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dutchmillionaire (m)
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I have been wondering what u could be doing in the wedding scene of a girl who's supposed to beur girl 4 real.Starring @ her preety face which is overtaken by another man?having a day dream wedding her?imagining the difference between her life with this man and the better life she would have lived with u?watching how this man kisses your girl away from u or wipping the hidden tears inside of u?
What could you do? would you even invite him?
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wahala2007 (m)
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If you are going to be comfortable with it.Why not?Although Its safer remaining as distant as u possibly can,because it could back fire on your current relationship.
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bebe2007 (f)
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Dear poster,
I feel you. I will advise you best stay away. Do not toture yourself that way by going for the wedding, your imagination is enough toture spare yourself the real thing. A very dear friend of mine just got married too, i secretly thought it wouldnt happen because i wished for us to be together but unfortunately it didnt go my way. No one will understand how you feel except those who have been there. It hurts like hell.
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saucekid (m)
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i'll attend the wedding. . . .
eat wella
congratulate them
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saucekid (m)
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i go attend
its easier for the guys
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tngtech (m)
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Dear poster,
I feel you. I will advise you best stay away. Do not toture yourself that way by going for the wedding, your imagination is enough toture spare yourself the real thing. A very dear friend of mine just got married too, i secretly thought it wouldnt happen because i wished for us to be together but unfortunately it didnt go my way. No one will understand how you feel except those who have been there. It hurts like hell.
Abi @poster I can imagine you crying already. My advice for you is to take heart. Its one of those things. |
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simoen (f)
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i prefer staying away. . . . but if he left me 4 someone else . . . and i got som1 betterof him, meeen i will go wit d highest cloth and gale wit ma man  |
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Cute_Yemy (f)
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i prefer staying away. . . . but if he left me 4 someone else . . . and i got som1 betterof him, meeen i will go wit d highest cloth and gale wit ma man
But on the contrary, seeing the man you once loved kissed or married another woman will definitely linger memories and make one so uncomfortable you know.
@Topic
I doubt it  . |
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saucekid (m)
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i go go there and chop rice wella |
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onyeka_ng (f)
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nah! the distance would do me a lot of good  |
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dutchmillionaire (m)
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Y would you not invite your friend to the wedding.What would initiate u into going to the altar with another person without even giving your own friend who hopes so much on you a notice.
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Siena (m)
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The question's not very clear, at least, not to me.
How many scenarios are we looking at here?
Is this about attending, or inviting?
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iice (f)
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I have been wondering what u could be doing in the wedding scene of a girl who's supposed to beur girl 4 real.Starring @ her preety face which is overtaken by another man?having a day dream wedding her?imagining the difference between her life with this man and the better life she would have lived with u?watching how this man kisses your girl away from u or wipping the hidden tears inside of u?
What could you do? would you even invite him?
What makes you think her life with this man will not be better or equal to the life she would have had with you. Why on earth would she be your girl if she's marrying someone else. . .
Is this a solo relationship? You - deluding yourself that she's your girlHer - bloody moving on with her life
BTW if i was invitedi'l golike heck its free food! |
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dutchmillionaire (m)
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She never told me about the wedding.I got the news from my sister.at least courtsey demands that this girl tells me about her wedding with another man or maybe she was just desperate and knew that. I am not deluding myself,dear. sometimes we derail from where God has destined us to be,just because we want to be faster than who created us.
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iice (f)
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Rightshe must be suffering pangs of guilt to go on with a wedding and not giving a hoot about you.
Obviously the message got lost in translation 
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yemivictor (m)
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What makes you think her life with this man will not be better or equal to the life she would have had with you. Why on earth would she be your girl if she's marrying someone else. . .
Is this a solo relationship? You - deluding yourself that she's your girl. . .Her - bloody moving on with her life
BTW if i was invitedi'l golike heck its free food!
I'm pondering on that myself!
Self deceit is the greatest deceit of all!! |
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yemivictor (m)
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i prefer staying away. . . . but if he left me 4 someone else . . . and i got som1 betterof him, meeen i will go wit d highest cloth and gale wit ma man
How do you determine one who's better off in this context!! |
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fabiyi
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BEBE2007.
LONGTIME, IT'S GOOD TO HEAR FROM You.
@ POSTER,
DON'T EVER TRY IT BCS IF You DO, You MAY NT BE ABLE TO STAND THE SHOCK MOST ESPECIALLY IF You ARE A JEALOUS TYPE.
AS FOR ME AND MA FAMILY, WE WILL NOT ATTEND SUCH WEDDING NOT AT ALL.
CHEERS!
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saucekid (m)
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una too dey long matter go there and chop rice |
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whitelexi (m)
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A Sallam alaikun When u share other people's happiness, your's will come quicker. I will attend, and even try getting another chic at the event while enjoying myself thoroughly Learn to control your jealousy and also how to lose well. you don't win all the time. |
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dutchmillionaire (m)
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by the way. who said I'm even jelous?
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Cool G (m)
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I will go there if invited and have fun all the way. Why should i be jealous, moreover one needs to learn to accomodate lose sometimes. But mind you if you are the Jealous type don't even dare goiing because it may cause emotional hazard.  |
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