of glass? Undecided

lol.

Comes down to impatience most times especially when the girl's preserving her v like a trophy and the dude is in no mood to wait. It may also result from one of the duo not pulling his/her weight enough.

Dnt knw the reason for your own breakup but ask yourself why, first person break up, second person break up, third person break up, then fourth person come breakup. Haba, you carry shit for head? I think you gat search yourself. Not to be rude o. Tryin to be funny. Perhaps not good enof but emmm, the truth is that after the first and second, you got to settle down and think, think, think, then pray as well, smfin's definitely not rte
Steroid101 (m)
Re: Why Do Relationships Break
« #8 on: April 29, 2008, 10:39 AM »

Is simply low attraction, you can check out why attractions falls here www(dot)blogspot(dot)com/ , but since you are a woman, I suspect you might have character problem, which you think is right, but wrong in the sight of men. Do you know that men die for some girls, fight for her,  quarrel just because of one girl, so why leave you. I suggest you search yourself very well, they said character cannot be changed, I don't think is true because, me I can change my character. Try yours and see what happens
yemivictor (m)
Re: Why Do Relationships Break
« #9 on: April 29, 2008, 12:04 PM »

Because often times, we simply have our priorities misplaced!

Imagine a babe on some other thread saying her boyfriend makes her cry!!

Why? because she keeps hollering about both of them getting married in the nearest future & the chap seems not committed!!!

This is a girl who should be facing her studies squarely while every other thing should be secondary!

But sadly, she's got it twisted!!

These kind of babes tend to experience a lot of heart breaks before they get married, if they are so lucky!!!
tngtech (m)
Re: Why Do Relationships Break
« #10 on: April 29, 2008, 12:07 PM »

Sometimes, it could be distance. Distance relationship is very very, i mean very bad.
Eclairs
Re: Why Do Relationships Break
« #11 on: April 29, 2008, 01:49 PM »

Quote from: tngtech on April 29, 2008, 12:07 PM
Sometimes, it could be distance. Distance relationship is very very, i mean very bad.

Appears you don't believe in long distance relationship
Busta (f)
Re: Why Do Relationships Break
« #12 on: April 29, 2008, 01:56 PM »

- one of the partners wants to compromise
- one of the partners got too greedy and has wondering eyes
- one of the partners don't want to sacrifice to the relationship
- The relationship was not reciprocal . . . one sides, one person is always taking and never givin.
Templa (m)
Re: Why Do Relationships Break
« #13 on: April 29, 2008, 02:05 PM »

@ post

because they r based on lust
onyeka_ng (f)
Re: Why Do Relationships Break
« #14 on: April 29, 2008, 02:07 PM »

Quote from: Busta on April 29, 2008, 01:56 PM
- one of the partners wants to compromise
- one of the partners got too greedy and has wondering eyes
- one of the partners don't want to sacrifice to the relationship
- The relationship was not reciprocal . . . one sides, one person is always taking and never givin.
u're damn rite, not 4getting lack of trust,tolerance,understanding,,  and the list is endless
tngtech (m)
Re: Why Do Relationships Break
« #15 on: April 29, 2008, 02:55 PM »

Quote from: Eclairs on April 29, 2008, 01:49 PM
Appears you don't believe in long distance relationship

Exactly, because it sucks.
frank 3.16 (m)
Re: Why Do Relationships Break
« #16 on: May 02, 2008, 11:53 AM »

why wont it break? nothing good lasts forever.

reletionship wil break because of people's misconception of what love is.
to make your relationship last long enough, you must understand that love fades, therefore you must seek out those things that could serve as subtitution for love when it fades and bring them into the relationship.

this is not a guarantee that it will last forever, but long enough
babyx (f)
Re: Why Do Relationships Break
« #17 on: May 02, 2008, 12:20 PM »

@ashe2
relationships break because its about time,  if the thing brings more PAIN than JOY,  y should you stay.?
Gal you need develop a SHOCK ABSORBING SYSTEM,  get a grip on your EMOTIONS don't let them run wild,

So live each day like its your last,  let go of all those hurts and pains, all those excesse luggages will weigh you down,  so you can appreciate other relationships,  Wink
yemivictor (m)
Re: Why Do Relationships Break
« #18 on: May 02, 2008, 12:52 PM »

Quote from: babyx on May 02, 2008, 12:20 PM
@ashe2
relationships break because its about time, if the thing brings more PAIN than JOY, y should you stay.?
Gal you need develop a SHOCK ABSORBING SYSTEM, get a grip on your EMOTIONS don't let them run wild,

So live each day like its your last, let go of all those hurts and pains, all those excesse luggages will weigh you down, so you can appreciate other relationships, Wink


Could this mean having extra-marital affairs in a marriage setting!? Undecided
babyx (f)
Re: Why Do Relationships Break
« #19 on: May 02, 2008, 05:56 PM »

@yemivictor
not applicable in a marriage setting, only 4 singles who are yet to get to that level of relationship.
Scopium (m)
Re: Why Do Relationships Break
« #20 on: May 02, 2008, 07:15 PM »

There's time for everything. It breaks because it has reached the breaking point.
crazykid (m)
Re: Why Do Relationships Break
« #21 on: May 02, 2008, 07:24 PM »

Look before you leap; a relationship isn’t something you rush into.

Take your time to study your partner before giving him your body; if you fall for a guy because he’s cute, rich, or because of fetish reasons then that relationship won’t last.

And finally before you fall in love with someone, you must make sure that the person you’re falling in love with must love you the same way you love him. If not, such relationship won't last.
sylvao2000 (m)
Re: Why Do Relationships Break
« #22 on: May 02, 2008, 07:29 PM »

@poster:
Because you are still young,   just wait you will soon find out why when you grow up.
elizabetta (f)
Re: Why Do Relationships Break
« #23 on: May 03, 2008, 12:04 PM »

There is no love and understanding.it is full of lust
frank 3.16 (m)
Re: Why Do Relationships Break
« #24 on: May 03, 2008, 04:55 PM »

Quote from: crazykid on May 02, 2008, 07:24 PM
Look before you leap; a relationship isn’t something you rush into.

Take your time to study your partner before giving him your body; if you fall for a guy because he’s cute, rich, or because of fetish reasons then that relationship won’t last.

if you don't fall in love withg a person because of these things, can you tell me the reason why we should fall in love?
please be sincere, i really really need an answer
so that i can know what to do to make my relationship last
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