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DatNiggaAk
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i've been dating this chikito for a while and it has been pretty intense.
a friend now told me to go and check my HIV status because he sees me around with a lot of different gals
i've been trying to make up my mind about doing the test for almost 9 months now
but i now met a chap while drinking who told me had been positive since 2003 and then
i made up my mind to do the test.
two days ago my mind was in a messed up, f**ked up state because i've had more than my fair share of
ladies and alot of times,the condoms bust/tear and especially with someone i've slept with alot of times
when that keeps happening i take it as an excuse to hit skins raw(its actually sweeter)but when the time to
do the test came, i remembered all those occurences and frankly i had the heebeejeebies.i now promised God
that if i tested negative,i would no longer fornicate.
i did the test yesterday and like nolly would say "to God be the glory" but now my girl is mad that i refused to
celebrate my new lease of life with her by sleeping with her even with a condom.
wetin i go do??? 
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kizzle (m)
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 To God really be the Glory, u ate your cake and still had it, now its up to u. u can either ply that same road again and come back dead or give yourself a brand new life.forget about that girl abeg, For It Is Written, If your Right Hand Causes You To Sin, Cut It Off, (don't forget to dispose it and not trying to sew it back) dude,i trust u knw what to do, do it fast and right. 
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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Well you made a promise/vow to God. It is sealed! If you go against it then you are in serious trouble.
Explain that to your girl if she doesn't understand then she's not meant to for you shey?
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yemivictor (m)
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Well you made a promise/vow to God. It is sealed! If you go against it then you are in serious trouble.
Explain that to your girl if she doesn't understand then she's not meant to for you shey?
Actually, he could still go ahead & have sexual relations with a faithful partner!
The question is: can he vouch for her fidelity? |
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tngtech (m)
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Well as for me, i think you can still have sex with her but with a PPE (Personal Protective Equipment) Condom.
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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Actually, he could still go ahead & have sexual relations with a faithful partner!
The question is: can he vouch for her fidelity?
Actually he can't why? because he did this. . . . . . .
i now promised God
that if i tested negative,i would no longer fornicate.
 he made a vow to God so the sex would have to be with his wife for it not to be fornication. |
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karikatalk (m)
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i praise God for u. but what doctors say about this AIDS thing is that it could be passive (negative) for some years and then become active(positive) later on. so testing negative at a one-time go is not really it, am not praying otherwise though fear not, you are save in Jesus Name. Amen. Touch no unclean thing again! |
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yemivictor (m)
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Actually he can't why? because he did this. . . . . . . he made a vow to God so the sex would have to be with his wife for it not to be fornication.
Nice one there!! |
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Moyola (f)
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Go n sin no more bruh.
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Busta (f)
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Before anything, Tell her to go and do the Test too.
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yemivictor (m)
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i praise God for u. but what doctors say about this AIDS thing is that it could be passive (negative) for some years and then become active(positive) later on. so testing negative at a one-time go is not really it, am not praying otherwise though fear not, you are save in Jesus Name. Amen. Touch no unclean thing again!
Yeah, given your reputation OP what you should do is abstain for like 3 months & go back for the test!!
Whatever the result is then would be authoritative & conclusive!!! |
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Mugabe (m)
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i were you i steer clear from it,since you've already promised both yourself andGod that you'll not do it again.please maintain your stand.after all you no go die abi you do die?
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kola oloye (m)
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@topic,
The best thing for you to do is to go for a retreat, Re-dedicate your life to God.
Fornication itself (condom or no condom) is a threat to your relationship with God.
If its been ordained that she is your wife,she too will definately repent BUT for now
LET HER GO,RESIST the devil., let her gooooooooooooooooooo
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frank 3.16 (m)
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@ poster
do you love your girl? do you trust her?
if you love and trust her then go ahead and have sex with her. if you are not a born again, that is if you still commit other sins there is no point suffering yourself. do you think you can stay without sex?
leave that thing brother and stop decieving yourself, with time the thing go hold you and na you go rucs that girl, i just pray that it wont be too late then.
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jennykadry (f)
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@poster this your story get k-leg |
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yemivictor (m)
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I'll have to say i'm suprised with this post coming from a female!
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kola oloye (m)
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I'll have to say i'm suprised with this post coming from a female! That is what i call SINCERITY.She likes it well well - Period. My dear sister carry on but always play safe o  |
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Abbey_city (f)
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That is what i call SINCERITY.She likes it well well - Period. My dear sister carry on but always play safe o lol @ poster You've made a vow to God, your status may b positive before but it mayb b'because of the promise u've made to HIM that make u to be negative, i think u understand what i mean by that? so plz stick to your promise to (God) it's important (  ) |
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Zandra1 (f)
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Buhehe. Keep to your promise to God and also pray about your girl cause I forsee her 'eating her cake and having it' too . Hope u get my drift. |
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kola oloye (m)
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Buhehe. Keep to your promise to God and also pray about your girl cause I forsee her 'eating her cake and having it' too . Hope u get my drift. You mean you are an overseer? That's great. If this guy can genuinely repents,the lady will find her level. |
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saucekid (m)
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@ topic
break your promise to God first then face the consequence
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chukz4real (m)
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@ topicbreak your promise to God first then face the consequence LOL. Not that anything will eventually happen if he does have sex again or so. But having made the vow and turning around once more against the promise u've made, you will definitely suffer it (departure of the spirit of God from your presence). You will feel real bad. I have suffered same fate before. The whole world will look as if about to collapse and you will feel your emptiness after the few minutes episode. Then, ultimately you will find it pretty difficult to give your life again to Christ because, just as Apostle Paul once said; "You betrayed Christ after tasting his gudness". So, DON'T |
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saucekid (m)
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let him have sex again. . . . he'll definitely contract it
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Zandra1 (f)
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Am not only an 'overseer' but also a fortune teller, a psychic etc . |
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pahtahkee
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When the stupid thing is trying to rise again, spank it some sense.  I would have given you 101 rules to follow, but you are old enough to make your decision and be responsible for it. Good luck, and if your girl still demands for sex, cut her off! |
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waterworks (f)
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@ kola and abbey lol how una take know? abeg o lol
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DatNiggaAk
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may day was warfare for me my people.
i had to relocate from my house because i was being interrogated seriously.
why can't women understand thaty you have a new lease of life and want to a lifestyle change?
does it always have to be "another woman" if you decide to go off sex?
and worse still staying off sex doesn't mean we can't be friends but for women i'm begining to have a rethink
about their relationship with men.it seems no sex(either in the past or presently) means you can't be good friends.
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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may day was warfare for me my people.
i had to relocate from my house because i was being interrogated seriously.
why can't women understand thaty you have a new lease of life and want to a lifestyle change?
does it always have to be "another woman" if you decide to go off sex?
and worse still staying off sex doesn't mean we can't be friends but for women i'm begining to have a rethink
about their relationship with men.it seems no sex(either in the past or presently) means you can't be good friends.
so is this a blog? |
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kola oloye (m)
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@ kola and abbey lol how una take know? abeg o lol
Do you really want to know Talk now Am not only an 'overseer' but also a fortune teller, a psychic etc . Thank God,i now have solution to the container problem. My dear Zandra1, When should i be expecting the release of my seized container from the Port Authority? Am anxiously waiting for your response. |
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